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  • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Hmm maybe if you quote yourself the @ will work...Oops.

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    • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

      Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
      Why doesn't a revert/interracial marriage work? You're saying experience

      But was the causative factor in your experience

      culture clash? Lack of understanding? If you are both people that don't give up easily it can work right.
      They do work, this man's just got Somali on the brain.

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      • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

        Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
        They do work, this man's just got Somali on the brain.
        huh? How the somali brain works?

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        • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

          Originally posted by HelloEverybody View Post
          huh? How the somali brain works?
          I never said Somali brain.

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          • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

            Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
            I never said Somali brain.
            oh sorry.. What "Somali on the brain" mean?

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            • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

              Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
              Why doesn't a revert/interracial marriage work? You're saying experience

              But was the causative factor in your experience

              culture clash? Lack of understanding? If you are both people that don't give up easily it can work right.
              It's a long story and needs it's own thread. The marriages I know that broke down each had its own issue. Culture clash, incompatibility, unrealistic expectations of each other, jahiliyah especially from reverts, you name it. I could go on.

              That's why I advise people to always stick to their own kind.

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              • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                Originally posted by Dinobot View Post
                It's a long story and needs it's own thread. The marriages I know that broke down each had its own issue. Culture clash, incompatibility, unrealistic expectations of each other, jahiliyah especially from reverts, you name it. I could go on.

                That's why I advise people to always stick to their own kind.
                Interesting point. I've also heard of many similar cases of divorces in interracial marriages.

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                • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                  Originally posted by Dinobot View Post
                  It's a long story and needs it's own thread. The marriages I know that broke down each had its own issue. Culture clash, incompatibility, unrealistic expectations of each other, jahiliyah especially from reverts, you name it. I could go on.

                  That's why I advise people to always stick to their own kind.
                  I dunno, that kind of seems like the types of problems that could happen even if you marry someone from your own culture.


                  I've seen interracial marriages work and some fail and I've seen same culture marriages work and some fail. That happens because of life and it's not something you can control.
                  مَّن ذَا الَّذِي يُقْرِضُ اللّهَ قَرْضًا حَسَنًا فَيُضَاعِفَهُ لَهُ أَضْعَافًا كَثِيرَةً وَاللّهُ يَقْبِضُ وَيَبْسُطُ وَإِلَيْهِ تُرْجَعُونَ

                  "Who is he that will loan to Allah a beautiful loan, which Allah will double unto his credit and multiply many times?
                  It is Allah that giveth (you) Want or plenty, and to Him shall be your return."
                  Surah al-Baqarah
                  [2:245]

                  .:.
                  .:. Perfer et Obdura : Dolor Hic Tibi Proderit Olim .:.
                  Be patient and strong : someday this pain will be useful to you

                  .:.
                  ...said the spider to the fly...

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                  • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                    Originally posted by HelloEverybody View Post
                    oh sorry.. What "Somali on the brain" mean?
                    it's when you stick to your own kind.

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                    • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                      Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                      it's when you stick to your own kind.
                      sticking to your own kind is not a somali specific trait troll
                      Last edited by Dinobot; 07-03-17, 11:43 PM.

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                      • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                        Originally posted by Pippin1376 View Post
                        I dunno, that kind of seems like the types of problems that could happen even if you marry someone from your own culture.


                        I've seen interracial marriages work and some fail and I've seen same culture marriages work and some fail. That happens because of life and it's not something you can control.
                        In this day and age when there is so many things out there that can cause marriages to break up, you need every little scrap of commonality between the spouses. And race is one of them

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                        • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                          Originally posted by Dinobot View Post
                          sticking to your own kind is not a somali specific trait troll
                          But it's definitely your trait son.

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                          • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                            Originally posted by Dinobot View Post
                            In this day and age when there is so many things out there that can cause marriages to break up, you need every little scrap of commonality between the spouses. And race is one of them
                            Your potential was arguing with you something silly and you're not even married yet, is that the sort of commonality you are referring too. Nice of the wali to relax the rules on that one.

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                            • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                              Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                              But it's definitely your trait son.
                              oh yes it's my trait. But you didn't have to bring my nationality to it. It's always nationality with you. You are always obsessed with Somalis in some fashion. get a life troll

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                              • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                                Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                                Your potential was arguing with you something silly and you're not even married yet, is that the sort of commonality you are referring too. Nice of the wali to relax the rules on that one.
                                Does your wife knows you are chatting up sisters on a forum? yeah. thought so. You just keep embarrassing yourself making useless assumptions.

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