Ads by Muslim Ad Network

Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

Good Manners

Collapse
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

  • Good Manners

    :salams

    Good Manners is a very important aspect of our deen.

    “The believers with the most complete faith are those who have the best manners.”
    "O friend, the cloth from which your burial shroud will be cut may have already reached the market and you remain unaware." Imam al-Ghazali R.A.

    GOOD MANNERS

  • #2
    Re: Good Manners

    :wswrwb:

    "Nothing will be heavier on the Day of Resurrection in the Scale of the believer than good manners."

    Be patient.
    Talk to everyone (as in give them respect) as if you were talking to your parents, teachers, boss, etc.
    Try not to use slangs.
    Never use profanity, ever.
    Don't interrupt others when they are speaking.
    Turn your whole body towards the person you are speaking to.
    Do not point at anyone with your fingers. Instead, use your whole hand.
    Smile.
    Listen attentively, but don't stare.
    Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

    "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
    - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

    Comment


    • #3
      Re: Good Manners

      Originally posted by KurdishKid View Post
      :salams

      Good Manners is a very important aspect of our deen.

      “The believers with the most complete faith are those who have the best manners.”
      No, this is for me first then the rest of you.

      Comment


      • #4
        Re: Good Manners

        Originally posted by Thauban View Post
        No, this is for me first then the rest of you.
        Don't need to thank me for taking you out of the red bars into the green bars.

        Comment


        • #5
          Re: Good Manners

          Originally posted by Uthmani View Post
          Don't need to thank me for taking you out of the red bars into the green bars.
          Ok I won't thank you. :P

          Comment


          • #6
            Re: Good Manners

            On the topic of manners, Abu Easa Niamatullah's lecture series on 'Al Adab Al Mufrad' by Imam Bukhari
            http://www.kalamullah.com/adab-almufrad.html

            Fully available for download. It is amazingly detailed, and i think an on going work. I wonder if he'll ever complete it.
            Allah is always watching [VIDEO]

            How To Weep For The Fear Of Allah

            Please remember to share these links with people you know so they can also benefit from them. :jkk:

            Comment


            • #7
              Re: Good Manners

              :jkk: bros


              Originally posted by Mikha’eel View Post
              On the topic of manners, Abu Easa Niamatullah's lecture series on 'Al Adab Al Mufrad' by Imam Bukhari
              http://www.kalamullah.com/adab-almufrad.html

              Fully available for download. It is amazingly detailed, and i think an on going work. I wonder if he'll ever complete it.
              Will check that out tomorrow :insha:

              I think majority on the internet think manners on the web and real life are different.

              You should be respectful and well manner in real life and on the forum.

              Believe it or not a lot of reverts revert because they experienced with the well mannered Muslims.

              It's a HUGE Da'wah.

              If a Kaffir visited the forums and our manners are so weak, they'll just see us worse but if we are respectful, have manners they'll see that and think about it.

              Me personally I take my manners more seriously when i'm online because of as stated above.

              Same with real life but since more kaffirs around i re-read what I type.
              "O friend, the cloth from which your burial shroud will be cut may have already reached the market and you remain unaware." Imam al-Ghazali R.A.

              GOOD MANNERS

              Comment


              • #8
                Re: Good Manners

                Originally posted by KurdishKid View Post
                :salams
                Good Manners is a very important aspect of our deen.
                someone asked me to take good care of you.
                Since you know about good manners no need
                Fear Allah! And be nice to me :)

                Comment


                • #9
                  Re: Good Manners

                  Originally posted by KurdishKid View Post
                  :salams

                  Good Manners is a very important aspect of our deen.

                  “The believers with the most complete faith are those who have the best manners.”
                  Sallamun alikum dear brother subhan Allah i wanted to wright about good and important of good manners but masha Allah you beat me to it.
                  Allah subhanna scribe's Raul Allah with akhlaq in surat qalam(" وَإِنَّكَ لَعَلَى خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ ) you are on the high standard of manners

                  A man come to prophet asked who are the one going to Paradise rasull Allah replay (
                  الذين يتقون الله وعندهم حسن الخلق) the one have fear of Allah and have good manners).

                  Comment


                  • #10
                    Re: Good Manners

                    Originally posted by KurdishKid View Post
                    :jkk: bros




                    Will check that out tomorrow :insha:

                    I think majority on the internet think manners on the web and real life are different.

                    You should be respectful and well manner in real life and on the forum.

                    Believe it or not a lot of reverts revert because they experienced with the well mannered Muslims.

                    It's a HUGE Da'wah.

                    If a Kaffir visited the forums and our manners are so weak, they'll just see us worse but if we are respectful, have manners they'll see that and think about it.

                    Me personally I take my manners more seriously when i'm online because of as stated above.

                    Same with real life but since more kaffirs around i re-read what I type.
                    :jkk: Brother

                    This is really true. When I interact with non muslims face to face I am always conscious of who I represent. I think because of this I always end up with non muslim women feeling comfortable to ask me about islam etc. MashAllah. I always keep it at the back of mind that our example can be a form of dawah too.

                    :up: will try to be even more mannerly online since it's only your words ppl see

                    Comment


                    • #11
                      Re: Good Manners

                      ...
                      Last edited by siddika; 01-03-14, 01:39 AM. Reason: lol posted the same hadith as mirror

                      Comment


                      • #12
                        Re: Good Manners

                        Originally posted by KurdishKid View Post
                        :salams

                        Good Manners is a very important aspect of our deen.
                        Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                        :wswrwb:

                        "Nothing will be heavier on the Day of Resurrection in the Scale of the believer than good manners."

                        Be patient.
                        Talk to everyone (as in give them respect) as if you were talking to your parents, teachers, boss, etc.
                        Try not to use slangs.
                        Never use profanity, ever.
                        Don't interrupt others when they are speaking.
                        Turn your whole body towards the person you are speaking to.
                        Do not point at anyone with your fingers. Instead, use your whole hand.
                        Smile.
                        Listen attentively, but don't stare.
                        Walaikumusalam, jazakAllah khair for sharing.
                        "Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion". 3:185

                        Comment


                        • #13
                          Re: Good Manners

                          Volume 8, Book 73, Number 59 :
                          Narrated by 'Aisha

                          A man asked permission to enter upon the Prophet. When the Prophet saw him, he said, "What an evil brother of his tribe! And what an evil son of his tribe!" When that man sat down, the Prophet behaved with him in a nice and polite manner and was completely at ease with him. When that person had left, 'Aisha said (to the Prophet). "O Allah's Apostle! When you saw that man, you said so-and-so about him, then you showed him a kind and polite behavior, and you enjoyed his company?" Allah's Apostle said, "O 'Aisha! Have you ever seen me speaking a bad and dirty language? (Remember that) the worst people in Allah's sight on the Day of Resurrection will be those whom the people leave (undisturbed) to be away from their evil (deeds)."
                          "O friend, the cloth from which your burial shroud will be cut may have already reached the market and you remain unaware." Imam al-Ghazali R.A.

                          GOOD MANNERS

                          Comment


                          • #14
                            Re: Good Manners

                            :salams

                            Lower your gaze, which is actually fardh.
                            Help your parents.
                            Don't raise your voice or you'll sound like a donkey.
                            Respect elders and those younger than you.
                            Sit when eating or drinking, even when drinking ZamZam water we should sit, contrary to the popular belief.
                            Last edited by .mirror.; 22-06-12, 07:48 AM.
                            Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                            "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                            - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

                            Comment


                            • #15
                              Re: Good Manners

                              Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                              :salams

                              Lower your gaze, which is actually fardh.
                              Help your parents.
                              Don't raise your voice or you'll sound like a donkey.
                              Respect elders and those younger than you.
                              Suit when eating or drinking, even when drinking ZamZam water we should sit, contrary to the popular belief.
                              :wswrwb:

                              LOL where did you get that from?

                              :jkk: keep this up :insha:


                              Volume 8, Book 73, Number 44 :
                              Narrated by Ibn Umar

                              Allah' Apostle said, Gabriel kept on recommending me about treating the neighbors in a kind and polite manner, so much so that I thought that he would order (me) to make them (my) heirs."
                              "O friend, the cloth from which your burial shroud will be cut may have already reached the market and you remain unaware." Imam al-Ghazali R.A.

                              GOOD MANNERS

                              Comment

                              Working...
                              X