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  • #16
    Originally posted by Musbah View Post
    One of the issues that Muslims must deal with in dar ul kufr. It's a balancing act. You don't want to come off rude and give the kuffar the impression that Muslims are not amicable nor do you want to mingle too much and have their bad traits rub off on you.
    We should not be mingling or socialising with the kuffar at all. Regardless of what they think.

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    "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

    – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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    • #17
      I've noticed OP tends to overcomplicate things alot

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      • #18
        Originally posted by Kaas View Post

        Woah sis you litterallu reminded me why i dont like to hang out with muslimahs. So. Much. Gossiping. SubhanAllah its like the topic always has to be a person... i hope when i move i meet some nice people who can talk about halal subjects...
        True.

        Insha Allah you will find better people. :)

        She would also talk about me with some boys of a same background, I used to hear it all and pretended I couldn't. Anyways, I did get along with her on the outside when i saw her again. Hope I don't ever have to be within even mutual circles as her. I hate being fake.

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        • #19
          Originally posted by MyUsernameIs... View Post
          I've noticed OP tends to overcomplicate things alot
          Same.

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          • #20
            Over it
            Last edited by usernametaken; 04-02-19, 01:08 PM.

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            • #21
              I do agree about the npc thing. Thats how i treat people. But it seems to be backfiring because im not as confident this time. And i do also want to have better people skills as my current level is lower than it should be.

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              • #22
                Originally posted by usernametaken View Post
                And i do also want to have better people skills as my current level is lower than it should be.
                Yikes. https://media1.tenor.com/images/75db...temid=12431528
                Pray. Fast. Zakat. Pilgrimage. Allah.

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                • #23
                  Guess it's not that relatable

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                  • #24
                    What does that mean?

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Kaas View Post
                      I dont think you need to worry about what others think of you, they're all NPC's
                      OP be initiating convo's with his NPC colleagues then skip the dialogue

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                      • #26
                        Who said i initiate convos?

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                        • #27
                          Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post

                          We should not be mingling or socialising with the kuffar at all. Regardless of what they think.
                          In Britain we live amongst people who are non-muslims. We must integrate. My parents are economic migrants who came to this country in the early 60s for a better life.

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                          • #28
                            Originally posted by lunar View Post

                            In Britain we live amongst people who are non-muslims. We must integrate. My parents are economic migrants who came to this country in the early 60s for a better life.
                            The question is, to what extent
                            ''If the bedouins and city dwellers were to fight between themselves until they wipe each other out, it will surely be less significant than them appointing a taghoot in the land which rules by that which is against the Shari'ah of Islaam which Allah sent his Messenger ﷺ with'' - Sheikh Sulayman bin Sahmaan

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                            • #29
                              Best to avoid having a job to avoid any of this. Jk.

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                              • #30
                                It's not that I am not or can't be confident. I just don't have the dopamine.

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