"Try to distance yourself from everything that causes you worry and sadness, so that you may always live with peace of mind and an open and tranquil heart, seeking Allah and His worship and working on your worldly and otherworldly matters, for if you try this, you will find rest.
Whenever I disobeyed my mum, she used to threaten to hit with this, but she never did. From then on I did what she said without her repeating herself.
Even now that thing scares me.
wow.. that is scary . I was actually shouting at them earlier and I feel so guilty right now. Parenting is hard work.. May Allah swt bless our parents and reward them for everything they done for us. ameen
wow.. that is scary . I was actually shouting at them earlier and I feel so guilty right now. Parenting is hard work.. May Allah swt bless our parents and reward them for everything they done for us. ameen
Yeah it is scary , and should be used only and i mean only as a last resort. However that thing did work for my mother.
The problem is if you continue to let them to disobey you like now that's , there's a possibility that it might go into a habit. Better to address the problem from early on.
Imo very lite beating is required to set children straight, otherwise you mighte encounter consequences in the future.
Yeah it is scary , and should be used only and i mean only as a last resort. However that thing did work for my mother.
The problem is if you continue to let them to disobey you like now that's , there's a possibility that it might go into a habit. Better to address the problem from early on.
Imo very lite beating is required to set children straight, otherwise you mighte encounter consequences in the future.
Also, I'm not a parent, but I think when dealing with children, it's better to level with them instead of imposing one's sense of superiority as an adult or parent on to them. That way, the child is more likely to listen, whereas telling them off only invites more disobedience because you know how children are, they never like being told what to do. When you explain gently why what they're doing is wrong, they respond better. And if nothing else works, scare them with stories: my parents when I was young used to say 'if you're not in bed by this time' or 'if you don't listen to your elder, the man with no head will come and take your head' and stuff like that. Used to terrify me!
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