What made you sad today..

[Muslimah~S]

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Also, I'm not a parent, but I think when dealing with children, it's better to level with them instead of imposing one's sense of superiority as an adult or parent on to them. That way, the child is more likely to listen, whereas telling them off only invites more disobedience because you know how children are, they never like being told what to do. When you explain gently why what they're doing is wrong, they respond better. And if nothing else works, scare them with stories: my parents when I was young used to say 'if you're not in bed by this time' or 'if you don't listen to your elder, the man with no head will come and take your head' and stuff like that. Used to terrify me!

One kid asked me once, is the man with the knife going to come? I was like what? Some of these stories go too far, I don't believe in lying to your children or scaring them with fictional things.

Also by using things like that which are not real as a threat, the child learns that punishments will never be executed so they can do what they like.

[mohammed.]

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were these stick created just to beat children?

lol, back then that stick had 2 functions.
the primary function was to threaten/beat disobeying kids
the secondary function was to use it as a rolling pin, to make large thin dough for baklawa

[Fairy]

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lol, back then that stick had 2 functions.
the primary function was to threaten/beat disobeying kids
the secondary function was to use it as a rolling pin dough

funny how u put beating as function one

[samin62]

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just found out, the company is changing my schedule drastically without any input from me.

hate shake ups like that.

[nonameakhi]

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Probably going to get it in the neck for saying this

but it really depresses me reading about sisters who get infatuated by men who said hello to them in real life or even on social media

[nousername]

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Just went to get ice cream. a few weeks ago i bought it, but haven't had any yet. I opened it up, and there is like half a spoonful left. WHY MUST THEY DO THAT!

[Saleem Gub]

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Future imams thread make me sad :(
didnt know such stuff happened in Masjids

[mohammed.]

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i just remembered, a relative of mine was talkign about his job at a factory. apparently they took off the eid holidays off their yearly calendar ,
so its more difficult to take a day offf , but other days such as chinese new year is still there.

[*sheba*]

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cookings on me....AGAIN!!! :-(

[Saleem Gub]

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cookings on me....AGAIN!!! :-(

thats horrible!
why are u used as a substitute for a stove? u'll get first degree burns!!

[*sheba*]

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thats horrible!
why are u used as a substitute for a stove? u'll get first degree burns!!

your right... I should use you instead -.-

[Saleem Gub]

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your right... I should use you instead -.-

u can try but i'll warn u ill eat all ur food if u try to cook it on me

[*sheba*]

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u can try but i'll warn u ill eat all ur food if u try to cook it on me

lool it's okay... you will be dead already

[Saleem Gub]

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lool it's okay... you will be dead already

theres a jinn in me, he'll eat it

[*sheba*]

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theres a jinn in me, he'll eat it