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  • usernametaken
    started a topic How to socialise with coworkers when

    How to socialise with coworkers when

    You have no desire to. It does not leave a good impression.

  • usernametaken
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    Besides the living in the west arguments, this issue i am discussing would affect me in any place so ....
    i am out of touch with myself and actually would not be working or making any improvements in my life if i wanted to but i cant live like that. 'Improvements'. My mental state is the most important but also extremely difficult but it shows in daily life and it truly sucks. Insha Allah i will deal with it soon and find some kind of way to move forward (i hope thats possible).

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Originally posted by lunar View Post

    In Britain we live amongst people who are non-muslims. We must integrate. My parents are economic migrants who came to this country in the early 60s for a better life.
    The problem is Muslims assimiliating and adopting the antics of the Kuffar, we are on earth to please Allah عز و جل not the kuffar.

    The question of a better life is debatable, considering what Muslims getting upto nowadays from illicit relationships to drugs to the thug life, to not bothering to lower gaze, to hardly reading the Qur'an etc,

    Financially yes they are generally better off, but more money doesn't necessarily mean a better life.

    جزاك الله خيرا

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  • usernametaken
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    It's not that I am not or can't be confident. I just don't have the dopamine.

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  • usernametaken
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    Best to avoid having a job to avoid any of this. Jk.

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  • abufulaans
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    Originally posted by lunar View Post

    In Britain we live amongst people who are non-muslims. We must integrate. My parents are economic migrants who came to this country in the early 60s for a better life.
    The question is, to what extent

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  • lunar
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    Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

    We should not be mingling or socialising with the kuffar at all. Regardless of what they think.
    In Britain we live amongst people who are non-muslims. We must integrate. My parents are economic migrants who came to this country in the early 60s for a better life.

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  • usernametaken
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    Who said i initiate convos?

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  • Pakisaurus
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    Originally posted by Kaas View Post
    I dont think you need to worry about what others think of you, they're all NPC's
    OP be initiating convo's with his NPC colleagues then skip the dialogue

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  • usernametaken
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    What does that mean?

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  • usernametaken
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    Guess it's not that relatable

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  • Al-Mualim
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    Originally posted by usernametaken View Post
    And i do also want to have better people skills as my current level is lower than it should be.
    Yikes. https://media1.tenor.com/images/75db...temid=12431528

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  • usernametaken
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    I do agree about the npc thing. Thats how i treat people. But it seems to be backfiring because im not as confident this time. And i do also want to have better people skills as my current level is lower than it should be.

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  • usernametaken
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    Over it
    Last edited by usernametaken; 04-02-19, 01:08 PM.

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  • usernametaken
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    Originally posted by MyUsernameIs... View Post
    I've noticed OP tends to overcomplicate things alot
    Same.

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