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  • Spoke to Mom First Time In 6 years

    I spoke to my mother on Saturday for the first time in 6 years. There are many problems.

    My dad wouldn't like that
    She expects me to text her all the time. While I have never been angry at her for leaving, because I understand, I don't feel comfortable talking all the time, nor do I know what to talk about.
    Finally, while I have simply not told my main parents about islam, I have lied to her and said I am still catholic.

    What should I do? Is it okay to disobey one parent? Is it disrespectful to not text my mother back and deliberately ignore her sometimes?
    And if you should count the favors of Allah, you could not enumerate them. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.

    Holy Qur'an 16:18

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    eesa the kiwi Fakhri-bin-Ali neelu
    وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ ۚ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ - 31:19

    And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys."

    أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَاهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةً ۗ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَادِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى وَلَا كِتَابٍ مُّنِيرٍ - 31:20

    Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, [both] apparent and unapparent? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Book [from Him].

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    • #3
      I think you should tell her or text her back that you're really not comfortable with regular daily contact, ask that she please allow you to contact her when it feels right for you.
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