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    Marriage Positivity

    Salaams,

    I want to make this section positive about marriage, I don't like the way it looks/sounds, anyone who wants to help is welcome. It makes marriage sound bad and it's a Sunnah, nothing about the Sunnah can EVER be bad. If it doesn't works out for us it's due to our own limited intellect and shortcomings

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    I wish I could read some of the positive side of marriage but to many makes it a war between the genders. Who should do this, who should do that, he said this she said that, he made this she made that and it goes on. If you marry, you compromisse no one is better than the other, done.
    If people could share some good stories about marriage, that would be of great help. I am not married and tbh I sometimes see it as negative which I shouldnt. But I am changing my view and people should too :up:

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      #3
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      it's good to hear you are changing your view, marriage sounds like war on the forum, them vs us, him vs her, mars vs venus, load of nonsense.

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        Originally posted by Scrooge View Post
        Salaams,

        I want to make this section positive about marriage, I don't like the way it looks/sounds, anyone who wants to help is welcome. It makes marriage sound bad and it's a Sunnah, nothing about the Sunnah can EVER be bad. If it doesn't works out for us it's due to our own limited intellect and shortcomings
        Bold part not always true, unless you decide to live and put up with living in a bad marriage.

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          Originally posted by oshirowanen View Post
          Bold part not always true, unless you decide to live and put up with living in a bad marriage.
          there's always exceptions, but that's when we have to allow our belief in qadr to take over our intellect.

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            Originally posted by P1RAT3N View Post
            I wish I could read some of the positive side of marriage but to many makes it a war between the genders. Who should do this, who should do that, he said this she said that, he made this she made that and it goes on. If you marry, you compromisse no one is better than the other, done.
            If people could share some good stories about marriage, that would be of great help. I am not married and tbh I sometimes see it as negative which I shouldnt. But I am changing my view and people should too :up:
            positive side to marriage is like when you come home tired, had a bad day and you find your wife in the kitchen making your favourite meal, ready to serve you without any complaints :rotfl:

            ok, I'm messing with you

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              #7
              Marriage Positivity

              :vomit:
              إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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                there's lots of positive stuff guys, come on help me out here....

                like when you buy her a gift and surprise her out of the blue, the look in her eyes, the excitement.
                when you feeling down and out and she can just sense it, and gives you a cuddle or a hug.
                when you sacrifice that one thing you've always wanted just so you can buy her what she always wanted but never demanded it.
                when she makes that extra bit of effort to mix and be with your family not because you asked her to, but because she knows they mean a lot to you.
                when she is ill and you just take over the house and kids coz you know she deserves it, cos you love her and nothing hurts you more than seeing her in pain.
                when she does something really stupid and you blow the roof off, then you see she is hurting and maybe even a tear, you just give her a hug and say sorry, it's ok, it was a mistake I understand.

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                  #9
                  Marriage Positivity

                  This thread seems a little too naive and will get the young ones excited and dying for Marriage. :| lol

                  gone are the days where we had threads like this. We used to take the mick.
                  إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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                    #10
                    Re: Marriage Positivity

                    sometimes being positive seems naive

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                      #11
                      Marriage Positivity

                      I think 90% of people on here are married now after your thread
                      إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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                        #12
                        Re: Marriage Positivity

                        Originally posted by Scrooge View Post
                        positive side to marriage is like when you come home tired, had a bad day and you find your wife in the kitchen making your favourite meal, ready to serve you without any complaints :rotfl:

                        ok, I'm messing with you
                        OOOH you did it again!!! I'll get you for this!! :rotfl:

                        But I have nothing to insult u with. What makes men offended?!
                        oh I know!

                        The "I am not gonna make you a sandwish" sentence probably ticks you off

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                          #13
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                          Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                          I think 90% of people on here are married now after your thread
                          that was quick:inlove:

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                            Originally posted by P1RAT3N View Post
                            OOOH you did it again!!! I'll get you for this!! :rotfl:

                            But I have nothing to insult u with. What makes men offended?!
                            oh I know!

                            The "I am not gonna make you a sandwish" sentence probably ticks you off
                            I'm tired of sandwiches

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                              Marriage Positivity

                              Rice and curry
                              إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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