Why do you delay marriage ppl...

[RaNdOm]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Cos it is a responsibility on me to choose a good father for my children and one I will be able to respect in order to be a good mother to mine inshaAllah

*hides*

[Creamcake]

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So so so so sooo many reasons, it's endless
The thought of not finding someone or spending the rest of my life with someone and it will end up being boring or he will fall out of love.
Lol not being able to cook this isn't as important, people can learn after marriage.
On a more serious note also not being able to find someone who's religious, attractive and has good character. The struggle irl is real
Irl everyone is fine with music/ tv/ celebrating bday's/ mortgages/riba loans/their spouses wearing makeup outside. nononononono! Lol.. the real men are hiding.

[Pippin1376]

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I have always known pippin to be masculine or pippen

It was either that or Sheik. I only went with this one because it was the name I gave my pokemon and I was playing it at the time.

[nonameakhi]

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Even when I had cuter avatars I've always been confused for being a man. My first ever rep here was "Thanks bro"

I have always known pippin to be masculine or pippen

[Pippin1376]

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It's the name + the avatar.

Even when I had cuter avatars I've always been confused for being a man. My first ever rep here was "Thanks bro"

[shay5]

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The girl is my first cousin sister and it is normal for them to be standing with their brother in laws with arms linked

They think I am weird as I wont sit on a sofa with them but happy to sit next to my wife

So weird..may Allah swt guide them...ameen

[nonameakhi]

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Ok :jkk: for answering...I can't believe this is true but I know you wouldn't lie.....I'll move on now...

The girl is my first cousin sister and it is normal for them to be standing with their brother in laws with arms linked

They think I am weird as I wont sit on a sofa with them but happy to sit next to my wife

[shay5]

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Sorry havent seen that question

But the girl is older than me and at the time would have been 30+ ish

Her BIL whose lap she sat on is and was married to her sister at the time, not sure exact age tbh but married with kids os old enough (younger than her but so is her husband whose brother it is0

No reaction from husband or her family or her husband or his family. As if it was absolutely normal

They all lived in teh same house at one stage and he would be alone with her etc and no one batted an eyelid

Ok :jkk: for answering...I can't believe this is true but I know you wouldn't lie.....I'll move on now...

[nonameakhi]

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Sorry to drag it up again but the lap story... what was the age difference and how young was he. Also how did the father and husband react?

Sorry havent seen that question

But the girl is older than me and at the time would have been 30+ ish

Her BIL whose lap she sat on is and was married to her sister at the time, not sure exact age tbh but married with kids os old enough (younger than her but so is her husband whose brother it is0

No reaction from husband or her family or her husband or his family. As if it was absolutely normal

They all lived in teh same house at one stage and he would be alone with her etc and no one batted an eyelid

[shay5]

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which question sister?

Sorry to drag it up again but the lap story... what was the age difference and how young was he. Also how did the father and husband react?

[nonameakhi]

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Off topic but can you answer the question I asked you...

which question sister?

[nonameakhi]

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Allahumma baarek

What do u think of pakistani with non-pakistani marriages

Well I wasnt born here but lived here for most of my life, and i used to think I would marry a pakistani as it would be easier (as someone said above) and it would obviously please my parents

As I grew older I realised I had less and less in common with the type of women my parents were choosing for me. I also noticed that most of my friends who married say white women were focused on making them pakistani rather than muslim. So they learnt to cook chappatis and curry, speak a little of the language and wore shalwar kameez.

As i got more and more into Islam i realised that the nationality didnt matter as long as Islamic principles were strong. I also appreciated what my role was. My wife is my wife and i have to stand up and be counted. I went through hard times with family but over the years they have accepted and my siblings are also now in a position where they have married non pakistanis and its all been good alhamdullilah

I dont like the whole I will or wont marry a certain nationality, if the person is right thats whats key

[shay5]

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I am pakistani married to a non pakistani and its been over 20 years

Off topic but can you answer the question I asked you...

[DaughterOfAdam]

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I am pakistani married to a non pakistani and its been over 20 years

Allahumma baarek

What do u think of pakistani with non-pakistani marriages

[nonameakhi]

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Do you think a marriage between a pakistani and non-pakistani could work?

I am pakistani married to a non pakistani and its been over 20 years