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    #46
    Re: Power vs love

    Just seems really annoying tbh
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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      #47
      AW: Re: Power vs love

      We take women for granted.So we stop trying to earn their love.We think she has nowhere else to go.We bring food,we protect them,we are the leaders here,she should obey and follow.
      She didnt sign up in a military camp,nor started a job as a maid.Ofc she would rebel and try to take power.

      Why should it be : " if you really loved me you would be like this" , and not be "I would be like this to make you really love me"

      I grew up in a masculine society.Masculinity disgusts me

      But maybe I shouldnt be this harsh to my kind.Or should I ? :1popcorn:
      Last edited by Aetos; 09-11-17, 11:27 PM. Reason: I really dont know how to speak English
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        #48
        Re: Power vs love

        Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
        Just seems really annoying tbh
        Then don't ponder over it.

        Here's something interesting: some people (if not many) are depressed or severely upset because they choose to be. You could actually overpower your own mind and convince yourself of happiness, disregard desponding thoughts, but people choose not to. I guess the aspect of self pity gives them pleasure. The point is, likewise you can ignore annoying things and thus not become annoyed.

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          #49
          Re: Power vs love

          Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
          :salams

          So I've noticed that people start off fine

          sooner or later it becomes about power and who will submit and obey who. Games are played and neither side likes to admit they care. It's more like if u really loved me u u would be like this. Does it cross over into control?

          i always thought u would help each other become the best version of yourself but I guess u would both need to have the ambition to do this

          Lies are just too frequent amongst people. It makes me feel sick.
          About power or is it about those who can't admit that the man is the leader of the family, those who have ego problems listening to somone in authority?
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          "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

          – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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            #50
            Re: Power vs love

            there is no honesty left in the world, people are dishonest to themselves and others, the is very little taqwa, our reason for everything we do needs to be questioned. Power struggles are definitely a big thing in marriages

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              #51
              Re: Power vs love

              Originally posted by Morose View Post
              Red herring.
              Looks like your favourite phrase nowadays. -_-
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              "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

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                #52
                Re: Power vs love

                Originally posted by Scrooge View Post
                there is no honesty left in the world, people are dishonest to themselves and others, the is very little taqwa, our reason for everything we do needs to be questioned. Power struggles are definitely a big thing in marriages
                Not in the majority of marriages,

                Power struggle isn't an issue, because most people are aware that with authority comes responsibility.

                It's become an issue nowadays due to stuff like Feminism
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