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  • #46
    Re: using marriage as a way out

    Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
    Surah Tahrim
    An ayah expresses how He will give them rizq from places they wouldn't have ever perceived

    marriage is a means...
    [MENTION=110056]Umm Uthmaan[/MENTION]
    Wa yarzuqhu min haythu lam yahtasib
    allahu alam
    إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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    • #47
      Re: using marriage as a way out

      [MENTION=71631]iRepIslam[/MENTION] Yeah it's surah Talaq :)
      رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

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      • #48
        Re: using marriage as a way out

        Honestly, there's nothing wrong with it. It goes against societies current way of thinking but so does marrying for wealth - which is OK.

        People in different circumstance will need different things and sometimes if they are blessed with a spouse it would be the best thing for them.
        It all starts with a thought

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        • #49
          using marriage as a way out

          [MENTION=110056]Umm Uthmaan[/MENTION]

          Oooooh ukthiii ❤❤ :jkk: سبحان الله
          إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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          • #50
            Re: using marriage as a way out

            Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
            [MENTION=110056]Umm Uthmaan[/MENTION]

            Oooooh ukthiii ❤❤ :jkk: سبحان الله
            Wa iyyaki habibah ❤❤
            رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

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            • #51
              Re: using marriage as a way out

              Originally posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
              nothing
              I found your comment funny
              Why tho
              يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

              O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

              Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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              • #52
                Re: using marriage as a way out

                Originally posted by aynina View Post
                Why tho
                You need more than love, bruv.

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                • #53
                  Re: using marriage as a way out

                  Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                  You need more than love, bruv.
                  Yes, I NEED AN EXPLINATION
                  يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                  O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                  Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                  • #54
                    Re: using marriage as a way out

                    Originally posted by Rumaysah~ View Post
                    Is it bad to see marriage as a way out of certain difficulties?
                    Does everything have to be perfect before getting married? Do you have to have everything together?
                    Does it differ for men and women?
                    no
                    no
                    maybe
                    sigpic

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                    • #55
                      Re: using marriage as a way out

                      Question for [MENTION=130730]Rumaysah~[/MENTION]

                      Lets assume you use marriage as a way out for your current problems. Lets then assume that different problems arise via marriage. How will you solve those problems? People generally get themselves into repeating situations and solutions, so if you use the "way out" solution to problems in the part, changes are high that in future problems, you'll want to use the "way out" solution again.

                      So my question is, if you don't use the "way out" solution in the future after marriage when you are experiencing difficulties (and every marriage experiences difficulties), which approach will you use to solve marriage problems, and can you use the same or similar solutions to solve your current problems instead of using the "way out" approach?

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                      • #56
                        Re: using marriage as a way out

                        Originally posted by aynina View Post
                        Yes, I NEED AN EXPLINATION
                        Don't we all.

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                        • #57
                          Re: using marriage as a way out

                          Originally posted by oshirowanen View Post
                          Question for [MENTION=130730]Rumaysah~[/MENTION]

                          Lets assume you use marriage as a way out for your current problems. Lets then assume that different problems arise via marriage. How will you solve those problems? People generally get themselves into repeating situations and solutions, so if you use the "way out" solution to problems in the part, changes are high that in future problems, you'll want to use the "way out" solution again.

                          So my question is, if you don't use the "way out" solution in the future after marriage when you are experiencing difficulties (and every marriage experiences difficulties), which approach will you use to solve marriage problems, and can you use the same or similar solutions to solve your current problems instead of using the "way out" approach?
                          You solve problems after marriage the same all other married people solve their problems. There are many ways out of problems and marriage is just one way for someone who has tried every other way and failed.
                          شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
                          فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
                          وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
                          ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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                          • #58
                            Re: using marriage as a way out

                            No. Not a good idea. If you have serious problems with your family, getting married is not going to make them go away. That is one example.

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                            • #59
                              Re: using marriage as a way out

                              Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                              Didnt you open a thread about marriage would take your freedom away or summing recently.

                              Oh best person to ask [MENTION=72222]F_R[/MENTION]

                              Thoughts?
                              Lol why would I be the best person to ask?

                              You don't have to have everything done either

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                              بل استغفر كثيرا

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