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  • Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

    See title.
    Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.

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    Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

    Sooner the better i say

    The start looking process may take years you never know

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    • #3
      Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

      Start looking now
      إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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      • #4
        Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

        Originally posted by sajid View Post
        Sooner the better i say

        The start looking process may take years you never know
        Not if I do the traditional way through family suggesting people. My family is pretty well known Alhamdulillah and have had people asking about me before. So taking into account that it probably won't take years?
        Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
        Start looking now
        Lol sis definitely not for at least 2 years.
        Ya Rab! When you give me wealth, do not take away my happiness. When you give me strength, do not take away my intelligence. When you give me victory, do not take away my humility. When you give me humility, do not take away my dignity.

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        • #5
          Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

          What is grad school?
          نحن قوما اعزنا الله بالإسلام فإن ابتغينا عزة بغيره أذلنا الله

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          • #6
            Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

            How old will you be after grad school?

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            • #7
              Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

              Not sure what grad school is
              But if it is BSc level, nothing wrong with focusing on ur studies, its not like you'll expire by then! You have plenty of time to look...

              If it is post grad studies, then no reason to wait
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              * typing from my phone, excuse the mess

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              • #8
                Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                Grad school will end when you're in your late 20's if you do a PhD. If you could find someone who is okay with you finishing your studies during your marriage then why delay? Besides, once you complete your comps and all your classes in the first 2 years it'll feel more like a job than school.

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                • #9
                  Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                  How long is grad school?

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                  • #10
                    Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                    No, sooner the better, Alhamdulillah.

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                    • #11
                      Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                      Originally posted by -qed- View Post
                      See title.
                      I know one ukhti who has been talking about getting married since nursery.lol She has been telling, that this brother needs to have fist length beard etc...And she is still the same.
                      (Some people say, that arab sisters have this inborn ability to long for marriage, don't know if it is true..lol)

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                      • #12
                        Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                        What are your reasons to start looking after grad school and not before? Also, what are you aiming to achieive after getting a grad degree?

                        For all your Britishers and others: Undergraduate is 4 years after High School where you get a Bachelors Degree. Then comes Graduate School which is usually 2 years (could be more or less) and you get a Graduate Degree like Masters.
                        Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                        "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                        - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                        • #13
                          Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                          Originally posted by -qed- View Post
                          Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?
                          The mumineen men who have graduate degrees or bachelor degrees or no degrees will not marry a woman who has a graduate degree because the mumineen men are looking for a woman who is going to be his future housewife only and not a working woman at all and women with degrees tend to want to have a job even though they deny it. The only men who marry a woman who has a graduate degree are the ones who want to use their wife as a money making slave for the rest of her working career and this is haraam and evil. ALLAH AL-AZEEM created Eve to be the companion and wife of Prophet Adam and not to be a working woman at all. Unless a woman is totally/completely destitute she should never ever work in'shaa'ALLAH. All of the wives of the Prophet Mohammed :saw: who are the mothers of mumineen never ever had jobs, they own property and were free enterprising businesswomen but they did not have jobs at all and the mothers of mumineen are the sole female examples for all true believing muminaat women to follow always in'shaa'ALLAH.

                          :salams Sister qed
                          Last edited by ABDEL-AZEEM; 01-04-17, 07:26 PM.
                          ALLAH AL-AZEEM is the one and only GOD and ALLAH AL-AZEEM created everything. Therefore ALLAH AL-AZEEM created the Earth and created everything in the Earth and created all of the heavens and created everything in all of the heavens and created all of the hells and created everything in all of the hells and created all of the universes and created everything in all of the universes and created everything in between them.

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                          • #14
                            Re: Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                            Originally posted by ABDEL-AZEEM View Post
                            The mumineen men who have graduate degrees or bachelor degrees or no degrees will not marry a woman who has a graduate degree because the mumineen men are looking for a woman who is going to be his future housewife only and not a working woman at all and women with degrees tend to want to have a job even though they deny it. The only men who marry a woman who has a graduate degree are ones who want to use their wife as a money making slave for the rest of her working career and this is haraam and evil. ALLAH AL-AZEEM created Eve to be the companion and wife of Prophet Adam and not to be a working woman at all. Unless a woman is totally/completely destitute she should never ever work in'shaa'ALLAH. All of the wives of the Prophet Mohammed :saw: who are the mothers of mumineen never ever had jobs, they own property but did not have jobs at all.

                            :salams Sister qed
                            That's a very illogical and massively generalized post, esp. that bold part.

                            First of all, where did you get that mumineen men will not marry a women with a graduate degree? Secondly, there is no guarantee that sisters with an advanced degree will automatically want to work or that their husbands will use them as "money making slaves." Seems like a very outlandish point of view. Thirdly, Khadijah (RA) used to run her own business and earn money, so yeah, she kind of did had a job.
                            Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

                            "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
                            - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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                            • #15
                              Is it a bad idea to start looking to marry after grad school?

                              That puts you around 24 or 25, correct? That's not so bad.

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