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    Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

    :salams

    Much later than others.

    #2
    Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

    Career

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      #3
      Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

      Wa aleiykum salaam


      Also, why do you guys wait to do the nikah like 2 years after saying yes to a guy
      يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

      O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

      Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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        #4
        Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

        Takes time to build financial stability.

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          #5
          Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

          Unusually late would be like 35+ tbh

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            #6
            Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

            no job

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              #7
              Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

              Originally posted by aynina View Post
              Wa aleiykum salaam


              Also, why do you guys wait to do the nikah like 2 years after saying yes to a guy
              Like all things, it is a cultural thing.

              Also, 2 years is much longer than 'usual', as the norm in some cultures is 6 months to 1 year.

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                #8
                Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                Originally posted by horizon View Post
                Like all things, it is a cultural thing.

                Also, 2 years is much longer than 'usual', as the norm in some cultures is 6 months to 1 year.
                Still its a lot, whats the use of waiting a year... postponing isnt a good thing
                يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                  Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                  Originally posted by aynina View Post
                  Wa aleiykum salaam


                  Also, why do you guys wait to do the nikah like 2 years after saying yes to a guy
                  Huh?
                  رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

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                    #10
                    Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                    Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
                    Huh?
                    What?
                    يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                    O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                    Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                      #11
                      Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                      Originally posted by aynina View Post
                      What?
                      No comprendo
                      رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

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                        #12
                        Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                        Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
                        No comprendo
                        That many ppl say yes to a potential and then wait 1-2 years to do the actual nikah
                        يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                        O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                        Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                          #13
                          Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                          Originally posted by aynina View Post
                          That many ppl say yes to a potential and then wait 1-2 years to do the actual nikah
                          Oh., yh that doesn’t make sense unless something is preventing them from finalizing the nikah.
                          رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

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                            #14
                            Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                            Originally posted by aynina View Post
                            Still its a lot, whats the use of waiting a year... postponing isnt a good thing
                            Sometimes the reasoning (waiting some months) is required. South Asians (and maybe other cultures too) have big walimas (feeding 400+ people) and so it takes time to get the appropriate venue, etc.

                            However, unnecessary delay is wrong and perhaps it may be better to perform the nikaah as soon as possible and then have the walima at some in the future. Although I don't think waiting a few months is that bad either, as it allows both the husband and wife to get their affairs in order, etc.

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                              Re: Why have you left it unusually late to get married?

                              Originally posted by Umm Uthmaan View Post
                              Oh., yh that doesn’t make sense unless something is preventing them from finalizing the nikah.
                              Yea but what could possibly prevent
                              يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                              O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                              Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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