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    السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

    This is a Q directed to bros and sisters.

    When you're angry/annoyed what would you like your spouse to do?

    1. Be Quiet
    2. Calm you down
    3. Leave the room/Give space
    4. Advise
    5. Anything else?! (Mention)
    6. Biryani?

    بارك الله فيك

    May Allah forgive & guide us Ameen.
    Last edited by iRepIslam; 13-03-17, 01:12 PM.
    The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

  • #2
    Re: anger in marriage

    give space - then go buy me some Lindt - thank youu.
    Mu'min is more that just a title. It is to have Imaan established in the heart and testified to by the limbs.

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    • #3
      Re: anger in marriage

      Wslmwwb

      Listen - to hear.. not respond...

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      • #4
        Re: anger in marriage

        Wa'alaykumasalaam wa rahmatullahi wa barakathu

        2.

        Ameen.

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        • #5
          Re: anger in marriage

          :wswrwb:

          Hmmmmmmmm v interesting question

          When my mum and dad are angry I try and be peacemaker so I will make them sit down or shake hands and say :salams to each other cos this increases love right. My mum has a venting type anger and my dad has a go silent type anger.

          For me it depends, if it's injustice I get hot tempered and need to vent. If it's hurt I get ice cold temper where my eyes will cut through you :rotfl:

          So I dno actually but I have found that if someone makes the whole situation more light hearted I will just start laffin and then forget why I got mad. Unless it really affected me then I'm not sure say salams to me and then hug me and when I get mad don't let go :D

          Then hear me out and give me solutions and make me feel understood

          Gosh I really am a headache aren't I

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          • #6
            anger in marriage

            Silent treatment is the worst. No one do that in Sha Allah.
            The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

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            • #7
              Re: anger in marriage

              :wswrwb:

              i got a short fuse and a bad temper so best to just leave me to it

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              • #8
                Re: anger in marriage

                Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

                This is a Q directed to bros and sisters.

                When you're angry/annoyed what would you like your spouse to do?

                1. Be Quiet
                2. Calm you down
                3. Leave the room/Give space
                4. Advise
                5. Anything else?! (Mention)


                بارك الله فيك

                May Allah forgive & guide us Ameen.
                :wswrwb:

                Aameen to Dua.
                Last edited by Theistic; 13-03-17, 01:29 PM.


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                • #9
                  Re: anger in marriage

                  Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                  Silent treatment is the worst. No one do that in Sha Allah.
                  YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

                  OMDS STAB ME WITH A KNIFE BUT NO SILENT TREATMENT

                  THIS LITERALLY KILLS ME

                  NO JOKE

                  I THINK I HAVE LOST SOME HEALTHY CELLS BECAUSE OF THIS COS I AM AN OVERTHINKER SO SILENCE IS THE WLRST THING

                  OMDS

                  *drained*

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                  • #10
                    Re: anger in marriage

                    I think the first whiff of 6 would kill my anger.

                    Or maybe 2.

                    But I really cannot remember the last time I got angry in front of family. If I do get annoyed at something, I try not to let them see it (except my poor lil bro, sometimes he can annoy the bananas out of me so he gets a taste of my wrath)
                    Last edited by Deeni Akh; 13-03-17, 01:37 PM.

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                    • #11
                      Re: anger in marriage

                      Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                      السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

                      This is a Q directed to bros and sisters.

                      When you're angry/annoyed what would you like your spouse to do?

                      1. Be Quiet
                      2. Calm you down
                      3. Leave the room/Give space
                      4. Advise
                      5. Anything else?! (Mention)
                      6. Biryani?

                      بارك الله فيك

                      May Allah forgive & guide us Ameen.
                      The point of this thread is....?

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                      • #12
                        anger in marriage

                        [MENTION=47857]Indefinable[/MENTION]

                        Education and preparation Indy. It is useful to know.
                        The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

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                        • #13
                          anger in marriage

                          [MENTION=7414]RaNdOm[/MENTION]

                          Likewise. Silent treatment is not nice... it hurts and annoys me too. :)
                          The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

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                          • #14
                            Re: anger in marriage

                            Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                            [MENTION=47857]Indefinable[/MENTION]

                            Education and preparation Indy. It is useful to know.
                            Everyone is different. What works for one person, may not work for another, therefore, this 'preparation' is futile.

                            Useful to know in what sense? How people on UF react to anger?

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                            • #15
                              anger in marriage

                              [MENTION=47857]Indefinable[/MENTION]
                              :(
                              The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Read, and ascend, and recite as you used to recite in the [previous] world, for your status will be according to the last verse that you recite.’” [At-Tirmidhi (2914) and Abu Dawood (1464)]

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