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  • #16
    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
    Cmon lets face it ,no one is going to find the perfect soul.
    Money ,degree all worldly things that take you away from marriage.

    You know sometimes you get a potential ,but you know you get this feeling what if there is someone better ,Dontdo that.

    Yes your time has to come but how are you preparing to tie your camel.

    What will ever satisfy this creation.

    Oh well....
    Feels like this one is directed at me!!!

    I cant wait actually to say qabool hai, qabool hai, qabool hai

    Seriously though, it's not about a better person - what scares me most is ending up choosing the wrong person! This does happen....
    I know you have an answer for that too, istikhaara?

    I just need to be convinced in my heart

    oh man!
    “Mu'min” is more that just a title. It is to have Imaan established in the heart and testified to by the limbs.

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    • #17
      Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

      Originally posted by Theistic View Post
      Brothers! Don't delay to marry... once you are married you will never delay to marry again!
      Lol...
      “Mu'min” is more that just a title. It is to have Imaan established in the heart and testified to by the limbs.

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      • #18
        Why do you delay marriage ppl...

        :)
        Last edited by iRepIslam; 02-03-17, 08:02 AM.
        إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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        • #19
          Why do you delay marriage ppl...

          It's best to leave all your affairs with Him, just trust in Allah Azzawajal and let it flow. If you establish that connection with your Rabb, if you seek an answer from Him then surely nothing can disappoint you even if your spouse is a trial. They are all a means of getting close to our Rabb...

          May Allah grant us all what's best for our deen.
          إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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          • #20
            Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

            Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
            It's best to leave all your affairs with Him, just trust in Allah Azzawajal and let it flow. If you establish that connection with your Rabb, if you seek an answer from Him then surely nothing can disappoint you even if your spouse is a trial. They are all a means of getting close to our Rabb...

            May Allah grant us all what's best for our deen.
            Ameen

            [I thank Allah for protecting me from what I thought I wanted...]

            Always make duaa that Allah makes your spouse a blessing, not a trial!
            “Mu'min” is more that just a title. It is to have Imaan established in the heart and testified to by the limbs.

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            • #21
              Why do you delay marriage ppl...

              Allahuma Aameen ya rabbal Alamein
              إقراء القران فإنه يأتي يوم القيامة شفيعا لأصحابه

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              • #22
                Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                Originally posted by samin62 View Post
                I told you not to read my diary anymore
                Originally posted by eesa the kiwi View Post
                stop reading people's diaries

                cant a dude keep his chips
                It's in the cloud and we are all working collaboratively.

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                • #23
                  Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                  Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                  Not ready for the responsibility.
                  Not ready for having a physical relationship.
                  Not ready to share their life, emotions, thoughts, etc.
                  Not trusting in their own judgement to pick well.
                  Not having a say in who they marry.
                  Not yet developed themselves to see themselves as being of value to themselves let alone someone else.
                  Quite a list ,when do these Not become yes,what needs to change ?

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                  • #24
                    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                    :jkk: it's definitely a waswasa that plays in the mind.

                    May Allah grant us what's best.

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                    • #25
                      Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                      Originally posted by iRepIslam View Post
                      Muzzybee you're actually kind of right.
                      :thumbs up:

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                      • #26
                        Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                        Originally posted by peacepro View Post
                        Well atleast around me, i see a lot of brothers and sisters delaying marriage only because of the following three reasons:

                        1) Parents
                        2) Money
                        3) right match

                        The first one, Parents, play a major role in delaying marraiges, especially those kind of parents who are like "First settle down in life and then marry". But they never define "Settling down".lool. In today's world atleast, one cannot expect to settle down because its never enough. To this point, i say, Trust Allah and get into marriage even if you are tight financially for it because with it shall come Barakah in your life.

                        The second one, money, is something that again has no limit. What amount of salary or income are we thinking off before we get married? comeon guys, you will get your part of Rizq in sha Allah. Just make an effort and because of one, don't delay other things in life. Make dua for rizq and take masnoon steps in life.

                        The third one, Right match, this again is taken by some people to really high level. But even here, parents play major role in maligning the mind of the son or daughter. Moreover, one cannot find exact match because everyone is different. So check the main parts like religion, family , looks if you want,,etc and go ahead.

                        May Allah make it easy for all those who are looking to marry!
                        Good points ..

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                        • #27
                          Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                          Originally posted by samin62 View Post
                          because I want to bike all around iceland first. I don't need a wife to slow me down. Don't need a huffer and puffer
                          They got snow in Canada ....stay local

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                          • #28
                            Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                            Originally posted by Theistic View Post
                            Brothers! Don't delay to marry... once you are married you will never delay to marry again!
                            That is kind of true , I think once you experience marital life and its challenges , future decisions become easier

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                            • #29
                              Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                              Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
                              They got snow in Canada ....stay local
                              it isn't iceland, its not about the snow
                              "They are Shuhadaa (witnesses) to the fact that this Deen is greater than life, that values are more important than blood and that principles are more precious than souls" - Sheikh 'Abdullah Azzam

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                              • #30
                                Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                                Originally posted by Miss Foxxy View Post
                                Feels like this one is directed at me!!!

                                I cant wait actually to say qabool hai, qabool hai, qabool hai

                                Seriously though, it's not about a better person - what scares me most is ending up choosing the wrong person! This does happen....
                                I know you have an answer for that too, istikhaara?

                                I just need to be convinced in my heart

                                oh man!
                                Waiting for conviction can lead to desperation and making a wrong choice.
                                It is harder for sisters ,much harder..but you dont make these decions alone ,after isthikhara use your family to do the hard work and then if all is ok ,got to take that chance.
                                Reverts would be harder...for them.

                                But we need to remember everything in life is a chance we take with faith inshaallah.
                                Last edited by muzzybee; 02-03-17, 08:31 AM.

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