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  • shehbazthakur
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    Originally posted by abuahmed View Post

    The following is a summary of the book "How to make your wife happy by Sheikh Mohammed Abdelhaleem Hamed.

    Beautiful Reception

    After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you:

    Begin with a good greeting.
    Start with Assalamau 'Aliaykum and a smile. Salam is a sunnah and a du'aa for her as well.
    ..................................
    When it becomes necessary to discuss a problem wait until you have privacy from others.
    Waiting until the anger has subsided a bit can help to keep a control on your words.
    Finally, please make Du'a for the writer; Sheikh Mohammad Abdelhaleem Hamed, for the translator brother Abu Talhah and for reviewer Br. Adam Qurashi. Remember this is not a perfect translation so forgive us our faults and correct our errors. Muslim Students' Association University of Alberta Edmonton, Canada February, 1999.

    Taken from : Al-Haramain.org Newsletter
    I love to read these kind of posts, the only problem i have with such kind of articles (for men and women point of view) is (or atleast in my experience , not trying to generalize) when a sister reads this article she will assume she will get all this treatment and when we men fall even slightly short of these duties weve had it. On the other hand even if we do all of these good things mentioned above perfectly then we dont get appreciated as these good things we do for our wife is just "baseline".
    and the opposite is also true for articles on how women should try and please their husbands etc etc. Men take their wives for granted if their wife is a good wife as per the sunnah and these sort of articles. Such women so RARE. After the blessings of iman the 2nd best blessing is a good wife.

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  • Simply_Logical
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    Originally posted by shay5 View Post

    No one likes a yes man/woman.
    true but sometimes its better to just go along with the flow

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  • Ya'sin
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    Originally posted by shay5 View Post

    No one likes a yes man/woman.
    I HATE it

    it's like talking to a brick wall, doesn't do anything for the relationship



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  • shay5
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    Originally posted by cuezed View Post
    I've figured it out. Stay silent and agree to everything she says.
    No one likes a yes man/woman.

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  • Ya'sin
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    Originally posted by cuezed View Post
    I've figured it out. Stay silent and agree to everything she says.

    Hmm

    I prefer it if both of us come to an understanding by discussing it

    I don't like the silence and pretense

    Doesn't solve anything then the cycle repeats itself because the husband didn't bother expressing his opinions on the subject

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  • cuezed
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    I've figured it out. Stay silent and agree to everything she says.

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  • firestar101
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Originally posted by Talwaar View Post
    She will be happy if I'm happy
    Haha

    What a twin

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  • shann
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Looks like my future wife will be unhappy.

    Jk, i'll try my best to do these in the future

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  • AbulUthman
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Wow nice...

    To sum up,,, be best friends with each other...

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  • Stogie
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    Nope, misogynistic, patronising, abusive, clueless wife beaters make me mad.

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  • Firecookies
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Originally posted by Stogie View Post
    "" Speak with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she understands. ""

    Bless her little cotton socks, she cant understand the big complicated words a manly man uses, no you should use smaller words, and repeat them as often as she needs, because a ladies brain cant quite understand the words a mans brain can.
    I don't see anything wrong with that... :scratch:

    Shouldn't we speak with clarity and repeat words if our spouse doesn't understand? Or am I doing it wrong?

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  • Rainyday
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Originally posted by Stogie View Post
    Really ?

    Did you miss the bit where he said you should beat your wife if she refuses intercourse.

    I mean, he did say she should be beaten lightly, so that's ok, right ?

    If theres one thing that will make any woman happy its getting slapped around a bit for refusing sex. Secret of a happy marriage right there folks.
    My husband often beats me, not just lightly either. He beat me at scrabble the other day, by a gazillion points.

    English is his second language too.... SHAME on me!

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  • Stogie
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    "" Speak with clarity and repeat words if necessary until she understands. ""

    Bless her little cotton socks, she cant understand the big complicated words a manly man uses, no you should use smaller words, and repeat them as often as she needs, because a ladies brain cant quite understand the words a mans brain can.


    I mean really ? Really ?

    Has this guy Sheikh Mohammed Abdelhaleem Hamed ever even met a woman ?

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  • Firecookies
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Originally posted by Stogie View Post
    Really ?

    Did you miss the bit where he said you should beat your wife if she refuses intercourse.

    I mean, he did say she should be beaten lightly, so that's ok, right ?

    If theres one thing that will make any woman happy its getting slapped around a bit for refusing sex. Secret of a happy marriage right there folks.
    Trolling hard eh?

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  • Stogie
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    Re: How to make your Wife happy ?

    Originally posted by LailaTheMuslim View Post
    Finally a positive reminder in the marriage section

    Really ?

    Did you miss the bit where he said you should beat your wife if she refuses intercourse.

    I mean, he did say she should be beaten lightly, so that's ok, right ?

    If theres one thing that will make any woman happy its getting slapped around a bit for refusing sex. Secret of a happy marriage right there folks.

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