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  • Maybe I just need medications and should give up on self actualisation if it means attacking others.

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    • Allah knows what I’m trying to do

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      • Originally posted by usernametaken View Post
        Allah knows what I’m trying to do
        Sorry you're going through difficulty. It's quite hard to work out what the situation is and what's really happening. Is there anyone at home you can talk to who would be sympathetic and may know the ppl and their behaviour?

        I don't know if this will be useful...you can decide as you know the drama causing cousin and I don't. I wondered if you minimise contact, by busying yourself...doing different things so if they implicate you in anything you can be like 'I don't know what you're talking about, I was doing such and such, this has nothing to do with me'

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        • Random post: I also share my opinions to share insight but with others from my experiences. I don’t tend to get the same back I feel. Who knows how it comes across.

          moving on

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          • Originally posted by ten_toes View Post

            Sorry you're going through difficulty. It's quite hard to work out what the situation is and what's really happening. Is there anyone at home you can talk to who would be sympathetic and may know the ppl and their behaviour?

            I don't know if this will be useful...you can decide as you know the drama causing cousin and I don't. I wondered if you minimise contact, by busying yourself...doing different things so if they implicate you in anything you can be like 'I don't know what you're talking about, I was doing such and such, this has nothing to do with me'
            It’s always going to be there. They’re not that easy to move out the way. My dad tells them more about my life than the other way round (he keeps their ‘secrets’, and tells them everything), even I used to feel guilty to not over share despite them being tight lipped if asked about themselves. Energetically speaking they feel they have a birthright to this.

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            • Even in rishta situations they know more about them than I do. Then they ask me as if they don’t know to gain more info when I don’t know things they know.

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              • Originally posted by usernametaken View Post

                It’s always going to be there. They’re not that easy to move out the way. My dad tells them more about my life than the other way round (he keeps their ‘secrets’, and tells them everything), even I used to feel guilty to not over share despite them being tight lipped if asked about themselves. Energetically speaking they feel they have a birthright to this.
                You do get parents like that. In this case all there is to do is actually protect yourself by not telling your family the things you need keeping private... at least not family members that would share it.

                Another option is to go ahead and pry into the cousins business like they do yours. It might put them off. It might not.

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                • Part of ones perfection of islam is to leave that which does not concern you

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                  • Originally posted by usernametaken View Post
                    Maybe I just need medications and should give up on self actualisation if it means attacking others.

                    right
                    Assalamu Alaykom Sister Have you ever been diagnose with mental illness? because your talking to yourself. Would you please go to a mental healthcare specialist in shaa ALLAH to get a mental healthcare examination.
                    ALLAH AL-ATHEEM created everything. Therefore ALLAH AL-ATHEEM created the earth and everything in the earth and created all of the heavens and everything in all of these heavens and created all of the hells and everything in all of these hells and created all of the universes and everything in all of these universes and created everything in between them.

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                    • Originally posted by ten_toes View Post

                      You do get parents like that. In this case all there is to do is actually protect yourself by not telling your family the things you need keeping private... at least not family members that would share it.

                      Another option is to go ahead and pry into the cousins business like they do yours. It might put them off. It might not.
                      The rishta thing is known before I get to know.

                      anything major that everyone would know they already know. Aka anything important

                      I can’t pry because in that sense I am cut off because they don’t talk like that with us. My dad might be lucky to get some info they choose to feed into his ears and he will guard them with his life.

                      and my dad tells them what to say to me. I bet they influence him too.

                      Even if I try to pry to show them how it feels, I can’t, because I don’t have close enough the same level of information. I will just look nosey and harmless. Can’t compare.

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                      • True

                        i should use that

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                        • Originally posted by ABDEL-ATHEEM View Post

                          Assalamu Alaykom Sister Have you ever been diagnose with mental illness? because your talking to yourself. Would you please go to a mental healthcare specialist in shaa ALLAH to get a mental healthcare examination.
                          I’m ranting in a forum. I like to write out my experiences. That’s all it is

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                          • Parents can over share. But this situations is more like a source for them and he prioritises their mental health (adults who are sane) over his own children. Doesn’t even see anything wrong with it. Probably feels noble because he has their backing. Everyone has different priorities in life.

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                            • Rant over insha Allah

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                              • Random rants thread v3.5

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