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    Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

    Originally posted by Ansaariyah View Post
    Humpty Bumpty :asta:



    That link dont work, not like am interested, but just saying...

    link didn't work

    darn :(
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      Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

      This technically makes every sister a MOD with the power to ban,

      I hope at least investigation goes into it before banning.
      La illaha ilallah

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        Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

        Originally posted by blanchoir View Post
        This technically makes every sister a MOD with the power to ban,

        I hope at least investigation goes into it before banning.
        this is true

        we, at ummah.com, believe in empowering women

        no oppressive sisters here, each sister is a mod in her own right
        .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
        نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
        دولة الإسلامية باقية





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          Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

          and, on the flip sidie

          if a brother pm's a sister and she doesnt report it, i will interpret that as they have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship at ummah.com

          and we cant have that
          .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
          نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
          دولة الإسلامية باقية





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            Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

            Originally posted by AbuMubarak View Post
            and, on the flip sidie

            if a brother pm's a sister and she doesnt report it, i will interpret that as they have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship at ummah.com

            and we cant have that
            what if a brother reports a sisters PM
            لا إله إلا الله محمد رسول الله

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              Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

              Originally posted by Islam3333 View Post
              what if a brother reports a sisters PM
              tell him to take a second wife
              .لا نريد زعيما يخاف البيت الإبيض
              نريد زعيما يخاف الواحد الأحد
              دولة الإسلامية باقية





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                Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                Lol ,maybe they went out of business
                I assume there was never such site to begin with.

                Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
                link didn't work

                darn :(
                loooool I would be worried if the link DID work from the beginning

                Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                hold on a second I got mugged, it's a shia website isn't it?-I was so hopeful!! *urgh

                I haven't had a problem with anyone harassing me, I have had a good time on the forum, so jazak Allah Hu Khair

                it's funny though, the people that seem to have a problem with me or have an argument with me is always from the same gender
                eh? what site is shia site? :/

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                  Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                  Originally posted by AbuMubarak View Post
                  this is true

                  we, at ummah.com, believe in empowering women

                  no oppressive sisters here, each sister is a mod in her own right
                  This is new to me.

                  edit: and by new I mean, I didn't know this was the consequences of the forum..

                  I do like it.
                  La illaha ilallah

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                    Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                    Originally posted by علي View Post
                    ....

                    Though I did want to share it in general. I'll wait for a good opportunity later then >__>
                    You know you can always share it now.

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                      Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                      Good thing I read this.

                      Not that I seek dates here.

                      But I have actually PMd some asking questions.

                      By the way does this apply to comments left in the Reputation section?
                      Watch those eyes

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                        Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                        One more question, if a woman insults you what is the result when you respond back because under Islamic Law you have the right to retaliate as much as you have been done to.

                        Does this forum follow that and allow it or does the woman empowerment mean you get banned for that too.

                        Hope to clear this up.

                        EDIT: One last question. What happens when the gender is unspecified and you do not know that the person is a female but others do?
                        Last edited by ZeeshanParvez; 02-04-14, 01:12 AM.
                        Watch those eyes

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                          Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                          Originally posted by AbuMubarak View Post
                          and, on the flip sidie

                          if a brother pm's a sister and she doesnt report it, i will interpret that as they have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship at ummah.com

                          and we cant have that
                          Brother, I fully support your stance but I would just like to point out that in case such a thing does happen for you to assume they have a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship would fall under the heading of Zaan which the Quran clearly forbids.

                          A male talking to a female does not mean they are boyfriend and girlfriend. I hope, that you with all the good you have done, will re consider your stance of assuming someone to be something they well may not be.

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                            Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                            Where do you draw the line?

                            You can't ban someone for sending a PM, unless of course if it contains inappropriate content.

                            You might as well stop interaction of male and females in the threads altogether, perhaps even extend that to visitor messages and comments on reputation part.

                            My point is you can't enforce something in one part and not reflect it in the main parts.

                            Additionally, I don't like the idea and impression that only sisters should report (that is sexist), what about us brothers why are we not included? As mods, it is your duty to be impartial and balanced anything else could be subjected to abuse of power.

                            I have only been a member a few months now and it is a great site to interact with like minded individuals, but if these kind 'rulings' and 'warnings' are upheld by the moderators, then I'm out.

                            All I ask is to make it fair.
                            Last edited by Speck of Dust; 02-04-14, 08:44 AM.

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                              Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                              Originally posted by Speck of Dust View Post
                              Where do you draw the line?

                              You can't ban someone for sending a PM, unless of course if it contains inappropraite content.

                              You might as well stop interaction of male and females in the threads altogether, perhaps even extend that to visitor messages and comments on reputation part.

                              My point is you can't enforce something in one part and not reflect it in the main parts.

                              Additionally, I don't like the idea and impression that only sisters should report (that is sexist), what about us brothers why are we not included? As mods, it is your duty to be impartial and balanced anything else could be subjected to abuse of power.

                              I have only been a member a few months now and it is a great site to interact with like minded individuals, but if these kind 'rulings' and 'warnings' are upheld by the moderators, then I'm out.

                              All I ask is to make it fair.
                              You are right PM should be fine as long as both parties agree and their is no Vulgar stuff or harassement.Sometimes PMs are necessary .
                              If the other party do not want to be interacted that is fine.

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                                Re: Do Not Private Message NOR Insult The Sisters

                                Originally posted by AbuMubarak View Post
                                and, on the flip sidie

                                if a brother pm's a sister and she doesnt report it, i will interpret that as they have a boyfriend girlfriend relationship at ummah.com

                                and we cant have that
                                Huh ? how does that work.

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