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  • #16
    Re: Question about my first attemt?!

    Originally posted by P1RAT3N View Post
    I laughed at myself. You don't have to take it seriously. Take a chill pill mate.
    I made a joke. It is a joke where I never made fun of you. I made fun of myself and it's clearly stated there.

    What I ment up there is that I personallt don't even have one person to tell you about. Asking to tell you about at least three is to much for me. I am not laughing at you, I am laughing at myself for havin none to even talk to. I am more lonely than u can imagine so I understand how it is to live my whole lifebeing a lonely wolf, only talking to the wall.

    I would ask these questions cuz gaming is one of my hobbies. I am sarcastic at my own low expectations in a marriage. I didn't say anything about your post or your Questions. Not at all.
    Sorry maaaan, maybe it was to early in the morning..., nonetheless don't laugh at yourself :-) I do that to sometimes too, I think it has a negative psychological effects.

    You're never ever more lonely than I am, I have not even one friend that I could think of. There is just one brother who I could consider as a friend, but we're sooo different. So, is he really a friend? I don't think so, more a brother whom I try to remind him of Allah.

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    • #17
      Re: Question about my first attemt?!

      Originally posted by islam1433 View Post
      Sorry maaaan, maybe it was to early in the morning..., nonetheless don't laugh at yourself :-) I do that to sometimes too, I think it has a negative psychological effects.

      You're never ever more lonely than I am, I have not even one friend that I could think of. There is just one brother who I could consider as a friend, but we're sooo different. So, is he really a friend? I don't think so, more a brother whom I try to remind him of Allah.
      Ok so now we cleared the first part alhamdulillah.

      But you judged to fast on the second one. I didn't say I am more lonely. But it does not mean I am simply just lonely. My situation is far more worse than just not having any friends. I am an outcast with nowhere to go to. I don't belong anywhere anymore. And It's normal for people to look at me as an alien from mars and even think they have the right to humiliate me as I am an ant with no value.

      I don't know your situation and I hope it gets better for you inshallah. But cmon, lets just laugh it out here just to forget it. Cuz I've only found one person here that understands me so I feel at home writing and being active in this forum. I can be myself for once in my life.

      Take a coffee break and laugh. Have fun. Life is to short to be mad and keep worrying.
      Hakuna Matata.

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      • #18
        Re: Question about my first attemt?!

        Originally posted by P1RAT3N View Post
        Ok so now we cleared the first part alhamdulillah.

        But you judged to fast on the second one. I didn't say I am more lonely. But it does not mean I am simply just lonely. My situation is far more worse than just not having any friends. I am an outcast with nowhere to go to. I don't belong anywhere anymore. And It's normal for people to look at me as an alien from mars and even think they have the right to humiliate me as I am an ant with no value.

        I don't know your situation and I hope it gets better for you inshallah. But cmon, lets just laugh it out here just to forget it. Cuz I've only found one person here that understands me so I feel at home writing and being active in this forum. I can be myself for once in my life.

        Take a coffee break and laugh. Have fun. Life is to short to be mad and keep worrying.
        Hakuna Matata.

        Hmm, are you male or female? Do you live alone? Why do you think they look at you that way, do you think there is a reason behind that?

        I don't know who's humiliating you, but did you tried to change your environment? Some people just have a bad character, so it's better for us to distance us from them. However, nobody has the right to do such things and they will get asked for it on the day of judgment.

        You're right, life is too short to be mad but it's even to short to be productive, when we not use the time with reason. May Allah relieve your situation.

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        • #19
          Re: Question about my first attemt?!

          Originally posted by islam1433 View Post
          Hmm, are you male or female? Do you live alone? Why do you think they look at you that way, do you think there is a reason behind that?

          I don't know who's humiliating you, but did you tried to change your environment? Some people just have a bad character, so it's better for us to distance us from them. However, nobody has the right to do such things and they will get asked for it on the day of judgment.

          You're right, life is too short to be mad but it's even to short to be productive, when we not use the time with reason. May Allah relieve your situation.
          I am female. The reason is propably because I don't behave like them. I am straight to the point. Everything I say is stated by facts. My hobbies are different. People seem to put me in my own category even tho I have nothing against theirs.
          They can't accept me for who I am. They have a problem with me but I have better stuff to do than being bothered by their behaviour towards me. Show them the backhand and move on.
          I can't switch enviroment that easily but I can decide who to be with. Haven't found anyone suitable to hang out with so I rather stay alone than suffering with them.

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          • #20
            Re: Question about my first attemt?!

            [MENTION=77209]islam1433[/MENTION] [MENTION=145717]P1RAT3N[/MENTION]

            U 2 should both go to the masjid more and get to know people there that way youl make good friends

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            • #21
              Re: Question about my first attemt?!

              Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
              [MENTION=77209]islam1433[/MENTION] [MENTION=145717]P1RAT3N[/MENTION]

              U 2 should both go to the masjid more and get to know people there that way youl make good friends
              akhi, the problem is, i feel uncomfortable to speak to people. Even I don't know how to do that. i get really stressed. And I figured out since I go to a mosque were nobody knows me, just to pray and leave, I can concentrate much better. Otherway I always think of the people and that distracts me from remembering Allah.

              Even people are weird, I know couple of people who pretend to be pious but they're not. I want brothers who reminds be 80% to Allah and maybe 20% of dunya. But most are talking 99% of dunya.

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              • #22
                Re: Question about my first attemt?!

                Originally posted by islam1433 View Post
                akhi, the problem is, i feel uncomfortable to speak to people. Even I don't know how to do that. i get really stressed. And I figured out since I go to a mosque were nobody knows me, just to pray and leave, I can concentrate much better. Otherway I always think of the people and that distracts me from remembering Allah.

                Even people are weird, I know couple of people who pretend to be pious but they're not. I want brothers who reminds be 80% to Allah and maybe 20% of dunya. But most are talking 99% of dunya.
                I understand but if u dont try youl never have friends and how will u speak to ur wife if u cant speak to people at the masjid
                Shes going to be a stranger at first

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                • #23
                  6 years is nothinggggg
                  إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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                  • #24
                    Re: Question about my first attemt?!

                    Originally posted by Abu julaybeeb View Post
                    I understand but if u dont try youl never have friends and how will u speak to ur wife if u cant speak to people at the masjid
                    Shes going to be a stranger at first
                    It's because people in the masjid, I have nothing to share. I don't know whether that brother is pious or not. Finding out will always include making bad experience and judge people. I hate judging people, I try to concentrate on my on nafs and errors. I don't want to be hurt or hurt other people. For instance, at my workplace, I have a lot of brothers there and I love everyone of them from my deepest hard. Because that are decent guys, with whom I pray in the brakes. There is no problem, I can talk and make jokes. But masjid is kind of different, I don't know why.

                    btw: talking to a women is gonna be interesting - never talk to a women that way. But I think this part I would figure out. She will be nervous too, I am sure.
                    Last edited by islam1433; 11-11-17, 05:07 PM.

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                    • #25
                      Re: Question about my first attemt?!

                      lol its 6 years, not 60!

                      I don't think it will be a problem at all. 6 years means she is still from the same generation as you.

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