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  • Re: What made you sad today..

    Originally posted by muslimah4life1 View Post
    ok so i feel like I've started to rant on here quite a bit but cant help it, i just have these feelings locked up and i need to just let it out. I've been feeling a mixture of emotions lately........ive been feeling happy and then i feel sad because I'm not doing enough......i just want to run away somewhere away from everyone out in the open countryside or something, i just feel trapped because i feel like I'm dealing with a lot at once and juggling family responsibilities and trying to fight culture and be a good muslim, its really hard when you dont have that kind of islamic atmosphere or environment....i keep thinking about my past, feeling regret feeling guilty about everything.....because of my waswasah i feel even more down.......im finding it hard to get back into reading salah......i just want to experience that beautiful high that i had but I'm just feeling so down and low its a horrible feeling :(

    i get the feeling sometimes that Allah SWT is displeased with about something, i always try my best to repent as much as i can and always ask Allah SWT to give me a sign if I'm messing up without realising. i love Allah SWT so much and want to please Him and want to get closer to him but then I'm getting lazy with salah and.........may Allah SWT guide me and grant me steadfast on His seen and forgive my sins Ameen.

    please brothers and sisters in islam please remember me in your duas

    jazakallah khair
    when you fall, get back up. Allah loves his servants :love::love:
    Allah is your lord and you should bow to him. Get up now sister , just postrate to the Great , He is waiting for our return . Do it now and cry your heart out
    Ya Allah,
    Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
    "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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    • Re: What made you sad today..

      Originally posted by patient believer View Post
      when you fall, get back up. Allah loves his servants :love::love:
      Allah is your lord and you should bow to him. Get up now sister , just postrate to the Great , He is waiting for our return . Do it now and cry your heart out
      subhanAllah sis im tearing up so badly today even now reading comments and things like that, I'm watching a vid on tawbah subhanAllah sis its truly emotional and i truly love Allah SWT because He is most loving, most Merciful and All Forgiving Allahu Akbar, you know sis every time i feel like this i can Allah SWT pulling me back towards Him truly wow, thanks sis i already knew this but when hearing it from someone else it kinda hits home so thanks, your a beautiful sis may Allah SWT reward you and bless you Ameen.

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      • Re: What made you sad today..

        Originally posted by muslimah4life1 View Post
        .....because of my waswasah i feel even more down.......im finding it hard to get back into reading salah......i just want to experience that beautiful high that i had but I'm just feeling so down and low its a horrible feeling :(
        Yes that feeling is horrible.. But when we are down, we have to remember that we don't worship that "spiritual high", but we worship Allaah. I recommend you to listen to Yasmin Mogahed's lectures (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjr...3mtZgF-hx6lQhA), they have helped me a lot, alhamdulillaah.

        Shaytan wants us to fall and to go astray and to despair.

        No matter how horrible you feel or how down you are, stick yo your salah. Pray ON TIME. Salah is the most important thing after shahada. If we lose it, we lose everything else. It's also the first thing we will be asked about on the Day of Judgement.

        Feeling down, depression, not being in Islamic environment/not having other Muslims around, low iman, waswas etc... It can be very difficult but Allaah tests us all in different ways. Allaah does not burden a soul with more that it can bear. And with difficulty comes ease.

        May Allaah keep us all steadfast and may He guide us all on the straight path, aamiin.
        Last edited by Muslimah_08; 21-07-15, 01:49 AM.

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        • Re: What made you sad today..

          Originally posted by muslimah4life1 View Post
          subhanAllah sis im tearing up so badly today even now reading comments and things like that, I'm watching a vid on tawbah subhanAllah sis its truly emotional and i truly love Allah SWT because He is most loving, most Merciful and All Forgiving Allahu Akbar, you know sis every time i feel like this i can Allah SWT pulling me back towards Him truly wow, thanks sis i already knew this but when hearing it from someone else it kinda hits home so thanks, your a beautiful sis may Allah SWT reward you and bless you Ameen.
          :masha:Your strong honey. whenever someone upsets it makes me relize that only Allah loves me . so that brings me closer .
          Ya Allah,
          Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
          "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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          • Re: What made you sad today..

            Originally posted by Muslimah_08 View Post
            Yes that feeling is horrible.. But when we are down, we have to remember that we don't worship that "spiritual high", but we worship Allaah. I recommend you to listen to Yasmin Mogahed's lectures (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjr...3mtZgF-hx6lQhA), they have helped me a lot, alhamdulillaah.
            thank you sis i appreciate it and yeh i listen to a lot of her lectures very heart touching stuff, i just need to keep reminding myself to be consistent in what i do and not not try to do everything in one go, so even if i read couple of ayas or do a specific dhikr, i need to be consistent with it cuz otherwise I'm going to burn out......already experienced that, so inshaAllah slowly little by little Allahu Akbar. really sis thanks :D

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            • Re: What made you sad today..

              I'm lonely :/

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              • Re: What made you sad today..

                Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
                I'm lonely :/
                nah u not, u got ur big sister laila!
                وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ ۚ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ - 31:19

                And be moderate in your pace and lower your voice; indeed, the most disagreeable of sounds is the voice of donkeys."


                أَلَمْ تَرَوْا أَنَّ اللَّهَ سَخَّرَ لَكُم مَّا فِي السَّمَاوَاتِ وَمَا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَأَسْبَغَ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعَمَهُ ظَاهِرَةً وَبَاطِنَةً ۗ وَمِنَ النَّاسِ مَن يُجَادِلُ فِي اللَّهِ بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ وَلَا هُدًى وَلَا كِتَابٍ مُّنِيرٍ - 31:20

                Do you not see that Allah has made subject to you whatever is in the heavens and whatever is in the earth and amply bestowed upon you His favors, [both] apparent and unapparent? But of the people is he who disputes about Allah without knowledge or guidance or an enlightening Book [from Him].


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                • Re: What made you sad today..

                  Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
                  I'm lonely :/
                  What do you mean ?
                  You have Allah, then family , then your brothers in Islam.
                  Ya Allah,
                  Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
                  "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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                  • Re: What made you sad today..

                    Originally posted by Magic. View Post
                    It's good to be on your own sometimes, but not so much so that you will forget how to interact and socialise.


                    Friends are not the be all and end all. There's time when I have argued with the brother, argued about Islam, and it was bad.
                    But try to take a moderate approach.
                    I'd have to disagree with that because it depends on the individual. If a person is homebound and doesn't talk to anyone/socialise then it is likely to effect their confidence

                    But I talk to people outside home, and I have contacts, but their not people I would call 'friends'

                    It's up to the individual what they want and what they think is best for them because when it comes to wanting friends that's entirely up to me, there is no wrong or right answer, and therefore there is no 'moderate approaches' that need to be considered.
                    'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

                    So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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                    • Re: What made you sad today..

                      Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
                      nah u not, u got ur big sister laila!
                      Still lonely :/

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                      • Re: What made you sad today..

                        Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
                        I'm lonely :/
                        Get married bro :up:

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                        • Re: What made you sad today..

                          Originally posted by patient believer View Post
                          What do you mean ?
                          You have Allah, then family , then your brothers in Islam.
                          I cry every tiem :/

                          I guess so, But I just haven't been feeling right as of late.

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                          • Re: What made you sad today..

                            Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
                            I cry every tiem :/

                            I guess so, But I just haven't been feeling right as of late.
                            Go and postrate to Allah, talk to him and read some quran. Then if you have a mother sleep on her lap.

                            if you have cats , chat with them as well or if you have another animal .
                            Ya Allah,
                            Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
                            "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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                            • Re: What made you sad today..

                              Originally posted by Masrur View Post
                              Get married bro :up:
                              Good idea....

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                              • Re: What made you sad today..

                                Man up
                                “You don't need anybody to tell you who you are or what you are. You are what you are!”

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