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    Last edited by iRepIslam; 28-07-16, 09:57 PM.
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    • Re: What made you sad today..

      Originally posted by ashmeo View Post
      What increases rizq?
      Istighfar is one method of increasing Rizq.

      “I [Prophet Noah] said (to them): ‘Ask forgiveness from your Lord; Verily, He is Oft-Forgiving. He will send rain to you in abundance. ‘And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.’ ” Surah Nuh Verse 10-12

      And this, from the Prophet (Peace be upon Him):

      “If anyone constantly seeks pardon (from Allah), Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from where he expects not.” [Abu Dawud].

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        Came across cousin bros from back home posting pics with girls online like they try and act so western lol.

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          Originally posted by SimpleTraveller View Post
          Istighfar is one method of increasing Rizq.

          “I [Prophet Noah] said (to them): ‘Ask forgiveness from your Lord; Verily, He is Oft-Forgiving. He will send rain to you in abundance. ‘And give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.’ ” Surah Nuh Verse 10-12

          And this, from the Prophet (Peace be upon Him):

          “If anyone constantly seeks pardon (from Allah), Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from where he expects not.” [Abu Dawud].
          :jkk: :)

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          • Re: What made you sad today..

            Originally posted by Deeni Akh View Post
            I'm sure she would've been fired or sanctioned at the least if she slandered a manager right?
            She denied it to my managers face! But everyone knows she did. Really dislike sly people. Not only that, she's always late every morning and my manager is away. I keep telling her and just get the same crappy excuses :|
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              :(
              And with Him are the keys of the Ghayb (all that is hidden), none knows them but He. And He knows whatever there is in the land and in the sea; not a leaf falls, but He knows it. There is not a grain in the darkness of the earth nor anything fresh or dry, but is written in a Clear Record”
              [al-An’aam 6:59]

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              • Re: What made you sad today..

                Originally posted by Creamcake View Post
                :(
                Are you okay sister?
                Narrated Anas:
                The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "None of you will have faith till he wishes for his (Muslim) brother what he likes for himself." [Bukhari]

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                  I went shopping today and saw this Muslim father cursing & making dua against his daughter who's probably like 10 years old. She was wearing a hijab and part of her neck was showing, then he made dua that her neck breaks and she started crying. It made me sad to see how a father can treat his daughter like that.
                  “And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than (his) jugular vein.” (Quran 50:16)

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                  • Re: What made you sad today..

                    Originally posted by The Poet View Post
                    I went shopping today and saw this Muslim father cursing & making dua against his daughter who's probably like 10 years old. She was wearing a hijab and part of her neck was showing, then he made dua that her neck breaks and she started crying. It made me sad to see how a father can treat his daughter like that.
                    :(

                    Poor child. :(

                    It's disgusting how some parents can just throw around the worst dua at their kids.
                    O people who take pleasure in a life that will vanish, falling in love with a fading shadow is sheer stupidity~ Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyya

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                    • Re: What made you sad today..

                      Originally posted by The Poet View Post
                      I went shopping today and saw this Muslim father cursing & making dua against his daughter who's probably like 10 years old. She was wearing a hijab and part of her neck was showing, then he made dua that her neck breaks and she started crying. It made me sad to see how a father can treat his daughter like that.

                      Poor child. :(

                      It's disgusting how some parents can just throw around the worst dua at their kids.
                      Last edited by *sheba*; 30-07-16, 11:32 PM.
                      O people who take pleasure in a life that will vanish, falling in love with a fading shadow is sheer stupidity~ Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyya

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                      • Re: What made you sad today..

                        Originally posted by Creamcake View Post
                        :(
                        :salams Sister Creamcake

                        in'shaa'ALLAH Thank ALLAH AL-AZEEM for all of your blessing always because in'shaa'ALLAH if you thank ALLAH AL-AZEEM for all of your blessing always you will be happy in realizing how blessed you really are with your never ending amount of blessings AL-HAMDU ILLAH RABBIL ALAMEEN wa ma’shaa’ALLAH and Also ALLAH AL-AZEEM will increase your blessings if your thankful only to ALLAH AL-AZEEM always.

                        in'shaa'ALLAH Pray duaa to ALLAH AL-AZEEM to get rid of your sadness and to make you happy always.
                        Last edited by ABDEL-AZEEM; 30-07-16, 11:39 PM.
                        ALLAH AL-AZEEM is the one and only GOD and ALLAH AL-AZEEM created everything. Therefore ALLAH AL-AZEEM created the Earth and created everything in the Earth and created all of the heavens and created everything in all of the heavens and created all of the hells and created everything in all of the hells and created all of the universes and created everything in all of the universes and created everything in between them.

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                          “Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” – Lao Tzu

                          It is human nature to want to be liked and accepted. However, this often leads to people worrying too much about what others are thinking about them.

                          This kind of excessive worrying can have a negative effect on your life. It can be so debilitating that it interferes with your ability to feel at ease with yourself and around others. Do not let it prevent you from living your life to the fullest potential.

                          Here are ten reasons why you should not care about what others think:


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                          1. It’s Not Their Life, So It’s None Of Their Business

                          People are entitled to think whatever they want, just as you are entitled to think what you want. What people think of you cannot change who you are or what you are worth, unless you allow them to.

                          This is your life to live. At the end of the day you are the only person who needs to approve of your own choices.

                          2. They Don’t Know What’s Best For You

                          Nobody will ever be as invested in your life as you. Only you know what is best for you, and that entails learning from your own choices. The only way you will ever truly learn is through making your own decisions, taking full responsibility for them, and that way if you do fail, at least you can learn from it wholeheartedly, as opposed to blaming somebody else.


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                          3. What’s Right For Someone Else May Be Completely Wrong For You

                          It’s important to recognize that someone’s opinion is often based on what they would do. This alone is the problem. What is best for somebody else, can be the worst thing for you. What one person considers garbage can be another person’s treasure. We are all so unique. Only you know what is right for you.

                          4. It Will Keep You From Your Dreams

                          If you are constantly worried about what other people think, you will never get to where you need to go in life. You are going to have to do things that don’t always meet people’s standards. You will come into situations where you have to put your pride, and your reputation on the line to get what you want. If you are constantly worried about what people are thinking, you will never have the will to do what’s right.


                          5. You’re The One Stuck With The End Result

                          In life, you are the one stuck with the consequences of your decisions. For example, if someone suggests you buy some stocks, but you just don’t feel like it’s the right choice, you are the only one who will live the consequences. If the stock falls and you lose a lot of money, you are the one that will have to live with the fact that you didn’t follow your inner call. When people give you their suggestions or even orders, there is no risk for them. They don’t have to live with your choices—but you do.

                          6. People’s Thoughts Change On A Regular Basis

                          We are constantly changing. Some philosophers and theorists suggest that we are in a constant state of flux, so much that we cannot even say we have one, specific ‘self’ (or a fixed personality). People’s thoughts, ideas and views change on a regular basis.

                          That means even if somebody does think badly of you at the moment, there is a good chance they will think differently in the near future. So basically, people’s thoughts don’t really matter.

                          7. Life Is Simply Too Short

                          You only have one life to live, so why would you spend it worrying about other people’s opinions? Do whatever you want, be whoever you want. You’re not going to see these people after you’re dead. You probably won’t even see them in a year from now. Live your life without worrying about other people’s thoughts and opinion, and you will live your life to the maximum.

                          8. You Reap What You Sow

                          Worrying too much about what other people think of you can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Frequently, people indulge their need to be liked so much so that it actually dictates to the way they behave. Some become people-pleasers or so submissive that many people are turned off. The behavior you use as an attempt to ensure you are liked may actually cause you to be disliked.

                          9. Others Don’t Care As Much As You Think

                          People generally don’t think outside themselves a great deal of time. It is a sad but simple truth that the average person filters their world through their ego, meaning that they think about most things in terms of “me” or “my”.

                          This means that, unless who you are or what you have done directly affects another person or their life, they are unlikely to spend much time thinking about you at all.

                          10. The Hard Truth: It’s Impossible To Please Everybody

                          You can’t please all of the people all of the time. It is impossible to live up to everyone’s expectations so there is no point in burning yourself out trying to do so. Just make sure that one of the people you please is yourself!

                          Conclusion

                          The weight of other’s thought can become a burden for you. It can inhibit you from living your life, because your entire being (your personality, your thoughts, your actions) are controlled by an idealized standard of what people want to see. When you become so obsessed with other people’s opinion of you, you forget your own.

                          You can make a conscious effort to stop giving a damn; to let yourself free. It’s a skill that needs to be practiced, like meditating. But once you truly understand how to let go, you will see the world as entirely different.

                          Once you give up catering to other people’s opinion and thoughts, you will find out who you truly are, and that freedom will be like taking a breath for the first time.


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                          It is human to desire what goes around your environment. Such knowledge gives us some level of consciousness and acceptance of our environment. However, taking such desire too far can be detrimental because it hurts our self-esteem, and in certain occasions could heighten our anxiety. We do not need to commit our thoughts and activities to the opinions laid down by others.

                          Here are ten signs to tell you if you have begun thinking too much about what others think.

                          1. You don’t know how to say “No”

                          People ask you for favors or jump into your life to forcefully be a part of it. You really need to know how to say “No” to what will not benefit your well-being because saying “No” is just as important as saying “Yes”. Perhaps you do not want to disappoint other. In reality, if you want to become a happier person you shouldn’t focus on the external, but rather on the internal.

                          2. You don’t set boundaries

                          This means setting boundaries for yourself and for others. Your life is not a park where everyone comes to play. You should be able to set boundaries if you really do not want to be caring about the opinions of others so much.

                          3. You are concerned about what others have to say

                          You want to know what others are thinking or saying about you. You scroll through magazines and spend so much time on social media it practically becomes a sickness. You don’t have that power to ignore gossip or comments. Instead, you give others the power to rule your thoughts.

                          4. You always play the victim

                          You want the world to care or sympathize with you. If something is wrong, you blow a trumpet about it because you feel that the world should listen and share in your problems.


                          5. You are a people-pleaser

                          You feel validated by trying to please everyone, when in the truest sense you can’t please everyone. You can only please yourself. As much as it satisfies you to do this, you are only giving others a key to start determining your actions and deeds.

                          6. You seek attention

                          You want to be seen and want others to be attracted to you. You do not know that it is not possible for everyone to like you. Yet you keep on taking actions and making decisions that will draw everyone to you.

                          7. You are indecisive

                          You do not know how to make decisions. You hesitate and you’re slow to taking actions. Most times, you would rather wait and listen to what everybody has to say before making decisions.

                          8. You don’t follow your guts

                          There is an intuition within us all that tells us “Yes” or “No”. When we care so much about what others have to say, we will ignore what our guts tell us to do most of the time.

                          9. You always play it safe

                          You don’t want anyone to get hurt because of your deeds or words. You also don’t want to stir negative emotions and make people feel bad. You try to play it safe and revolve your life in a cocoon. Such safety zones demonstrate that you are averse to taking risks and stepping out of the conventional boundaries.

                          10. You are boastful

                          You exaggerate your accomplishments and sometimes you go way overboard to publicize your accomplishments. You like to talk about yourself and want everyone to listen to what you have to say. Whether you are the loudest person in the room or try to seem the smartest, you are only doing this to make others aware of you.

                          Caring about what others think shows a kind of inferiority. Most times, this can lead to disappointment. We all should be complete and be proud of who we are. Our happiness and our success should not depend on what others think about us.

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                          • Re: What made you sad today..

                            Please everyone remember brother Ali Banat in your duas! May Allah grant him shifa amin
                            رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

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                            • Re: What made you sad today..

                              Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
                              Please everyone remember brother Ali Banat in your duas! May Allah grant him shifa amin
                              Ameen.

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                              Constant headaches and feeling dizzy
                              O people who take pleasure in a life that will vanish, falling in love with a fading shadow is sheer stupidity~ Ibn Qayyim Al-Jawziyya

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                              • Re: What made you sad today..

                                Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
                                Please everyone remember brother Ali Banat in your duas! May Allah grant him shifa amin
                                who is he?
                                They say good things come to those who wait, so imma be at least an hour late

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