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Cos it is a responsibility on me to choose a good father for my children and one I will be able to respect in order to be a good mother to mine inshaAllah
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So so so so sooo many reasons, it's endless
The thought of not finding someone or spending the rest of my life with someone and it will end up being boring or he will fall out of love.
Lol not being able to cook this isn't as important, people can learn after marriage.
On a more serious note also not being able to find someone who's religious, attractive and has good character. The struggle irl is real
Irl everyone is fine with music/ tv/ celebrating bday's/ mortgages/riba loans/their spouses wearing makeup outside. nononononono! Lol.. the real men are hiding.
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Originally posted by nonameakhi View PostI have always known pippin to be masculine or pippen
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Originally posted by Pippin1376 View PostEven when I had cuter avatars I've always been confused for being a man. My first ever rep here was "Thanks bro"
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Originally posted by Stoic Believer View PostIt's the name + the avatar.
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Originally posted by nonameakhi View PostThe girl is my first cousin sister and it is normal for them to be standing with their brother in laws with arms linked
They think I am weird as I wont sit on a sofa with them but happy to sit next to my wife
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Originally posted by shay5 View PostOk :jkk: for answering...I can't believe this is true but I know you wouldn't lie.....I'll move on now...
They think I am weird as I wont sit on a sofa with them but happy to sit next to my wife
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Originally posted by nonameakhi View PostSorry havent seen that question
But the girl is older than me and at the time would have been 30+ ish
Her BIL whose lap she sat on is and was married to her sister at the time, not sure exact age tbh but married with kids os old enough (younger than her but so is her husband whose brother it is0
No reaction from husband or her family or her husband or his family. As if it was absolutely normal
They all lived in teh same house at one stage and he would be alone with her etc and no one batted an eyelid
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Originally posted by shay5 View PostSorry to drag it up again but the lap story... what was the age difference and how young was he. Also how did the father and husband react?
But the girl is older than me and at the time would have been 30+ ish
Her BIL whose lap she sat on is and was married to her sister at the time, not sure exact age tbh but married with kids os old enough (younger than her but so is her husband whose brother it is0
No reaction from husband or her family or her husband or his family. As if it was absolutely normal
They all lived in teh same house at one stage and he would be alone with her etc and no one batted an eyelid
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Originally posted by shay5 View PostOff topic but can you answer the question I asked you...
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Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View PostAllahumma baarek
What do u think of pakistani with non-pakistani marriages
As I grew older I realised I had less and less in common with the type of women my parents were choosing for me. I also noticed that most of my friends who married say white women were focused on making them pakistani rather than muslim. So they learnt to cook chappatis and curry, speak a little of the language and wore shalwar kameez.
As i got more and more into Islam i realised that the nationality didnt matter as long as Islamic principles were strong. I also appreciated what my role was. My wife is my wife and i have to stand up and be counted. I went through hard times with family but over the years they have accepted and my siblings are also now in a position where they have married non pakistanis and its all been good alhamdullilah
I dont like the whole I will or wont marry a certain nationality, if the person is right thats whats keyLast edited by nonameakhi; 11-03-17, 12:09 AM.
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Originally posted by nonameakhi View PostI am pakistani married to a non pakistani and its been over 20 years
What do u think of pakistani with non-pakistani marriages
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Originally posted by DaughterOfAdam View PostDo you think a marriage between a pakistani and non-pakistani could work?
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