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  • Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

    :salams


    A woman is often married for one of four reasons:
    1. her beauty
    2. her wealth
    3. her status/lineage
    4. her religious commitment

    'A man is often married for his wealth. The better thing to look at is dedication, if he is dedicated at his job i.e is not lazy is hard working.'

    ‘The prophet :saw: said to look at the deen and the khuluq of the person’

    *khuluq refers to moral and behavioral aspect of a person.

    ‘So look at the deen and ‘khuluq’ in their spirituality, their link with Allah, their religiousness and at the same time their character, then you will become successful. If the other things are there, Alhamdulillah they are a bonus. If you are not happy with the way they look, you have the right to turn it down. If someone comes along and you are kind of okay with how they look but they have amazing character and deen, that is a gift of Allah because you will never get 100% what you want.’
    Indeed we belong to Allah,
    and indeed to Him we will return.


    Quran 2:156

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    Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

    Waalaikumussalam
    True say

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    • #3
      Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

      :wswrwb:


      'A man is often married for his wealth. The better thing to look at is dedication, if he is dedicated at his job i.e is not lazy is hard working.'


      Where did you get that from?
      Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

      "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
      - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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      • #4
        Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

        Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
        :wswrwb:


        'A man is often married for his wealth. The better thing to look at is dedication, if he is dedicated at his job i.e is not lazy is hard working.'


        Where did you get that from?
        Mufti Menk.
        Indeed we belong to Allah,
        and indeed to Him we will return.


        Quran 2:156

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        • #5
          Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

          something wrong?
          Indeed we belong to Allah,
          and indeed to Him we will return.


          Quran 2:156

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          • #6
            Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

            Which video? And was that his opinion or a hadith or something?
            Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

            "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
            - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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            • #7
              Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

              Too much emphasis on a man's job.
              Secure few moments, everyday, to reflect upon the innumerable blessings of Allah and thank Him for bestowing them upon you.

              "A person who is blessed with the ability to be grateful, shall never be deprived of barakah and increase in blessings."
              - Rasulullah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)‎

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              • #8
                Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                Which video? And was that his opinion or a hadith or something?
                'A Guide to Selecting your Spouse' ~8mins YouTube.
                Indeed we belong to Allah,
                and indeed to Him we will return.


                Quran 2:156

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                • #9
                  Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                  Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
                  Too much emphasis on a man's job.
                  He emphasized the person's deen and character.
                  Indeed we belong to Allah,
                  and indeed to Him we will return.


                  Quran 2:156

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                  • #10
                    Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                    Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
                    A woman is often married for one of four reasons:
                    1. her beauty
                    2. her wealth
                    3. her status/lineage
                    4. her religious commitment
                    The rest of the hadith says.... and choose the women with deen... not sure why ppl tend to omit the most valuable part of the hadith...
                    *
                    *
                    * typing from my phone, excuse the mess

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                    • #11
                      Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                      Originally posted by malleat1 View Post
                      The rest of the hadith says.... and choose the women with deen... not sure why ppl tend to omit the most valuable part of the hadith...
                      It's there sis.

                      :jkk:
                      Indeed we belong to Allah,
                      and indeed to Him we will return.


                      Quran 2:156

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                      • #12
                        Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                        :wswrwb:

                        This is sooo true. Marry the religious one

                        Follow the advice of the Prophet (pbuh) and you can't go wrong.

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                        • #13
                          Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                          Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
                          :salams


                          A woman is often married for one of four reasons:
                          1. her beauty
                          2. her wealth
                          3. her status/lineage
                          4. her religious commitment

                          'A man is often married for his wealth. The better thing to look at is dedication, if he is dedicated at his job i.e is not lazy is hard working.'

                          ‘The prophet :saw: said to look at the deen and the khuluq of the person’

                          *khuluq refers to moral and behavioral aspect of a person.

                          ‘So look at the deen and ‘khuluq’ in their spirituality, their link with Allah, their religiousness and at the same time their character, then you will become successful. If the other things are there, Alhamdulillah they are a bonus. If you are not happy with the way they look, you have the right to turn it down. If someone comes along and you are kind of okay with how they look but they have amazing character and deen, that is a gift of Allah because you will never get 100% what you want.’
                          Correct,
                          Earning halal and for family is also part of deen

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                          • #14
                            Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                            Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                            Waalaikumussalam
                            True say
                            I know what your advice would be muzzybee:

                            Select a wife that is difficult and annoying.

                            :deep:

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                            • #15
                              Re: Key Advice When Selecting your Spouse

                              earn halal
                              say halal
                              act halal
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