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    #16
    Re: Power vs love

    Originally posted by candyapple View Post
    Some people bring the best out in each other others bring the worst out in each other
    True boo

    but why
    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
    :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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      #17
      Re: Power vs love

      Originally posted by asaz View Post
      You'll be the more dominant one. It just takes time. Let the years pass
      Lol wth

      i don't wanna be the more dominant one

      I hate decisions and deciding and all that stuff
      ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
      "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
      :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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        #18
        Re: Power vs love

        Originally posted by magok View Post
        both.

        the love for power and the power of love

        love to pillage a town of weak human peasants with your gronn hands and the power to do it

        wife ?

        boooooooriiiiiiiiing
        astaghfirullah

        maybe when u are a bit older mag
        ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
        "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
        :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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          #19
          Re: Power vs love

          Originally posted by Creamcake View Post
          it doesnt have to be a power struggle.. if its the real thing..
          If you love and respect the other person you won't feel the need to be superior.
          Like now with ur fam/friends who you love.. you never feel the need to act superior infact it feels horrendous and disgusting doing so..
          So it will be the same with a spouse. A good spouse, anyway
          Disgusting indeed
          ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
          "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
          :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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            #20
            Re: Power vs love

            Originally posted by Silent being View Post
            With the modern age technology you don't have to pry for information, its out there for everyone.Technology has utterly destroyed privacy. Don't go far, UF here is an example, good thing we are anonymous. Of course other platforms are far worse.

            With OP I bet she is a clairvoyant.
            Looool are u mocking me

            but yeh u don't have to go far....

            the modern age isn't nice cos back in the day people would be shy to talk to one another and a lot more hesitant cos a lot more thought and effort had to be involved. Now u can pick up ur phone and talk to anyone that might stroke ur ego for a while so no one is bothered :)
            ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
            "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
            :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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              #21
              Re: Power vs love

              Originally posted by candyapple View Post
              Some people bring the best out in each other others bring the worst out in each other
              ^ this in a nutshell
              Surah Taha, Verse 69:

              وَأَلْقِ مَا فِي يَمِينِكَ تَلْقَفْ مَا صَنَعُوا إِنَّمَا صَنَعُوا كَيْدُ سَاحِرٍ وَلَا يُفْلِحُ السَّاحِرُ حَيْثُ أَتَىٰ

              "And throw that which is in your right hand! It will swallow up that which they have made. That which they have made is only a magician's trick,
              and the magician will never be successful, no matter whatever amount (of skill) he may attain."

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                #22
                Re: Power vs love

                Originally posted by Sister_2009 View Post
                It depends on the individuals. I don't feel this way at all in my own life. We help each other, push each other to do better. How to know how someone is before marriage? I wish I had the answer.
                Allahumma baarik may Allah swt bless your marriage ameen

                it's fate so alhamdulillah Allah swt decreed that goodness for u alhamdulillah alhamdulillah
                ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                  #23
                  Re: Power vs love

                  Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                  You talking about marriage?

                  We have all sorts of people,

                  From women who have an issue with authority, (can't accept the man as the leader of the household)

                  To the opposite spectrum of those under the thumb of their wives,

                  To those who abuse their authority,

                  If you marry for Deen and character you won't have these problems إِن*شَاءَ اَللّٰه

                  Unfortunately too many people get married for the wrong reasons, and then realise later,
                  hmm what kind of authority do you mean
                  ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                  "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                  :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                    #24
                    Re: Power vs love

                    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                    You don't know the whole story.
                    i don't...

                    but wheb they break down infront of u, u think there might be some truth to what they say
                    ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                    "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                    :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                      #25
                      Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
                      Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                      You don't know the whole story.
                      i don't...

                      but wheb they break down infront of u, u think there might be some truth to what they say
                      You only hear their biased view of the situation.

                      Also they should not be dumping their marriage problems to you. It's really none of your business.

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                        #26
                        Re: Power vs love

                        Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                        You only hear their biased view of the situation.

                        Also they should not be dumping their marriage problems to you. It's really none of your business.
                        But what else are friends for if they can't lighten ur burdens

                        they might need me today and I might need them tomorrow

                        Have u never discussed anything with a friend?
                        ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                        "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                        :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                          #27
                          Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
                          Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                          You only hear their biased view of the situation.

                          Also they should not be dumping their marriage problems to you. It's really none of your business.
                          But what else are friends for if they can't lighten ur burdens

                          they might need me today and I might need them tomorrow

                          Have u never discussed anything with a friend?
                          Islamically I don't think it's correct. These are intimate issues. How would you feel if your husband was complaining to his friends about you, discussing your flaws and mistakes, etc.

                          My friends don't discuss their private lives.

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                            #28
                            Re: Power vs love

                            Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                            Islamically I don't think it's correct. These are intimate issues. How would you feel if your husband was complaining to his friends about you, discussing your flaws and mistakes, etc.

                            My friends don't discuss their private lives.
                            lol inshaAllah he won't do that ...although it would be kinda funny if he was like damn she's a headache with an appreciative smile

                            that is so weird.... I think Americans must not wear their hearts on their sleeves or sumt
                            ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                            "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                            :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                              #29
                              Re: Power vs love

                              Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
                              lol inshaAllah he won't do that ...although it would be kinda funny if he was like damn she's a headache with an appreciative smile

                              that is so weird.... I think Americans must not wear their hearts on their sleeves or sumt
                              LOL

                              yeah my brother said guys don't really discuss these kind of things I guess girls like to vent more.

                              But I agree that marriage related things should only be discussed between the husband and wife.

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                                #30
                                Re: Power vs love

                                Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
                                ^ this in a nutshell
                                Sup simply
                                "If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor."

                                "Nothing protects the rights of the minority like the tyranny of the majority"

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