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    Hi

    I should probably start by describing my situation so you can get a clear picture. I'm a 24 year old student, finishing up his education. I feel now im mature enough to handle the responsibility that come with marriage. As such i've started to look for a potential spouse. This is were it gets tricky, as the type of sister im looking for isn't the type to you can just walk up to and ask out. I'm wondering how people currently looking for spouses like myself and others who have gotten married found a pious sister.
    I should mention, there are none at my university, nor is my social circle large and i'm not the type to go to weddings and other cultural functions.
    Last edited by itsgiise; 22-04-17, 05:30 PM. Reason: Gramar

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    Re: Finding Potential Partners

    R u sure non at uni? Usually at the ladies prayer room bunch of lovely girls that u dont see wondering around, but gather up there
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    * typing from my phone, excuse the mess

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    • #3
      Re: Finding Potential Partners

      I suppose the masjid, but i know how masjids can be
      يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

      O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

      Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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      • #4
        Re: Finding Potential Partners

        Originally posted by malleat1 View Post
        R u sure non at uni? Usually at the ladies prayer room bunch of lovely girls that u dont see wondering around, but gather up there
        Yeah, it's a university at a small city in Scandinavian . It doesn't have a prayer room at all. So no gathering here.

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        • #5
          Re: Finding Potential Partners

          Originally posted by aynina View Post
          I suppose the masjid, but i know how masjids can be
          I don't mind masjids. How do they work, do they set you up with a random person or ?

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          • #6
            Re: Finding Potential Partners

            Originally posted by itsgiise View Post
            I don't mind masjids. How do they work, do they set you up with a random person or ?
            I dont know my masjid wouldnt be the fit one to ask
            يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

            O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

            Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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            • #7
              Re: Finding Potential Partners

              The generic answers are... ask your family, friends, the imam at the masjid, Islamic matrimonial sites, if there's anyone you've noticed at uni/work/community work etc

              The real life answer is... I honestly don't know. if your family don't have religious suitable connections it can be very hard... make du'aa and actively search (not sure how you can actively search), its really tough.. people whose families are well known islamically in the community..find this much, much easier. Therefore practically.. I don't have a real clue, lol.
              And with Him are the keys of the Ghayb (all that is hidden), none knows them but He. And He knows whatever there is in the land and in the sea; not a leaf falls, but He knows it. There is not a grain in the darkness of the earth nor anything fresh or dry, but is written in a Clear Record
              [al-Anaam 6:59]

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              • #8
                Re: Finding Potential Partners

                Originally posted by Creamcake View Post
                The generic answers are... ask your family, friends, the imam at the masjid, Islamic matrimonial sites, if there's anyone you've noticed at uni/work/community work etc

                The real life answer is... I honestly don't know. if your family don't have religious suitable connections it can be very hard... make du'aa and actively search (not sure how you can actively search), its really tough.. people whose families are well known islamically in the community..find this much, much easier. Therefore practically.. I don't have a real clue, lol.
                Alright perhaps i should've phrased it differently. How did you guys get in touch with your current spouses ?
                And plz don't tell me it was through family :(

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                • #9
                  Re: Finding Potential Partners

                  Originally posted by itsgiise View Post
                  Alright perhaps i should've phrased it differently. How did you guys get in touch with your current spouses ?
                  And plz don't tell me it was through family :(
                  I can't answer that question yet, but I'm sure our married sisters and brothers on here, can
                  When I do, doubt it will be through my family, we don't have religious connections, and I'm certainly not marrying someone half practising
                  And with Him are the keys of the Ghayb (all that is hidden), none knows them but He. And He knows whatever there is in the land and in the sea; not a leaf falls, but He knows it. There is not a grain in the darkness of the earth nor anything fresh or dry, but is written in a Clear Record
                  [al-Anaam 6:59]

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                  • #10
                    Re: Finding Potential Partners

                    Originally posted by aynina View Post
                    I dont know my masjid wouldnt be the fit one to ask

                    lol you make me worry for myself
                    قد كانت لكم أسوة حسنة في إبراهيم والذين معه إذ قالوا لقومهم إنا برآء منكم ومما تعبدون من دون الله كفرنا بكم وبدا بيننا وبينكم العداوة والبغضاء أبدا حتى تؤمنوا بالله وحده

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                    • #11
                      Re: Finding Potential Partners

                      Originally posted by .khayriyyah. View Post
                      lol you make me worry for myself
                      Haha sis idk what theyre like where u live but mine would definately not look for a pious man but just help out a brozer in need (of a green card)
                      يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                      O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                      Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                      • #12
                        Re: Finding Potential Partners

                        Originally posted by aynina View Post
                        Haha sis idk what theyre like where u live but mine would definately not look for a pious man but just help out a brozer in need (of a green card)
                        Not a worry here. Considering im across the atlantic

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                        • #13
                          Re: Finding Potential Partners

                          Originally posted by itsgiise View Post
                          Not a worry here. Considering im across the atlantic
                          America?
                          يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                          O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                          Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                          • #14
                            Re: Finding Potential Partners

                            Originally posted by aynina View Post
                            America?
                            No. Denmark.. Thought you were in America.
                            No green-card chasers here

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                            • #15
                              Re: Finding Potential Partners

                              Originally posted by itsgiise View Post
                              No. Denmark.. Thought you were in America.
                              No green-card chasers here
                              Ah im in belgium and yes we do have them most morrocon/algerian bc they find jobs better here aparently
                              يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                              O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                              Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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