Why do you delay marriage ppl...

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Well if you took it "easy' and took your time, you will increase your chance of not marrying the wrong person and not marrying immoral people because older people tend to have learned their lesson in life and become moral and make less mistakes vs. younger people. Marriage is not SOLUTION to any problems, it is the beginning of new chapter in life.

Years of easiness ...

Facepalm,

People getting into late 20's and 30's ... Cause they still taking it easy...

Yes the men and women were angels, they always lowered their gaze and fasted every day...

Whereas Rasul salallahu عليه السلام for some reason told the young to get married as soon as they have the Means...

But if course, we need to "take it easy"...

[zi-zizou]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Years of easiness ...

Facepalm,

People getting into late 20's and 30's ... Cause they still taking it easy...

Yes the men and women were angels, they always lowered their gaze and fasted every day...

Whereas Rasul salallahu عليه السلام for some reason told the young to get married as soon as they have the Means...

But if course, we need to "take it easy"...

Respect bro, respect.

[RaNdOm]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Years of easiness ...

Facepalm,

People getting into late 20's and 30's ... Cause they still taking it easy...

Yes the men and women were angels, they always lowered their gaze and fasted every day...

Whereas Rasul salallahu عليه السلام for some reason told the young to get married as soon as they have the Means...

But if course, we need to "take it easy"...

Hmm

I know of someone who got married at 18, divorced then at 19, divorced then at 21, divorced then at 23

[Vitriolic_Sage]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Years of easiness ...

Facepalm,

People getting into late 20's and 30's ... Cause they still taking it easy...

Yes the men and women were angels, they always lowered their gaze and fasted every day...

Whereas Rasul salallahu عليه السلام for some reason told the young to get married as soon as they have the Means...

But if course, we need to "take it easy"...

Why are you so worried about other people getting married? And if you're such an advocate you should get married instead of posting 30,000 posts here.

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Engineers, doctors, language teachers and translators, medics, mathematicians and others earn way more than binmen and caretakers.

Everyone without a degree is a binman and caretaker?

Lol, what a joke,

Education is supposed to make one humble, not inflate ones ego,

A binman can be better than all of those you listed...

Or have you forgotten the millions of wasted graduates ?

A degree is a qualification, it can help, but it's not a necessity to acquiring a good job,

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Why are you so worried about other people getting married? And if you're such an advocate you should get married instead of posting 30,000 posts here.

Vit it's called advice,

A Muslim is supposed to give each other good advice,

Not condone cowardice behaviour,

I got married almost 10 years ago,

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Hmm

I know of someone who got married at 18, divorced then at 19, divorced then at 21, divorced then at 23

Ok, and that means we should reject Rasulullah salallahu عليه السلام advice?

Facepalm

[RaNdOm]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Vit it's called advice,

A Muslim is supposed to give each other good advice,

Not condone cowardice behaviour,

I got married almost 10 years ago,

Allahumma baarik may Allah swt bless your marriage ameen

[RaNdOm]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Ok, and that means we should reject Rasulullah salallahu عليه السلام advice?

Facepalm

No but what do you think of that?

At first I was annoyed but then I felt relieved at least he didn't get involved in any haraam behaviour...

[n0.n4m3]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Everyone without a degree is a binman and caretaker?

Lol, what a joke,

Education is supposed to make one humble, not inflate ones ego,

A binman can be better than all of those you listed...

Or have you forgotten the millions of wasted graduates ?

A degree is a qualification, it can help, but it's not a necessity to acquiring a good job,

There's a major pay gap between useful degrees and "unskilled" jobs. Where i live, plumbers make around 500 Quid a month. And so do taxi drivers. Cleaners make 200 to 400 Pounds a month. Uni professors can earn more than quadruple those salaries.

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

There's a major pay gap between useful degrees and "unskilled" jobs. Where i live, plumbers make around 500 Quid a month. And so do taxi drivers. Cleaners make 200 to 400 Pounds a month. Uni professors can earn more than quadruple those salaries.

Black cab drivers, train drivers make more than your average graduates,

Business men who incidentally don't have degrees can earn multiple times your uni professors salary,

You seem to think of you don't have a degree, you must be poor,

Facepalm

You should stop making gross generalisations, it can go both ways,

Also most people, most graduates are drenched in Riba, (Student loans) at least I'm the UK,

You forgot to mention this as well...

[Muslimah1436]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Well, why the rush anyway? Some people are confused and have internal struggles.... they're still tryna figure out what they want in life. If they can't figure that out, how does one expect them to make such a big decision i.e. marriage?

Every person has their own reason(s), I think.

[Saif-Uddin]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

No but what do you think of that?

At first I was annoyed but then I felt relieved at least he didn't get involved in any haraam behaviour...

Immature people are to be found in various ages,

We don't use that as an excuse or argument to reject the advice of the messenger salallahu alayhi wa sallam,

[RaNdOm]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Immature people are to be found in various ages,

We don't use that as an excuse or argument to reject the advice of the messenger salallahu alayhi wa sallam,

Ok am I ready?

[n0.n4m3]

Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

Black cab drivers, train drivers make more than your average graduates,

Business men who incidentally don't have degrees can earn multiple times your uni professors salary,

You seem to think of you don't have a degree, you must be poor,

Facepalm

You should stop making gross generalisations, it can go both ways,

Also most people, most graduates are drenched in Riba, (Student loans) at least I'm the UK,

You forgot to mention this as well...

That applies to many parts of the world. Here in KSA, Cab drivers earn peanuts. And plumbers, salesmen, builders, chefs, bus drivers and others. The gap is huge between them and graduates. State Unis here are free.