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    my mother has had 12 miscarriages before and after i was born, alhumdulilah i was the only one that survived. I always think why didnt Allah give me a sibling, as now im all alone. Why did Allah do this to me or make my life like this? Maybe, Them siblings that i was meant to have , somehow, would have taken me to hell? As Alllah says everything that happens is for the best for my slaves, so how is being alone with noone good for any of us?

  • #2
    Originally posted by Shiraze10 View Post
    my mother has had 12 miscarriages before and after i was born, alhumdulilah i was the only one that survived. I always think why didnt Allah give me a sibling, as now im all alone. Why did Allah do this to me or make my life like this? Maybe, Them siblings that i was meant to have , somehow, would have taken me to hell? As Alllah says everything that happens is for the best for my slaves, so how is being alone with noone good for any of us?
    On the other end of the scale is me.¬* I have siblings who betrayed the trust I gave them, back-stabbed me, and used me, making me wish I did not have any siblings at all.¬* Honestly, don't worry about what you do not have.¬* Work on improving yourself, be grateful for what you do have, and keep learning.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Shiraze10 View Post
      my mother has had 12 miscarriages before and after i was born, alhumdulilah i was the only one that survived. I always think why didnt Allah give me a sibling, as now im all alone. Why did Allah do this to me or make my life like this? Maybe, Them siblings that i was meant to have , somehow, would have taken me to hell? As Alllah says everything that happens is for the best for my slaves, so how is being alone with noone good for any of us?
      You need to get out of this mind set that "if you had such and such then you would be happy, or less lonely".

      Having siblings doesn't guarantee that you would be happy.

      Remember, we are tested with family. And your mother was tested with all those miscarriages she had.¬*

      Once you are able to start appreciating everything you do have mentally - and physically maybe start socialising more, become more active locally, then that void will slowly disappear.¬*


      ¬*

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      • #4
        Originally posted by oshirowanen View Post

        On the other end of the scale is me.¬* I have siblings who betrayed the trust I gave them, back-stabbed me, and used me, making me wish I did not have any siblings at all.¬* Honestly, don't worry about what you do not have.¬* Work on improving yourself, be grateful for what you do have, and keep learning.
        In Sha Allaah you are well.¬*

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        • #5
          Originally posted by oshirowanen View Post

          On the other end of the scale is me.¬* I have siblings who betrayed the trust I gave them, back-stabbed me, and used me, making me wish I did not have any siblings at all.¬* Honestly, don't worry about what you do not have.¬* Work on improving yourself, be grateful for what you do have, and keep learning.
          How are you doing now brother
          been a while since you been here

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Shiraze10 View Post
            my mother has had 12 miscarriages before and after i was born, alhumdulilah i was the only one that survived. I always think why didnt Allah give me a sibling, as now im all alone. Why did Allah do this to me or make my life like this? Maybe, Them siblings that i was meant to have , somehow, would have taken me to hell? As Alllah says everything that happens is for the best for my slaves, so how is being alone with noone good for any of us?
            No, you are not all alone as you have Allah subhanahu wa ta aala and your parents. It is from the wisdom and decree of Allah that he ordained that you will be an only child. Allah knows what is best for us & we know not. Instead of focusing on why you are an only child, use your status as an only child to get to jannah Insha Allah. The rights of the parents in Islam are huge and a way in which to attain jannah. As an only child, you have the opportunity to gain immense hassanat & reward by serving your parents, by obeying them & being dutiful to them.¬*
            https://islamicgemsandpearls.wordpress.com

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Indefinable View Post
              In Sha Allaah you are well.¬*
              Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post

              How are you doing now brother
              been a while since you been here
              Alhumdulillah.

              How are you brothers? Yes, not been here for a long time, don't get much time these days.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by oshirowanen View Post



                Alhumdulillah.

                How are you brothers? Yes, not been here for a long time, don't get much time these days.
                Alhamdulillah, good.¬*

                (...but I'm a sister).

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                  Alhamdulillah, good.¬*

                  (...but I'm a sister).
                  Been a long time, I apologise. I remember.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                    Alhamdulillah, good.¬*

                    (...but I'm a sister).
                    Lol again

                    Try a girly font color

                    Seriously though hows the studies going
                    Abdullah Ibn al-Mubarak: "One doesn't become noble with any type of knowledge if he doesn't beautify his knowledge with good conduct." (Adab Shar'iyyah 4/208)

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by eesa the kiwi View Post

                      Lol again

                      Try a girly font color

                      Seriously though hows the studies going
                      Like this you mean?¬*


                      No way.¬*





                      Alhamdulillah, I'm going to start my schedule tomorrow In Sha Allaah. I've been busy this week with Eid/Family.¬*

                      I've made a timetable - so if I stick to that, it should be manageable In Sha Allaah.¬*

                      How about you?¬*

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Indefinable View Post

                        Like this you mean?¬*


                        No way.¬*





                        Alhamdulillah, I'm going to start my schedule tomorrow In Sha Allaah. I've been busy this week with Eid/Family.¬*

                        I've made a timetable - so if I stick to that, it should be manageable In Sha Allaah.¬*

                        How about you?¬*
                        I've finished the course material alhamdulilah so now am doing unofficial study. Will review closer to final exam inshaAllah

                        Abdullah Ibn al-Mubarak: "One doesn't become noble with any type of knowledge if he doesn't beautify his knowledge with good conduct." (Adab Shar'iyyah 4/208)

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by eesa the kiwi View Post

                          I've finished the course material alhamdulilah so now am doing unofficial study. Will review closer to final exam inshaAllah
                          Sounds good.¬*

                          I will need to do at least 5 hours of studying a day to do it all in time.

                          One thing I learned from mid-terms is that thorough notes are beneficial in reviewing. It's impossible to go through the videos again before exams.¬*

                          In Sha Allaah khair.¬*

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by oshirowanen View Post

                            Been a long time, I apologise. I remember.
                            It's alright. No worries.¬*

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