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Why do brothers really want a second (or third) wife (brothers only)?

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  • #16
    Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

    I'm a sister. And it seems immodest to be talking about physical intimacy, so casually between the genders.
    I'm sorry. I came to the faith jaded (to say the least) and I still don't know how to act around brothers, or how to act modest at all (It wasn't really taught in my family). I still have trouble not looking a man in the eye (I am working on that though).

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    • #17
      Originally posted by ELM View Post

      I'm sorry. I came to the faith jaded (to say the least) and I still don't know how to act around brothers, or how to act modest at all (It wasn't really taught in my family). I still have trouble not looking a man in the eye (I am working on that though).
      It's okay sister. I admit - it can be hard.

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      • #18
        i dont understand either

        maybe its a case of "really wanting something but nagging when it happens"


        idk though
        "arm yourself with knowledge and laugh at the accusers"
        me - 2017

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        • #19
          Originally posted by ELM View Post

          You miss my point. I didn't say that the physical shouldn't be a factor in it at all (most men aren't that pious). I'm just saying if it's the only or main factor then I would not support it because he's getting married again just so he can have a different woman and probably not thinking about the fact that he is adding a huge burden onto himself and whether or not he can be fair to both as the Quran says.

          If you read another one of my posts I did say I was open to the idea Insha Allah, but only if it was a combination of reasons and the physical not being the first one.

          Is there a problem if it keeps the man from having Haraam relationships and helps him to lower his gaze?

          If he isn't fulfilling the condition laid down by Allah عز و جل then there is a problem, however what's the problem if he treats both fairly ?
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          Remember the condition allah عز و جل mentioned?

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          "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

          – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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