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  • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
    Hey hey .... I am a NICE personality type :)
    I got f and a j in mine... What more can a person want?!?

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    • Life is so draining and tiring. Every. Single. Day.

      Nd all i want to do is lie in bed all day and go on my phone and surf ummah forum and stuff

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      • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

        Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
        You can't take this sort of negativity into a marriage search.
        Loool

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        • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

          Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
          I just cant find someone OUT OF THIS WORLD

          obviously he has to be good looking enough, rich enough, decent enough for me to obey him

          sheesh louise mate

          :zzz:

          who cares what I am, but it's important what he is, yesh yesh :1popcorn:
          There in blessed land,you &I must wonder how to get used to wash dishes/clothes/cook&raise lions with a lion husband.
          That has to be though a sincere, below 30 & wise tested,patient man with kindness&monogamy .

          Perfect humble guy,who's a lion of mine & for others a lion for them as a husband & a Lion of Ummah &a perfect human in Akhirah .

          If we were so lucky to be in blessed lands but phew!

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          • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

            Originally posted by Sarah5 View Post
            Because of free will. I don't understand why this bothers you or anyone else.

            The best reason I can think of is that people want to find out who is good. We live in a time and a world where you can't trust anyone and where liars are at every corner and you don't know who has a true heart and who wears a facade. We also live longer giving us more time to have kids and to get married (compared to the average life span of people before us). And finally, the qadr of Allah. For some people, marriage is just not happening and that's up to Allah ta'ala. I don't understand why taking your time to find a good person is so bad. Marrying just anyone for the sake of marrying early is foolish
            Well said, ukhti.

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            • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

              Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
              how old are you

              waalaikumussalam sorry
              I am 18 and a half. I.e. 18.5 something.
              La ilaha illallahu, wahdahu la sharika lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu, wa Huwa 'ala kulli sha'in Qadir
              (there is no true god except Allah. He is One and He has no partner with Him; His is the sovereignty and His is the praise, and He is Omnipotent),'
              Do not say about Allah but Truth.

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              • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                some people change after marriage so even if you get to know them for ten years to make sure they are the one :wacko: they could end up being a character from a thriller


                like a werewolf and you just didn't know about it the last couple years before marriage which included extensive research on him like the giggles and jokes, coffee at costa and the walks down the park

                who would've thought he was gonna be a werewolf

                wer=MEN=husband

                you can work out the rest :1popcorn: *gulps
                I only read the firat few sentences so i agree woth what you said on the beginning.
                Story telling time
                This non muslim couple were together.The man was on love with the one and after a year he proposed.Apparently the woman was a devout Christian so she didn't believe in pre martial relationships.After 8 days into thw marriage the poor guys was pushed from a clif by his beloved wife.
                Ya Allah,
                Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
                "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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                • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                  Originally posted by patient believer View Post
                  I only read the firat few sentences so i agree woth what you said on the beginning.
                  Story telling time
                  This non muslim couple were together.The man was on love with the one and after a year he proposed.Apparently the woman was a devout Christian so she didn't believe in pre martial relationships.After 8 days into thw marriage the poor guys was pushed from a clif by his beloved wife.
                  DId she ever admit why she killed him?
                  Has the time not come for those who have believed that their hearts should become humbly submissive at the remembrance of Allah and what has come down of the truth? And let them not be like those who were given the Scripture before, and a long period passed over them, so their hearts hardened; and many of them are defiantly disobedient. (57:16)

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                  • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                    Originally posted by aidaalej View Post
                    DId she ever admit why she killed him?
                    Not as far as i am aware.But it's juat because she thought she made a mistake.
                    Ya Allah,
                    Make me a stronger person today. Make me a better person out of all these. It is no longer bearable for me for my heart is aching and You are the only One who knows how I feel. Nothing is making sense to myself and for anyone else for that matter especially to the one person I wish to understand me better than anybody else.
                    "Don't use the sharpness of your tongue on the mother who taught you how to speak

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                    • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                      I want to be married but one the main reason of delay is my family financial issue I have to support them before supporting a newcomer..Pray to Allah for members
                      I love ISLAM
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                      • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                        Originally posted by abdulwahabsaleh View Post
                        I want to be married but one the main reason of delay is my family financial issue I have to support them before supporting a newcomer..Pray to Allah for members
                        Islamic financial requirements r that the prospective girl should accept ur financial state, it's based on her agreeing to it, how much a man makes is irrelevant if ur talking of the Islamic principle in this regard

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                        • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                          One of the main reasons I see is people just wanna have fun, and they feel their fun will be greatly hampered if they r married

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                            When married people ask us singles why we delay marriage....... if it is not in our fate it will not happen...
                            Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

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                            • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                              Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                              Cmon lets face it ,no one is going to find the perfect soul.
                              Money ,degree all worldly things that take you away from marriage.

                              You know sometimes you get a potential ,but you know you get this feeling what if there is someone better ,Dont do that.

                              Yes your time has to come but how are you preparing to tie your camel.

                              What will ever satisfy this creation.

                              Oh well....
                              I've got a follow up question ...

                              Why do some brothers and possibly even sisters, delay marriage, refuse to fast and then think they have the right to whine about desires, and Fitna etc?

                              :jkk:
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                              "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                              – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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                              • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                                Originally posted by patient believer View Post
                                I only read the firat few sentences so i agree woth what you said on the beginning.
                                Story telling time
                                This non muslim couple were together.The man was on love with the one and after a year he proposed.Apparently the woman was a devout Christian so she didn't believe in pre martial relationships.After 8 days into thw marriage the poor guys was pushed from a clif by his beloved wife.
                                She killed him because he committed Adultery or was this based on. Some suspicions?
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                                "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                                – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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