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Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

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    #76
    Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    I am the stats
    :(

    I was not being serious.

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      #77
      Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

      Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
      :(

      I was not being serious.
      Its true though
      يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

      O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

      Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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        #78
        Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

        Originally posted by aynina View Post
        Its true though
        Blimey...

        Anyway the weather today was crazy, right? Who would have thought it!!!

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          #79
          Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

          Stay single. Fooooreeeeeevuhhhhhhh

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            #80
            Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

            Depressive thread
            Be optimistic and dont judge a book by its cover

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              #81
              Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

              Get married. Give it a good shot. If it doesn't work out, second option still remains. It's called divorce.
              Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.

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                #82
                Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

                Originally posted by AleaIactaEst View Post
                Why was this moved to the void? Awful moderating there.
                Without a doubt.
                You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                  #83
                  Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

                  Originally posted by Layla_ View Post
                  the thing is, you don't know someone properly until you live with them. So that brother with good deen, who is educated and wealthy and who you are attracted to might turn out to be your worst nightmare. Likewise, the brother who seems ok but you're not dying to marry, may just turn out to be the best husband, who really helps you grow in both the dunya & the akhira. You just don't know what life is going to hand you that's why always ask Allah subhanahu Wa ta aala for khayr and of course, istikaarah.

                  id much rather remain in a Mediocre marriage, than to remain single forever, subhanallah.
                  Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                  Sorry lol

                  I meant either way, you could end up with the poison you are dreading. I only used the single example but say you get married to the man of your dreams or someone who is right for you, you can't be sure what the future holds.

                  No guarantee in life. It's a gamble and that's why it's a test for us to tie our camel and hope that we keep our belief intact whatever the trial.
                  That's true. Whichever path you take, there's no guarantee of happiness in this dunya.

                  Best to not have high expectations on anything, lest you'll be disappointed.

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                    #84
                    Re: Which is worse : Settling for a mediocre marriage / Remain single forever?

                    Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
                    Says the one who follows scholars who give fatwas for halala. Pathetic.

                    salaams to all
                    (Fatwa: 1876/1358/H=1431)

                    When a person gives three talaqs to his wife, she becomes haram for him. Neither he has the right to take her back in iddah period nor can he solemnize new nikah in iddah or after iddah. A woman divorced thrice, can marry anywhere she wishes beside the person who has given her three talaqs. If the second husband after having intercourse dies or gives talaq and the iddah is over then she deserves the right to do new nikah. If she wishes, she can marry her first husband. There is no other way except it for making the woman halal for the first husband who has given three talaqs to her,. Thus, it is proved from Bukhari Sharif vol. 2, p. 791, fatawa Hindiya vol. 1, p 501, also, other fiqh and fatawa books and from the commentary of hadith. Also it is proved from the holy Quran:
                    فَإِن طَلَّقَهَا فَلاَ تَحِلُّ لَهُ مِن بَعْدُ حَتَّىَ تَنكِحَ زَوْجاً غَيْرَهُ [البقرة : 230]
                    For detail see the commentary of the said verse "Ahkamul Quran by Jassas (رحمة الله عليه).
                    (2) What is the way of arranged halalah before you?
                    (3) It is haram for her to do new nikah with her first husband during the iddah period of the second husband and the unlawfulness of intercourse is obvious.


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