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  • #16
    Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

    Originally posted by Muslim-Man View Post
    No, there is no agree to disagree. That's what western kuffar believe when one says homosexuality is okay and the other says it's not, then they agree to disagree. We have Islam and it's rules to tell us, and we have the Ullema to tell us.

    The Ullema have said that it is haram to go somewhere where there is free mixing if there is no need. So, no University is not haram but a going to a mixed gendered one is. There are single sex universities but you don't want an education, you want to go to one where there are boys so mixed gatherings can occur, and dating can occur, and sex can occur, and then Muslim girls run to the surgeon to have a surgery done to restore their "virginity" and then they lie and pretend to be a virgin to get married to a righteous Muslim man.
    Ok, what advice should you give that sister?

    Also, I attend university, that's free mixed as I don't have one that's only for females in my area, are you suggesting now I should leave it because it's haram?

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    • #17
      Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

      Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
      Attending university is not clear cut haram, like alcohol, pork, etc.

      There may be differences of opinions regarding this matter.
      True true, but making stuff from haram to halal is not good for ya. Music is haram, and who ever make it halal, then they are kafirs
      Quran 45:23-24

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      • #18
        Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

        Originally posted by obaid_m View Post
        True true, but making stuff from haram to halal is going for ya. Music is haram, and who ever make it halal, then they are kafirs
        I never said music is halal, I believe it's haram.

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        • #19
          Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

          Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
          Ok, what advice should you give that sister?

          Also, I attend university, that's free mixed as I don't have one that's only for females in my area, are you suggesting now I should leave it because it's haram?
          I wouldn't say that it is haram or halal, but keeping females only in your area is a good move.
          Quran 45:23-24

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          • #20
            Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

            Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
            I never said music is halal, I believe it's haram.
            I didn't say you did. I'm just saying!!!!!!!!!
            Quran 45:23-24

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            • #21
              Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

              loads of religious girls at uni, including some of the most religious people I ever came across at the Islamic society

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              • #22
                Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
                Assalamu alaykum Muslim Cupcake,

                Welcome to the forum and congratulations on getting your results :)

                If your father gives you permission to attend university, then there's no problem at all.

                Sis, university is halal, it's a place of learning and education and there is nothing haram about attending it.

                I hope you have a great time attending university and I wish you success in your studies.
                I think that may be stretching it a bit waaaay toooooooo much.
                You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                • #23
                  Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                  Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
                  Look, we're going to just have to agree to disagree here.

                  You believe university is haram, I don't.

                  Let's leave it at that, I don't want to argue further.
                  the actual concept of a muslim woman going to a certain location for an education (i.e a university) with the consent of her father is permissible afaik. No one is arguing about that.

                  the point being made is about haram elements found in these locations which make it unlawful. such as in this case free mixing, which is being discussed.

                  don't confuse the two things.

                  Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
                  I never said music is halal, I believe it's haram.
                  he is giving an example, and in the previous post he was also giving an example. he isn't targeting you.
                  You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                  You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                  • #24
                    Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                    Originally posted by obaid_m View Post
                    She can go, just let her remember that free mixing is haram, and ALLAH will forgive all sins expect shirk. If you make something from haram to halal, then you are a kafir.

                    Most muslim men/women hang with oppose gender because of their lack of knowledge of the religion or being misguide by someone.
                    People cannot sin with the mentality that Allah will forgive all sins except shirk. Remember, Muslims will also go to hell fire. They will be taken out after their punishment is over. Where as the Kuffar will remain in hell fire for eternity because of their shirk....them and the "muslims" who commit shirk.

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                    • #25
                      Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                      Originally posted by **Sister** View Post
                      Ok, what advice should you give that sister?

                      Also, I attend university, that's free mixed as I don't have one that's only for females in my area, are you suggesting now I should leave it because it's haram?
                      The question was about Islam and universities. I answered the question. What you people do is up to you since you will have to answer for it on Qiyama; no way I'm taking the rap for anyone else's actions.

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                      • #26
                        Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                        Originally posted by Muslim-Man View Post
                        People shouldn't talk about Islam when they don't know!!!

                        University is halal? It has free mixing, rape, harassment, dating, etc. How is this halal?
                        All these things you say are not a component of university.
                        Free mixing??It is wrong to say that.There is no harm that a man sit with a girl in one class

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                        • #27
                          Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                          Originally posted by researcher123 View Post
                          All these things you say are not a component of university.
                          Free mixing??It is wrong to say that.There is no harm that a man sit with a girl in one class
                          Show me where in Islam it says free mixing is halal?!

                          In a mixed gender school/classroom you do a lot more than sit next to a person of the opposite gender. Did you even go to a school?!

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                          • #28
                            Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                            Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
                            the actual concept of a muslim woman going to a certain location for an education (i.e a university) with the consent of her father is permissible afaik. No one is arguing about that.

                            the point being made is about haram elements found in these locations which make it unlawful. such as in this case free mixing, which is being discussed.

                            don't confuse the two.
                            My point is that if there are things happening, such as free mixing, does that make it totally haram for us to attend university and thus becomes strictly forbidden?

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                            • #29
                              Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                              Originally posted by Muslim-Man View Post
                              Show me where in Islam it says free mixing is halal?!
                              Also, it doesn't say a man walking in an alley in which a woman crosses has committed a sin!
                              Your definition of free-mixing is wrong sir. You would also term the above-mentioned scenario free-mixing, but it is quite common.

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                              • #30
                                Re: Is it okay for a Muslim girl to go university?

                                Originally posted by Muslim Cupcake View Post
                                So in England exam results came out today and I got the grades I needed to get into my university choice. I prayed to Allah everyday to help me get in and he must have answered my duaa.
                                But then I read somewhere that Muslim girls can't go to university because they're not allowed to leave the house without permission of their husband. I'm way too young to be married so I'm guessing the next person who has authority over me is my dad. And he's given me his consent.
                                So is it halal for me to go university? Why would Allah answer my prayers if it was haraam?
                                If you're dad says it's ok to go, then go. You will find many muslims there. My friends daughters go to university in hijab or niqab.

                                You could go to a univeristy close to home. I wasn't allowed to stay in the halls of residences so I went to uni in my own town. Came and went everyday. It's better to stay with parents anyway, because after uni you get married and move away.

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