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  • Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

    Assalamualaikum
    Through my life experiences I know
    Sisters who come across difficult ,you feel like hitting your head on the wall type sisters ..

    Eventually once married they make excellent wives,as long as they got a good grasp of deen.

    Why them you ask ?

    Bcos its s type of insecurity that normaly changes to something positive ,that energy spent on annoyance transforms into energy spent on running the family.

    They got motivation for family life but need time to Get there

    You all may disagree...but that is fine.

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    Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

    lolsss
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    • #3
      Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

      :wswrwb:

      I think you may be on to something there.

      I personally don't trust the quiet, reserved, shy types. Guys assume they're angels but that's dangerous.

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      • #4
        Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

        :rotfl:
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        • #5
          Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

          Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
          :wswrwb:

          I think you may be on to something there.

          I personally don't trust the quiet, reserved, shy types. Guys assume they're angels but that's dangerous.
          Yah ...
          See the difficult ones cant get anymore difficult ...they dont have anymore energy for that....
          But quieter ones ,over a period of time im marriage ,they keep holding all those problems and eventually burst out.

          This causes them to hate the person they love and gives them new energy ..

          With that energy man suffers

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          • #6
            Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

            Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
            Yah ...
            See the difficult ones cant get anymore difficult ...they dont have anymore energy for that....
            But quieter ones ,over a period of time im marriage ,they keep holding all those problems and eventually burst out.

            This causes them to hate the person they love and gives them new energy ..
            that makes no sense. i don't think they are quiet or shy or reserved with their husbands...
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            • #7
              Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

              Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
              that makes no sense. i don't think they are quiet or shy or reserved with their husbands...
              Its a personality trait.
              Unless you have a perfect type of husband ,its hard to change to something you are not comfortable with.

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                Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                Its a personality trait.
                Unless you have a perfect type of husband ,its hard to change to something you are not comfortable with.
                sounds like ya'll are saying the quiet, reserved, shy type girls are snakes or something -_-
                Last edited by ninety1daisies; 07-03-17, 03:05 AM.
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                  Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                  Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
                  sounds like ya'll are saying the quiet, reserved, shy type girls are snakes or something -_-
                  Lol no no,but you dont know what you can expect from them.
                  Emotions gonna play a lot anyway in marriage.

                  But coming to the topic....its mainly the energy and motivation that comes with the individual that sometimes even motivates a reserved type of quiet man to do more for the family.

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                  • #10
                    Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                    Its a personality trait.
                    Unless you have a perfect type of husband ,its hard to change to something you are not comfortable with.
                    Hmmm... Isn't it the case though that certain people are shy / reserved around those they don't know so well, but much less so once they know them?
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                    • #11
                      Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                      Originally posted by Fakhri View Post
                      Hmmm... Isn't it the case though that certain people are shy / reserved around those they don't know so well, but much less so once they know them?
                      yes.
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                      • #12
                        Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                        Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                        Lol no no,but you dont know what you can expect from them.
                        Emotions gonna play a lot anyway in marriage.

                        But coming to the topic....its mainly the energy and motivation that comes with the individual that sometimes even motivates a reserved type of quiet man to do more for the family.
                        many quiet, shy, reserved people are that way around people they don't know too well. so don't think that will be the case with husband..
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                        • #13
                          Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                          Originally posted by Fakhri View Post
                          Hmmm... Isn't it the case though that certain people are shy / reserved around those they don't know so well, but much less so once they know them?
                          Yea ,but as far as I am concerned there are two types of personality for a person ,outward and inward.
                          Outward is probably what you mentioned ...its being comfrotable with your surroundings etc....anyone can be like this.
                          The inward personality is there trueself and normally associates with the persons natural behaviour..its where the cobwebs of your innerself are found.
                          And with some people this is openly visible to others,with others it not .

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                            Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                            Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                            Yea ,but as far as I am concerned there are two types of personality for a person ,outward and inward.
                            Outward is probably what you mentioned ...its being comfrotable with your surroundings etc....anyone can be like this.
                            The inward personality is there trueself and normally associates with the persons natural behaviour..its where the cobwebs of your innerself are found.
                            And with some people this is openly visible to others,with others it not .
                            so you're speaking about introverts and extroverts...
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                            • #15
                              Re: Difficult and annoying sisters make the best wives

                              Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
                              so you're speaking about introverts and extroverts...
                              No.....the op is not about that
                              Extrovert are not diificult and annoying

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