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[ms.muslimah]

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how do you move on and stop thinking about someone that you met via wali, everything was Islamic, how do you move on and stop thinking about the person especially when there's been no actual closure from either side? knowing everything that's happening right now is qadr, but why do you keep thinking about the other person so much, when it was just that you talked for a few hours at most and you felt good feelings you've never felt before?

Aww sis (: I don't know the answers to your question, but I pray everything goes well for you. If you haven't told your wali/family how you feel you should (:

[ninety1daisies]

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awwwww...that's so adorable.Sister let your wali know asap because this is a natural feeling which humans don't have much control.InshaAllah everything goes well for you .

Aww sis (: I don't know the answers to your question, but I pray everything goes well for you. If you haven't told your wali/family how you feel you should (:

it's complicated.

:( make dua for me okay? I feel so.. I dunno.

[ninety1daisies]

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[patient believer]

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It depends on the reason sis.Lile.for example if you fell for him purely based on his look, then you could be in a dangerous zone.But if its based on his behaviour , personality and other reasons then pray and make dua.
since you met him once getting over him will be super easy.But you dont have to do that, since he might be your future hubby.InshaAllah khair.I don't know your situation but hopefully you make a good decision.Rely on Allah and don't put yourself down like this.

[ninety1daisies]

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It depends on the reason sis.Lile.for example if you fell for him purely based on his look, then you could be in a dangerous zone.But if its based on his behaviour , personality and other reasons then pray and make dua.
since you met him once getting over him will be super easy.But you dont have to do that, since he might be your future hubby.InshaAllah khair.I don't know your situation but hopefully you make a good decision.Rely on Allah and don't put yourself down like this.

met him twice...it was his look, the little things he said and did..his behavior, his voice everything... lols I sound so silly. wth is wrong with me. ugh. UGHHH. I'm done.

he asked me to marry him three times, he wanted nikkah immediately. maybe I screwed up. or maybe bc things are not solid 'no' maybe there's still a possibility of something in the future?

[Deeni Akh]

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[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] since when did you become a rishta aunty?

:scratch:

[Stoic Believer]

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] how's life bro?

Beautiful akhi. I'm out of town right now, so I might not be as active.

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] how's life bro?

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] since when did you become a rishta aunty?

You're gonna have to explain this one.

It depends on the reason sis.Lile.for example if you fell for him purely based on his look, then you could be in a dangerous zone.But if its based on his behaviour , personality and other reasons then pray and make dua.
since you met him once getting over him will be super easy.But you dont have to do that, since he might be your future hubby.InshaAllah khair.I don't know your situation but hopefully you make a good decision.Rely on Allah and don't put yourself down like this.

met him twice...it was his look, the little things he said and did..his behavior, his voice everything... lols I sound so silly. wth is wrong with me. ugh. UGHHH. I'm done.

he asked me to marry him three times, he wanted nikkah immediately. maybe I screwed up. or maybe bc things are not solid 'no' maybe there's still a possibility of something in the future?

What are you doing? Go for it!

[Linkdeutscher]

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] how's life bro?

Beautiful akhi. I'm out of town right now, so I might not be as active.

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] how's life bro?

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] since when did you become a rishta aunty?

You're gonna have to explain this one.

It depends on the reason sis.Lile.for example if you fell for him purely based on his look, then you could be in a dangerous zone.But if its based on his behaviour , personality and other reasons then pray and make dua.
since you met him once getting over him will be super easy.But you dont have to do that, since he might be your future hubby.InshaAllah khair.I don't know your situation but hopefully you make a good decision.Rely on Allah and don't put yourself down like this.

met him twice...it was his look, the little things he said and did..his behavior, his voice everything... lols I sound so silly. wth is wrong with me. ugh. UGHHH. I'm done.

he asked me to marry him three times, he wanted nikkah immediately. maybe I screwed up. or maybe bc things are not solid 'no' maybe there's still a possibility of something in the future?

What are you doing? Go for it!

Softy asked regarding you. I merely assumed it was due to obvious reasons.

BTW I might also be interested.

[ninety1daisies]

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Beautiful akhi. I'm out of town right now, so I might not be as active.



You're gonna have to explain this one.



What are you doing? Go for it!

i think he's no longer interested in me. it's complicated.

[Deeni Akh]

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Softy asked regarding you. I merely assumed it was due to obvious reasons.

BTW I might also be interested.

[MENTION=122131]Stoic Believer[/MENTION] sort this guy out, he's trying to use me to get to you.

[InTheBegining]

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Ok so this thread exists.

[Deeni Akh]

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met him twice...it was his look, the little things he said and did..his behavior, his voice everything... lols I sound so silly. wth is wrong with me. ugh. UGHHH. I'm done.

he asked me to marry him three times, he wanted nikkah immediately. maybe I screwed up. or maybe bc things are not solid 'no' maybe there's still a possibility of something in the future?

You may not come across a potential like this again, take the opportunity :up:

[ninety1daisies]

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You may not come across a potential like this again, take the opportunity :up:

i think he's gone and not as interested as he was initially. maybe.

Alhamdulillah everything happens for the best.

[Deeni Akh]

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i think he's gone and not as interested as he was initially. maybe.

Alhamdulillah everything happens for the best.

I see...Alhamdulillah

There is always khair and hikmah in the qadr of Allah swt.

[ninety1daisies]

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I see...Alhamdulillah

There is always khair and hikmah in the qadr of Allah swt.

khair means 'good' right? :)