What made you sad today..

[Strive]

Re: What made you sad today..

I have nutella

s'alright don't like nutella that much

[Fairy]

Re: What made you sad today..

yeah got it but that involves EFFORT which i don't have right now
alright don't rub it in

true, u aint gna so ill leave my advice

LOL

[Yunus aua]

Re: What made you sad today..

s'alright don't like nutella that much

[zainah]

Re: What made you sad today..

My kids.. :( they don't listen to me anymore like they used to.. I have to ask things like 10 times before they listen. life it hard.

[Fairy]

Re: What made you sad today..

My kids.. :( they don't listen to me anymore like they used to.. I have to ask things like 10 times before they listen. life it hard.

you are a mum? nice...

[zainah]

Re: What made you sad today..

you are a mum? nice...

Most of the time its nice but today I feel like crying and throw them out of the window.

[Fairy]

Re: What made you sad today..

Most of the time its nice but today I feel like crying and throw them out of the window.

Oh no, how old r they?

[zainah]

Re: What made you sad today..

Oh no, how old r they?

Old enough to drive me crazy sometimes but other then that, they are very sweet boys. May Allah bless them. ameen

[mohammed.]

Re: What made you sad today..

My kids.. :( they don't listen to me anymore like they used to.. I have to ask things like 10 times before they listen. life it hard.

That's why you need these

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Whenever I disobeyed my mum, she used to threaten to hit with this, but she never did. From then on I did what she said without her repeating herself.

Even now that thing scares me.

[Green786]

Re: What made you sad today..

I am quite hungry!

I would love a kebab right now!

[zainah]

Re: What made you sad today..

That's why you need these

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Whenever I disobeyed my mum, she used to threaten to hit with this, but she never did. From then on I did what she said without her repeating herself.

Even now that thing scares me.

wow.. that is scary . I was actually shouting at them earlier and I feel so guilty right now. Parenting is hard work.. May Allah swt bless our parents and reward them for everything they done for us. ameen

[mohammed.]

Re: What made you sad today..

wow.. that is scary . I was actually shouting at them earlier and I feel so guilty right now. Parenting is hard work.. May Allah swt bless our parents and reward them for everything they done for us. ameen

Yeah it is scary , and should be used only and i mean only as a last resort. However that thing did work for my mother.

The problem is if you continue to let them to disobey you like now that's , there's a possibility that it might go into a habit. Better to address the problem from early on.

Imo very lite beating is required to set children straight, otherwise you mighte encounter consequences in the future.

Don't tak my word on it, just my opinion.

[zainah]

Re: What made you sad today..

Yeah it is scary , and should be used only and i mean only as a last resort. However that thing did work for my mother.

The problem is if you continue to let them to disobey you like now that's , there's a possibility that it might go into a habit. Better to address the problem from early on.

Imo very lite beating is required to set children straight, otherwise you mighte encounter consequences in the future.

Don't tak my word on it, just my opinion.

I appreciate your opinion, :jkk:

[Morose]

Re: What made you sad today..

I appreciate your opinion, :jkk:

Also, I'm not a parent, but I think when dealing with children, it's better to level with them instead of imposing one's sense of superiority as an adult or parent on to them. That way, the child is more likely to listen, whereas telling them off only invites more disobedience because you know how children are, they never like being told what to do. When you explain gently why what they're doing is wrong, they respond better. And if nothing else works, scare them with stories: my parents when I was young used to say 'if you're not in bed by this time' or 'if you don't listen to your elder, the man with no head will come and take your head' and stuff like that. Used to terrify me!

[Fairy]

Re: What made you sad today..

That's why you need these

picture

Whenever I disobeyed my mum, she used to threaten to hit with this, but she never did. From then on I did what she said without her repeating herself.

Even now that thing scares me.

were these stick created just to beat children?