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  • zi-zizou
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Lol

    *
    Hopefully you will come to the realisation sooner rather than later that you just can't afford to act your shoe size.
    Last edited by zi-zizou; 02-03-17, 10:22 PM.

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  • RaNdOm
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Sorry, but this mentality is what leads many women to stay in abusive relationships.
    Or maybe people are just giving up at every corner every day

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  • RaNdOm
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Blah
    Last edited by RaNdOm; 02-03-17, 10:10 PM.

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  • Stoic Believer
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by RaNdOm
    Well... actually I am the loser that would try and understand too.... cos people are usually good but some personal issues can change them, so it's interesting if there's some insecurity or what that is pushing them to act that way
    Sorry, but this mentality is what leads many women to stay in abusive relationships.

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  • RaNdOm
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    Ukthi we don't make excuses for Zalim/Oppressors

    :jkk:
    :jkk:

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  • zi-zizou
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
    Don't ask me that
    You'd make excuses.

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
    What would you do if he beat you?
    Try to understand him, there might be some insecurity, it's not his fault!

    نعوذ بالله من ذلك

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by RaNdOm
    Well... actually I am the loser that would try and understand too.... cos people are usually good but some personal issues can change them, so it's interesting if there's some insecurity or what that is pushing them to act that way
    Ukthi we don't make excuses for Zalim/Oppressors

    :jkk:

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  • RaNdOm
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
    What would you do if he beat you?
    Smack him back
    Last edited by RaNdOm; 02-03-17, 10:05 PM.

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  • RaNdOm
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
    We've been through that several times ukthi,

    Rasul salallahu عليه السلام‎ told us to get married asap, young, not to delay, as soon as we have the means etc...

    And now we have Muslims with the means either delaying marriage, refusing to fast (as it diminishes desires), rejecting righteous proposal's etc...

    By following our desires we have created this mess...

    Take this hadith for example...

    If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then marry (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him.”

    (Tirmidhi, 1084)

    https://islamqa.info/en/85056

    Instead we come up with all sorts of excuses to reject... And as a result have created more Fitna and Fassad,

    نعوذ بالله من ذلك

    :jkk:
    Hmm :jkk:

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  • zi-zizou
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by RaNdOm
    Well... actually I am the loser that would try and understand too.... cos people are usually good but some personal issues can change them, so it's interesting if there's some insecurity or what that is pushing them to act that way
    What would you do if he beat you?

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by RaNdOm
    I just thought u could help us not to delay
    We've been through that several times ukthi,

    Rasul salallahu عليه السلام‎ told us to get married asap, young, not to delay, as soon as we have the means etc...

    And now we have Muslims with the means either delaying marriage, refusing to fast (as it diminishes desires), rejecting righteous proposal's etc...

    By following our desires we have created this mess...

    Take this hadith for example...

    If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then marry (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him.”

    (Tirmidhi, 1084)

    https://islamqa.info/en/85056

    Instead we come up with all sorts of excuses to reject... And as a result have created more Fitna and Fassad,

    نعوذ بالله من ذلك

    :jkk:

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  • Saif-Uddin
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by Faith reloaded View Post
    Too many man babies around these days

    Need to step up to the plate and start marrying earlier
    True,

    Those whiners who whine about desires, about the Fitna of women etc and delay marriage or refuse to fast are definite man-babies...

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  • Ya'sin
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    Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by Faith reloaded View Post
    Too many man babies around these days

    Need to step up to the plate and start marrying earlier
    there doesn't seem to be any independent men around

    it's a problem

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  • Faith reloaded
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    Too many man babies around these days

    Need to step up to the plate and start marrying earlier

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