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  • Years after suffering from sihr of loneliness & separation....

    Asalamu Alaikum. Recently I am just about recovering from a bad sihr in which I feared to go out, socialise and even speak. I used to work here & there. People used to say it’s like I was sleeping from the world for so many years... I was depressed sleeping and watching tv ... till I woke up and realised this is a serious affliction I have ... since medication did not work and Allah kept me out from being admitted to the hospital, Alhamdulilah because Allah knew this wasn’t a mental problem and he wanted me to cure myself through ruqyah. The journey was hard.... felt one time Allah was not hearing my prayers but he was! After months & years... kept praying & had patience... I succeeded! So never loose hope. Please make dua I recover or for Allah to grant me a good death. No suicidal talk but I sometimes wonder why I am still alive after all the tests and trials.... I feel like this life is hard for a Muslim ... as it is. I could be wrong... but since I don’t have any Muslim friends... I am scared of Allah was to completely cure me ... I’ll probably make friends with kuffar... since it’s so hard to find practicing Muslim friends!! I just want to go Jannah I’ve been through a lot ! And I have grown! I look at people listening to music and showing themselves on social media... and I’m like SubhanAllah... I’m not judging but if you were tested how I was I doubt you’ll do that. Now it feels like I’ve been an alien ready to come out from hibernating for years... because of the symptoms of bad social anxiety... I see people to engulfed with the dunya... and it deeply saddens me. Barely anybody is practicing anymore.
    My communication part of the brain was affected too. It has been years... and I am making it through... InshAllah....victory is coming.

  • #2
    salam alaykum wa rahmat allah
    ´´ why I am still alive after all the tests and trials´´
    the point of living in this world is to get tested
    ´´ I feel like this life is hard for a Muslim´´
    life is not hard if you are close to allah and not only muslims face hardships even the richest kuffar struggle with mental health issues health problems and would complain about tthe silliest problems in their lifes
    ´´I’ll probably make friends with kuffar´´
    its not permisible to have kuffar friends u can be nice to them however you shouldnt be friends with them
    ´´if you were tested how I was I doubt you’ll do that´´
    there is people who have being tested harder than you and ended up in the wrong path you should be thankfull that allah guided you

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Hamza1416 View Post
      salam alaykum wa rahmat allah
      ´´ why I am still alive after all the tests and trials´´
      the point of living in this world is to get tested
      ´´ I feel like this life is hard for a Muslim´´
      life is not hard if you are close to allah and not only muslims face hardships even the richest kuffar struggle with mental health issues health problems and would complain about tthe silliest problems in their lifes
      ´´I’ll probably make friends with kuffar´´
      its not permisible to have kuffar friends u can be nice to them however you shouldnt be friends with them
      ´´if you were tested how I was I doubt you’ll do that´´
      there is people who have being tested harder than you and ended up in the wrong path you should be thankfull that allah guided you
      This is the biggest nonsense.

      So you can marry a non muslim woman as a muslim male, but you can't befriend them??

      Did the prophet sallaa Allaahu alaihi wa sallem not befriend and even LOVE his kaffir uncle?

      Life can be hard even when your close to Allah, these are nonsensical illusions you are propagating, that can be dangerous for the iman of people, even the prophet had a hard time even mentally.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Shino View Post
        This is the biggest nonsense.
        So you can marry a non muslim woman as a muslim male, but you can't befriend them??
        Did the prophet sallaa Allaahu alaihi wa sallem not befriend and even LOVE his kaffir uncle?
        Life can be hard even when your close to Allah, these are nonsensical illusions you are propagating, that can be dangerous for the iman of people, even the prophet had a hard time even mentally.
        you must be carefull my brother before you make such a judgment to have some knowledge first or you might end up calling the orders of god
        nonesense due to your ignorance

        you can have a non muslim wife because allah subhanahu wa talaa made it permessible . allah subhanahu wa talaa also told us in the quran not to be friends with the kuffar
        https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/kat...ePUsGX3XmFW2m6 xxu0PUrV5cmBqI4qULNRDBK7jwt1Vo#katheer
        https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/saa...a57.html#saadi
        https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/saa...a51.html#saadi
        and other places

        So you can marry a non muslim woman as a muslim male, but you can't befriend them??
        yes what the problem ? each realation here is diffrent and has it own rulling

        Did the prophet sallaa Allaahu alaihi wa sallem not befriend and even LOVE his kaffir uncle?
        the uncle of the prophet peace be upon him was hes family not hes ´´friend´´ if you want to look for good friend examples look at abu bakr and umar may allah be pleased with them

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Hamza1416 View Post

          you must be carefull my brother before you make such a judgment to have some knowledge first or you might end up calling the orders of god
          nonesense due to your ignorance

          you can have a non muslim wife because allah subhanahu wa talaa made it permessible . allah subhanahu wa talaa also told us in the quran not to be friends with the kuffar
          https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/kat...ePUsGX3XmFW2m6 xxu0PUrV5cmBqI4qULNRDBK7jwt1Vo#katheer
          https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/saa...a57.html#saadi
          https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/saa...a51.html#saadi
          and other places

          So you can marry a non muslim woman as a muslim male, but you can't befriend them??
          yes what the problem ? each realation here is diffrent and has it own rulling

          Did the prophet sallaa Allaahu alaihi wa sallem not befriend and even LOVE his kaffir uncle?
          the uncle of the prophet peace be upon him was hes family not hes ´´friend´´ if you want to look for good friend examples look at abu bakr and umar may allah be pleased with them
          No brother, you are the one who is ignorant on the facts. You may not take them as awliyaa in the sake of religion.

          Allah said: innaka laa tahdi man ahbabt, walaakinna Allaaha yahdi man yashaa.

          Here Allah refers to the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallaam and his kaafir Uncle, whom the prophet loved and most certainly befriended ( don't try to bend the obvious). So Allah said that the prophet loved his kafir uncle, but one can not befriend a Kafir?

          You're conflating alwalaa for the sake of religion with alwalaa for the sake of a good personality or character a kafir has or the hobbies or things you may have in common with a person who is a non Muslim. Which is perfectly fine and normal

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          • #6
            Here is the shaykh Dadu explaining the situation between al muwalaat fee deen al muwalaat fee dunia very well:

            https://youtu.be/ZDZ6bObsOb4

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Shino View Post

              No brother, you are the one who is ignorant on the facts. You may not take them as awliyaa in the sake of religion.

              Allah said: innaka laa tahdi man ahbabt, walaakinna Allaaha yahdi man yashaa.

              Here Allah refers to the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallaam and his kaafir Uncle, whom the prophet loved and most certainly befriended ( don't try to bend the obvious). So Allah said that the prophet loved his kafir uncle, but one can not befriend a Kafir?

              You're conflating alwalaa for the sake of religion with alwalaa for the sake of a good personality or character a kafir has or the hobbies or things you may have in common with a person who is a non Muslim. Which is perfectly fine and normal
              calling me ´´ignorant on the facts´´ and not presenting any evidence to back up your claim makes it baseless
              when you make a claim you back it up just like i did . were not suppose to take our religion from the claims of random people


              ´´You may not take them as awliyaa in the sake of religion.´´
              you make claims without backing them with evidence

              if you bothered to read the tafsir i linked you should of find ibn katir clearly say
              ينهى تعالى عباده المؤمنين عن اتخاذ الكافرين أولياء من دون المؤمنين ، يعني مصاحبتهم ومصادقتهم ومناصحتهم وإسرار المودة إليهم
              https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/tafseer/kat...ePUsGX3XmFW2m6

              ´´whom the prophet loved and most certainly befriended´´
              show me any evidence that say that the prophet peace be upon him was the friend of hes uncle after prophethood

              ´´Allah said that the prophet loved his kafir uncle, but one can not befriend a Kafir?´´
              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ENLzFQdUzZI

              You're conflating alwalaa for the sake of religion with alwalaa for the sake of a good personality
              im not conflating anything friendship with the kuffar is not permisible

              ´´ Which is perfectly fine and normal ´´
              evidence ?

              have you even bothered to read and listen what the video you linked talk about ?
              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZDZ6bObsOb4
              the title say الددو : حكم السلام على الكافر ومسائل في التعامل معه
              nowhere in the video or in the title there is a mention of friendship with the kuffar

              here is a video of ibn otaymin wich clearly talks about the rulling of having kuffar friends
              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=30WLmmLZ4Dg

              here is a saylh fawzan talking about about the rulling of rulling of having kuffar friends
              https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jF2z6tai8WQ



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              • #8
                Brother i have presented my evidence. And yes I have watched and understood the video. I think you just read the title and went with that.

                He is clearly saying you may love a kafir because of dunya matters but not because of his deen. You're going to tell me that loving a kaafir is oke but befriending him is not oke

                For me the case is closed, you clearly are trying to find evidence to back up your opinion on the matter in stead of the way around.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Hamza1416 View Post
                  salam alaykum wa rahmat allah
                  ´´ why I am still alive after all the tests and trials´´
                  the point of living in this world is to get tested
                  ´´ I feel like this life is hard for a Muslim´´
                  life is not hard if you are close to allah and not only muslims face hardships even the richest kuffar struggle with mental health issues health problems and would complain about tthe silliest problems in their lifes
                  ´´I’ll probably make friends with kuffar´´
                  its not permisible to have kuffar friends u can be nice to them however you shouldnt be friends with them
                  ´´if you were tested how I was I doubt you’ll do that´´
                  there is people who have being tested harder than you and ended up in the wrong path you should be thankfull that allah guided you
                  Yes JazakhAllahu Khayr you are very right !!

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