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  • RedBirdie
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    Oh btw, evil in laws &evil spouses do exists to extent of patience of a pious persons patience too that gives up.

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  • RedBirdie
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    1 divorce happened bcs of a man who wedded this woman after breaking a heart of a woman who he was promising to we'd&take care ....so he found another 1 in meantime. The girl was waiting for him&this man developed another affair &promised to we'd .

    So he wedded, broke heart of the previous girl & very soon she heard that he divorced that lady bcs she was all out on his wealth.within weeks ....


    Lesson:

    Don't play frauds,don't deceive, don't try to talk indecently to women &don't go for materialistic approach&worldly highs.

    Full understanding of divorces summed up majority :::

    Those who says evil in laws are cause of fassad,bot everyone is evil, many times girls don't have values to adjust &also plays a full evil role .whether desis or Arabs or Africans

    Be good to your in laws esp if you live with them,then be mannered,wise polite,&not at all diplomatic.In laws are not there to play politics with you.As you are so will your manners may change them.
    But some girls,like to talk of everything all around that brings turmoil in everyone's lives.

    And if you live far away then ,know your limits bcs a man is more entitled to his mom ,so give mom&son space &make peace.

    Don't be melodramatic, filling ears of husb with every gossip of in laws,eventually he goes against his family &, might hurt someones feelings.

    I hgave observed many cases so ,not everyone is ignorant villager treating like animals to daughter in law's ,btw in low countries the illiterate people or very evil people do such things .

    Girls like to poke nose in everything, so how you going to survive like this ?You married him not his family or estate !

    Everything looks good in limits.


    Then there are these pious people who divorce bcs they found brand new on line or women who found better ,etc ,not compromising on anything.

    Lack of patience & trying to get into roller coaster as young kids do ,with shouting&shooting each other

    There are abusive men & cold men
    There are feminist outside Islamic def.exists.
    Careers my wealth,my life,kids too mine ...


    Oh yeah didnt mention e the Polygamous supporters?Such men also lead to divorcees.

    As if easy way is to divorce,um beginning to think people already have this thrusted in mind -Divorce .They don't find solutions &,turn to ALLAH Ta'ala& wait for relief&cry.
    Either in misery they spend their lives.

    An advise to everyone to avoid such things ,men&women except for few real horrible stories in which its a necessity.

    Though ,my Duas for all the people who had wrong experiences but InshaALLAH, there is someone better for you but please don't repeat same mistakes bcs you need a stable sane life .

    May ALLAH Ta'ala help you all who been through traumas of bad marriages&bless you with real men&women who are a blessing for Deen,dunya&akhirah, Aameen
    Last edited by RedBirdie; 04-03-17, 01:51 PM.

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  • GoogleSlayer
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    #overcomplicating

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  • m7md
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    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    not a 100% sure but are divorced women allowed to live on their own and be free from guardianship?

    i'll read about it later but was just wondering, that's all
    Islam highly encourages muslims to live a married life, men and women r not meant to live separate,, someone the thought that marriage is only when one cannot control desires is completely wrong

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  • Eorlingas
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    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    This is the first thing I would do with my husband

    tell him all my weaknesses and then he can tell me

    r
    lol..why spoil the surprise?

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  • shay5
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    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Boys name meaning alone?
    Sweet dreams!

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  • Poster
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    Originally posted by Kiro View Post
    No, is it clear.

    Wadih?
    Haha

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  • Kiro
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    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Boys name meaning alone?
    No, is it clear.

    Wadih?

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  • RaNdOm
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    Originally posted by Kiro View Post
    It is a phrase in Arabic

    Wadih?
    Boys name meaning alone?

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  • Kiro
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    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Lol I miss the convos between u and serinity

    is wadih sumt like frost
    It is a phrase in Arabic

    Wadih?

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  • shay5
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    Originally posted by patient believer View Post
    Can i watch it on iplayer or youtube?
    This episode might be about marriage only. Think next week is divorce...http://www.watchallchannels.com/channel-4-html/ good car crash tv ...a girl is about to go to one of those speed dating muslim events ad break right now..

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  • patient believer
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    Originally posted by shay5 View Post
    If you want to know about divorce then turn on channel 4 in 5 mins...sharia court divorce in birmingham mosque.. [MENTION=7414]RaNdOm[/MENTION]
    Can i watch it on iplayer or youtube?

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  • shay5
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    If you want to know about divorce then turn on channel 4 in 5 mins...sharia court divorce in birmingham mosque.. [MENTION=7414]RaNdOm[/MENTION]

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  • Indefinable
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    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    not a 100% sure but are divorced women allowed to live on their own and be free from guardianship?

    i'll read about it later but was just wondering, that's all
    Not entirely sure. But curious to know what the situation would be for a woman who is divorced/widowed/single - and doesn't want to marry? Do they really need a 'man' in their life, as you mentioned, a guardian?

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  • Ya'sin
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    not a 100% sure but are divorced women allowed to live on their own and be free from guardianship?

    i'll read about it later but was just wondering, that's all

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