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    If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

    Is this a sahih hadith or fake?

    I read if a man sees a non mahram woman and gets turned on he should go and sleep with his wife...?

    Is this really moral? I mean , what about a woman seeing a half naked man and getting "turned on" and then goes 2 sleep with her husband???

    elaboration needed plz..

    #2
    Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

    Im not sure what exactly are you asking here.

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      #3
      Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

      Originally posted by TheAnswer? View Post
      Is this a sahih hadith or fake?

      I read if a man sees a non mahram woman and gets turned on he should go and sleep with his wife...?

      Is this really moral? I mean , what about a woman seeing a half naked man and getting "turned on" and then goes 2 sleep with her husband???

      elaboration needed plz..
      Let's use some common sense here.

      If the husband gets sexually aroused, then of course he would need his sexual needs met. You wouldn't want your husband to sleep around with another woman to satisfy himself now would you?

      Same with the woman. If she gets aroused, then she too needs her needs met.

      It's common sense!

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        #4
        Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

        Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them: The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.

        'The Book of Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah)' of Sahih Muslim. 3240

        It's sahih. But, what is so immoral about having intercourse with your wife?

        How did you come to conclusion that women can not have intercourse if they are aroused?

        Islam has given both gender the right to each other in regards to fulfilling the desires.
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          #5
          Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

          you will understand when you are married.

          as a man, a slight breeze can cause you to have some needs.

          and in your daily life, no matter how hard you try, there will always be fitnah.

          this naturally charges you up. and it dosent necessarily have to do with seeing. there are pheromones and perfumes and al that, all designed to attract you. this will no doubt charge a man up weather or not he is married. he has no control over pheromones.

          so when he goes home, he should go with his wife, because she is halal for him, and a cover for him.
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            #6
            Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

            would you care to elaborate why exactly its 'immoral' for a man to sleep with his wife or a wife to sleep with her husband?

            thank you.

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              #7
              Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

              I don't know if it is a valid hadith but doesn't sound right...couldn't that lead to the man/woman imagining that they are being intimate with the person they got turned on by, during intimacy with the spouse!? :S

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                #8
                Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                First of All, Muslims, men and women are ordered to lower their gaze, so someone seeing the opposite sex is something that would happen on accident, and then that attraction would enter their heart. Now in order to fight this desire, they would sleep with their husband or wife, what's so hard to understand about that?

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                  #9
                  Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                  Even if they were thinking about someone else or having a fantasy about an imaginary person, that can actually just make things interesting. The reality is, that's life. We all get attracted to other people and the way to deal with it is by directing your energy to your spouse. It's halal and healthy. You cannot realistically expected your spouse will never think about some one else, they will.

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                    #10
                    Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                    They might need to sleep with their spouse because if they do not then the sight they saw might keep lingering in their mind and probably create a picture for them etc,.

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                      #11
                      Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                      Originally posted by uncle umar View Post
                      you will understand when you are married.

                      as a man, a slight breeze can cause you to have some needs.

                      and in your daily life, no matter how hard you try, there will always be fitnah.

                      this naturally charges you up. and it dosent necessarily have to do with seeing. there are pheromones and perfumes and al that, all designed to attract you. this will no doubt charge a man up weather or not he is married. he has no control over pheromones.

                      so when he goes home, he should go with his wife, because she is halal for him, and a cover for him.
                      "I'll understand when I'm married" - ok Mr. Uncle, but I am married, alhamdulilah - You're logic is astounding. My husband was shocked himself to read such a hadith and very angry about it as well, so not all men act or think like what you have protrayed. Islam is about lowering your gaze, guarding your parts for your wife/husband (that includes getting turned on from a non-mahram)

                      I disagree with fitnah, many brothers and sisters do not get affected by temptation if we follow Islam correctly and keep shaytan out of our lives..on the other hand, there are many married sisters wanting to sleep around and getting aroused by men outside as well (u really don't kno women, do u?)

                      The point is, how can there be a hadith thats sahih that admits the prophet saw looked at a woman, got aroused and went to sleep with his wife? Do u really have that stupid logic that allahs messenger would do that? Then he tells men if u see a female and get aroused (ie: meaning would like to sleep with her) he should go sleep with his wife?

                      on the contrary scholars have said masculine hadiths go for females as well..so instead of telling men/ women to lower their gaze, u do this? hmm how about your wife/future wife getting aroused by a muscular man and then go home to sleep with her husband all because a non mahram turned her on? keep in mind shes only sleeping with u because a "hot" guy aroused her, not because she loves u...logical or not?

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                        #12
                        Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                        Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                        Jabir reported that Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab, as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them: The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.

                        'The Book of Marriage (Kitab Al-Nikah)' of Sahih Muslim. 3240

                        It's sahih. But, what is so immoral about having intercourse with your wife?

                        How did you come to conclusion that women can not have intercourse if they are aroused?

                        Islam has given both gender the right to each other in regards to fulfilling the desires.
                        Brother, the question is about someone physically seeing a man/woman and feeling sexually inclined to sleep with them [ie: a non-mahram]..and that person goes to his/her wife/husband and has intercourse partially from fantasizing/feeling aroused from a stranger..? Guilt trip or what?

                        Sure Islam has given rights to fulfilling desires..My question is totally different. It's somewhat considered cheating. If you can do zina with your eyes, what logic is used when theres a quote quote "sahih" hadith that says basically instead of lowering ur gaze, go sleep with your spouse if u get aroused by a non marahm..umm isnt this zina with eyes?

                        We are becoming more and more afraid that these so called sahih hadiths have been made up by kufr to lead muslims astray..anyone can call a hadith sahih or call ig bukhari..u just have to give it a few decades or so before anyone starts following it...

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                          #13
                          Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                          Originally posted by unr1224 View Post
                          Let's use some common sense here.

                          If the husband gets sexually aroused, then of course he would need his sexual needs met. You wouldn't want your husband to sleep around with another woman to satisfy himself now would you?

                          Same with the woman. If she gets aroused, then she too needs her needs met.

                          It's common sense!
                          Read the previous posts..getting aroused is not the point..getting aroused by a man/woman who u aren't married to and then going and sleeping with your spouse because that person aroused u. honestly anyones husband who finds out his wife slept with him 'cause she saw a man would divorce her on the spot!

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                            #14
                            Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                            Originally posted by efefered View Post
                            First of All, Muslims, men and women are ordered to lower their gaze, so someone seeing the opposite sex is something that would happen on accident, and then that attraction would enter their heart. Now in order to fight this desire, they would sleep with their husband or wife, what's so hard to understand about that?
                            It's called cheating, immoral etc.

                            The fact is the Messenger felt sexually aroused by a non-mahram and he slept with his wife, does that make sense that the greatest man on earth would sin like that? Astaghfurallah!

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                              #15
                              Re: If a man gets aroused by a women - he should sleep with his wife? HADITH? WHAT?

                              Originally posted by donthinkso View Post
                              I don't know if it is a valid hadith but doesn't sound right...couldn't that lead to the man/woman imagining that they are being intimate with the person they got turned on by, during intimacy with the spouse!? :S
                              Exactly, seems like we're on the same page. It's considered cheating

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