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  • How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

    I mean..is it seriously bad for her not to? Could she be considered oppressive?

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    How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

    Beautify herself infront of whom?
    Hubby?

    Very important. You are the living beauty in front of him guuuurl.
    The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

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      Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

      Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
      I mean..is it seriously bad for her not to? Could she be considered oppressive?
      Yes the husband has certain rights the same as the wife. If this means that his or her rights are ignored, it is for sure oppression. Moreover such problems may threaten the intimacy and integrity of the family.
      Note: I am a shia.

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      • #4
        Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

        It is one of the teachings of Islam that a woman should make herself look beautiful for her husband, so that her husband sees of her that which he likes.
        Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

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        • #5
          Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

          Very important. It goes both ways as well. Not doing that is both selfish and lazy. And don't be surprised if a husband in such a scenario looks for another wife.
          ***Reminder- It was narrated from Abd-Allaah ibn Masood that RasulAllah :saw: said: Whoever reads Tabaarak allaathi bi yadihil-mulk [i.e., Soorat al-Mulk] every night, Allaah will protect him from the torment of the grave.
          And never think that Allah is unaware of what the wrongdoers do. He only delays them for a Day when eyes will stare [in horror]. [Quran, 14:42]

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          • #6
            Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

            Originally posted by Thunder94 View Post
            Very important. It goes both ways as well. Not doing that is both selfish and lazy. And don't be surprised if a husband in such a scenario looks for another wife.
            What if she doesn't look nice even after beautifying herself

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            • #7
              Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

              Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View Post
              What if she doesn't look nice even after beautifying herself
              Men are not that difficult to impress.....
              Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

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              • #8
                Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

                Ofcourse it is sis to keep the marriage alive, and apart from him actually u need to do it for yourself so u feel confident and happy
                يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                • #9
                  Re: How important is it for a wife to beautify herself?

                  Not this again.

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