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Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View PostOriginally posted by Stoic Believer View PostOriginally posted by Deeni Akh View Post[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] how's life bro?
Originally posted by ninety1daisies View PostOriginally posted by patient believer View PostIt depends on the reason sis.Lile.for example if you fell for him purely based on his look, then you could be in a dangerous zone.But if its based on his behaviour , personality and other reasons then pray and make dua.
since you met him once getting over him will be super easy.But you dont have to do that, since he might be your future hubby.InshaAllah khair.I don't know your situation but hopefully you make a good decision.Rely on Allah and don't put yourself down like this.
he asked me to marry him three times, he wanted nikkah immediately. maybe I screwed up. or maybe bc things are not solid 'no' maybe there's still a possibility of something in the future?
BTW I might also be interested.
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Originally posted by Stoic Believer View PostPerhaps he figured you weren't interested and moved on. I mean, he did ask you 3 times.Last edited by ninety1daisies; 14-08-16, 03:22 AM.Indeed we belong to Allah,
and indeed to Him we will return.
Quran 2:156
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if ya'll met a girl, and you talked for just a few hours, would you ask her to marry you? what does it mean when a guy asks a girl to marry him?
why am i even thinking about this, when he's gone and I'm not even ready for nikkah immediately.Indeed we belong to Allah,
and indeed to Him we will return.
Quran 2:156
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That's tough. You should have some more confidence sister. Clearly he thought you were good enough. More than good enough in fact. When a man asks you 3 times, it means he's really interested, trust me. Heck, you might even want to consider getting your father to contact him. I would not let this opportunity slip.
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Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Postif ya'll met a girl, and you talked for just a few hours, would you ask her to marry you? what does it mean when a guy asks a girl to marry him?
why am i even thinking about this, when he's gone and I'm not even ready for nikkah immediately.
The fact that he asked 3 times only supports this.
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Originally posted by Stoic Believer View PostDid you communicate this to him?
That's tough. You should have some more confidence sister. Clearly he thought you were good enough. More than good enough in fact. When a man asks you 3 times, it means he's really interested, trust me. Heck, you might even want to consider getting your father to contact him. I would not let this opportunity slip.Indeed we belong to Allah,
and indeed to Him we will return.
Quran 2:156
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Originally posted by ninety1daisies View PostOriginally posted by Stoic Believer View PostDid you communicate this to him?
That's tough. You should have some more confidence sister. Clearly he thought you were good enough. More than good enough in fact. When a man asks you 3 times, it means he's really interested, trust me. Heck, you might even want to consider getting your father to contact him. I would not let this opportunity slip.
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Originally posted by Stoic Believer View PostIf I asked her to marry after only a few hours talking, it means she's the one. Definitely. Sometimes a man just knows.
The fact that he asked 3 times only supports this.
jazakAllahu khairan brother.Indeed we belong to Allah,
and indeed to Him we will return.
Quran 2:156
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Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Postif ya'll met a girl, and you talked for just a few hours, would you ask her to marry you? what does it mean when a guy asks a girl to marry him?
why am i even thinking about this, when he's gone and I'm not even ready for nikkah immediately.
Maybe that just might have happened with him when he was in the meeting with you.
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Originally posted by ninety1daisies View PostOriginally posted by Stoic Believer View PostIf I asked her to marry after only a few hours talking, it means she's the one. Definitely. Sometimes a man just knows.
The fact that he asked 3 times only supports this.
jazakAllahu khairan brother.
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Originally posted by Stoic Believer View PostIf I asked her to marry after only a few hours talking, it means she's the one. Definitely. Sometimes a man just knows.
The fact that he asked 3 times only supports this.
i kinda just knew too, when i first saw and spoke to him.
But, right now i'm not gonna push for this further. Things are ambigious. Alhamdulillah. I'm going to focus on my deen because that's really important right now. And finally when I am more ready for nikkah, and he's still around then I'll know he was the one.Indeed we belong to Allah,
and indeed to Him we will return.
Quran 2:156
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Originally posted by Deeni Akh View PostIf the girl ticked all the boxes and more and the gut feeling is screaming 'that's the one' then the guy would ask for marriage after a few hours.
Maybe that just might have happened with him when he was in the meeting with you.Indeed we belong to Allah,
and indeed to Him we will return.
Quran 2:156
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