Yes a wider family that don't even care, I was always on my own and I don't think most Muslims care and you know that yourself especially with how the ummah is at the moment
I have ALLAH though ameen and ALLAH is the only true friend I have. Everyone else will just leave anyway.
it's true Allah swt is the only one, we'll all be begging for his mercy on the day of judgement when not even our families, our friends, or our spouses can help us.
Obviously, it's nice to have good company. If not in real life then I suppose online is alright. But it's sad to know or it feels like no one really cares.
'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)
So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman
Yes a wider family that don't even care, I was always on my own and I don't think most Muslims care and you know that yourself especially with how the ummah is at the moment
What are you expecting from other Muslims in terms of caring for you?
Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.
"A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings." - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)
Can you give example of true brotherhood relevant to you?
Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.
"A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings." - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)
True brotherhood but that does not exist like it was with the Sahaba
Just out of interest............
I think what you really want is a good father figure? Because from your posts I'm assuming your dad hasn't tried to build that relationship with you?
'son, lets sit down and talk' kinda thing? Also, I thought you and muslimwarrior were good friends? hmmm, the brothers are slacking on here. they need to help you gain your confidence back again :insha:
'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)
So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman
I think what you really want is a good father figure? Because from your posts I'm assuming your dad hasn't tried to build that relationship with you?
'son, lets sit down and talk' kinda thing? Also, I thought you and muslimwarrior were good friends? hmmm, the brothers are slacking on here. they need to help you gain your confidence back again :insha:
No he's away somewhere plus he has a life of his own
And yes I am missing a father figure. He does not care about me. Has even said that to my mum before. I had to grow up myself. Nobody taught me to be a man so I had to learn the hard way
Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)
Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.
"A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings." - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)
I share my sadness with you guys and all I get is man up.
You are coming a cross a bit needy brother.
I'm sure you have lots of friends.
I think you are putting too much emphasis on being alone.
You are so young and you have your life ahead of you. You are educated and in sha Allah you will be getting married soon.
"Try to distance yourself from everything that causes you worry and sadness, so that you may always live with peace of mind and an open and tranquil heart, seeking Allah and His worship and working on your worldly and otherworldly matters, for if you try this, you will find rest.
I share my sadness with you guys and all I get is man up.
I am kidding. obv. He knows.
Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.
"A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings." - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)
I think you are putting too much emphasis on being alone.
You are so young and you have your life ahead of you. You are educated and in sha Allah you will be getting married soon.
True. Thanks. I actually don't have many friends because I choose friends wisely
Yeah you are right about the marriage thing. Just my family problems really upset me. One thing I always wanted was a happy and loving family but I don't really have that. But you can't always have what you want I guess
Ya Muqallib Al-Quloob Thabbit Qalbi Alaa Deenik
( O changer of hearts, keep my heart steadfast on your deen)
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