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  • SimpleTraveller
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    Originally posted by patient believer View Post
    :salams
    I just wanted to bring your attention to that section because its being neglected by most of us , including myself.Sadly we waste so much time on the lousy marraige section and the chaotic lounge section of this forum.The topics are repeated and its getting very dull now. However on the anonymous section people with real issues and concerns post yet no one replies to them. If you post a thread you will be lucky to get two replies.
    So please my brothers and sisters focus on that section and put a good use to your wonderful talent.let us not waste our effort in posting about looks, women,what food you eat,what hair colour you want, what clothes you should wear or why your wife must cook and clean.lol
    MashaAllah [MENTION=136320]The Poet[/MENTION] does amazing job already.

    Salaam,

    It's good you mentioned this - I mentioned almost exactly the same thing today after yet another one of those "pretty / unatractiveness" threads, and didn't realise you had already made this point earlier today before I did. Just read this now.

    Great minds think alike, as they say.

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  • Ya'sin
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    Originally posted by AX1300 View Post
    Some of the threads in that section are plain embarrassing, and its simply inappropriate to talk the way some people do with the opposite sex, no matter how many MashAllah's they want to throw in.

    Casual chit-chat and praising each other, joking etc. is wrong.

    Also, I don't think people should be compelled to post in the anon section. If they don't feel they have anything of benefit to add or share, there's no point posting.
    Okay, you're right

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  • AX1300
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    No.

    It's not always a joke and you forget some married people also waste their time on there taking the mick.

    They are more experienced therefore if they really want to help and make a difference, the anon section is their priority. Only a very few- two or three I'd say respond, everyone else is just picking on others on the marriage section.

    :jkk: for the this thread [MENTION=119636]patient believer[/MENTION] I'll try my best :insha: it's hard at times but there's no excuse, worrying if they are trolls are not isn't a good enoguhe excuse either. If we can't give advice I guess we can just give them words of hope.

    :wswrwb:
    Some of the threads in that section are plain embarrassing, and its simply inappropriate to talk the way some people do with the opposite sex, no matter how many MashAllah's they want to throw in.

    Casual chit-chat and praising each other, joking etc. is wrong.

    Also, I don't think people should be compelled to post in the anon section. If they don't feel they have anything of benefit to add or share, there's no point posting.

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  • Ya'sin
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    [MENTION=119636]patient believer[/MENTION] I'm going to start 'spamming' the VMs of married folks when I see them on a marriage thread making fun of OP or giving 'advice'

    And thanks to [MENTION=136320]The Poet[/MENTION] I will refrain from praising people too much but you are an asset to this forum :jkk: I just want you to know we appreciate your efforts, May Allah make you better than what I think of you and make you successful in this world an the hereafter . Ameen

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    Originally posted by AX1300 View Post
    Boys and girls just like to talk to each other about marriage and other nonsense.

    The marriage section should be made private and moderated more strictly - it is becoming a bigger joke as the days go on.
    No.

    It's not always a joke and you forget some married people also waste their time on there taking the mick.

    They are more experienced therefore if they really want to help and make a difference, the anon section is their priority. Only a very few- two or three I'd say respond, everyone else is just picking on others on the marriage section.

    :jkk: for the this thread [MENTION=119636]patient believer[/MENTION] I'll try my best :insha: it's hard at times but there's no excuse, worrying if they are trolls are not isn't a good enoguhe excuse either. If we can't give advice I guess we can just give them words of hope.

    :wswrwb:

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  • Simply_Logical
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    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
    Waalaikumussalam,
    Problem with the anonymous section is most of the time even if you reply , you will not get a reply back.
    And you get a lot of trolls as well.

    So people have given up on that over a period of time.

    Also it used to be the case that when you reply to them ,it takes a day or so to be approved and shown....i believe that has changed now.
    ^ this

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  • EenieMeanie
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    We've been leaving poor [MENTION=136320]The Poet[/MENTION] to man the ship on her own :there:

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  • AX1300
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    Boys and girls just like to talk to each other about marriage and other nonsense.

    The marriage section should be made private and moderated more strictly - it is becoming a bigger joke as the days go on.

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  • Abu 'Abdullaah
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    I try to avoid that section.

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  • nudgetheputri
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    I'm guilty of neglecting this section too. I'll try to advise if I can.

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  • Lavender
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    Originally posted by patient believer View Post
    I know sometimes we feel like we can't guve any advice at all simply because the matter is beyond our reach.But its so kuch better if you took your time to read , care about their situation and try to help out than for us to ignore their vry for help. I know that most of us are not ignoring them and that we choose to stay silent because we know we can't offer anything but iys better to try .By trying individuals will know that at least we care .And sister you are a calm individual and I know so many will benefit inshaAllah.
    i might have to start tagging people in threads .lol
    [MENTION=122588]Fragile[/MENTION] [MENTION=110507]aynina[/MENTION] [MENTION=19240]Sheba[/MENTION] [MENTION=2713]yasin[/MENTION] [MENTION=13852]skylark[/MENTION] [MENTION=17590]miss[/MENTION] foxy [MENTION=7392]everyone[/MENTION]
    lets all focus on that section inshaAllah.
    InshaaAllah sister. Thanks for the reminder :)

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  • patient believer
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    Originally posted by mohmin View Post
    its amazing how crazy obsessed people are with the marriage section, all full of unrealistic questions as well lol just get married people if you are obsessing over it too much
    I know right. I actually took sometime put and compared the real world with ummah forum .And Alhamdulillah i was relieved that when it comes to marraige people do not hold such obsession. I think people take a mockery and troll on the forum.

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  • mohmin
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    its amazing how crazy obsessed people are with the marriage section, all full of unrealistic questions as well lol just get married people if you are obsessing over it too much

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  • patient believer
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    Re: Anonymous Posting/Counselling section /lack of attention

    Originally posted by Lavender View Post
    :salams

    :jkk: for the reminder.

    I'm really bad with advices so I don't really have much to offer. That's why I don't post there. The section is really sad though, people going through so much. May Allah swt make it easy for them ameen.
    I know sometimes we feel like we can't guve any advice at all simply because the matter is beyond our reach.But its so kuch better if you took your time to read , care about their situation and try to help out than for us to ignore their vry for help. I know that most of us are not ignoring them and that we choose to stay silent because we know we can't offer anything but iys better to try .By trying individuals will know that at least we care .And sister you are a calm individual and I know so many will benefit inshaAllah.
    i might have to start tagging people in threads .lol
    [MENTION=122588]Fragile[/MENTION] [MENTION=110507]aynina[/MENTION] [MENTION=19240]Sheba[/MENTION] [MENTION=2713]yasin[/MENTION] [MENTION=13852]skylark[/MENTION] [MENTION=17590]miss[/MENTION] foxy [MENTION=7392]everyone[/MENTION]
    lets all focus on that section inshaAllah.
    Last edited by patient believer; 21-07-16, 05:12 PM.

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  • ~Umar~
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    :wswrwb:

    :jkk: for the reminder.

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