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  • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

    Originally posted by muzzybee View Post
    Cmon lets face it ,no one is going to find the perfect soul.
    Money ,degree all worldly things that take you away from marriage.

    You know sometimes you get a potential ,but you know you get this feeling what if there is someone better ,Dont do that.

    Yes your time has to come but how are you preparing to tie your camel.

    What will ever satisfy this creation.

    Oh well....
    In answer to your question on thread answer is something everyone knows ie Allah decrees it.

    End of.

    So no need for endless pontification
    82. Verily, when He intends a thing, His Command is, "be", and it is! 83. So glory to Him in Whose hands is the dominion of all things: and to Him will you be all brought back. Quran surah 36: Ya-sin

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    • Too many man babies around these days

      Need to step up to the plate and start marrying earlier

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      • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

        Originally posted by Faith reloaded View Post
        Too many man babies around these days

        Need to step up to the plate and start marrying earlier
        there doesn't seem to be any independent men around

        it's a problem
        'Whatever it be wherein ye differ, the decision thereof is with Allah: such is Allah my Lord: In Him I trust, and to Him I turn.' The Holy Qu'ran Al Shura (Consultation)

        So, which of the favours of your lord will you deny? ~ Surah Ar Rahman

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        • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

          Originally posted by Faith reloaded View Post
          Too many man babies around these days

          Need to step up to the plate and start marrying earlier
          True,

          Those whiners who whine about desires, about the Fitna of women etc and delay marriage or refuse to fast are definite man-babies...
          http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

          "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

          – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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          • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

            Originally posted by RaNdOm
            I just thought u could help us not to delay
            We've been through that several times ukthi,

            Rasul salallahu عليه السلام‎ told us to get married asap, young, not to delay, as soon as we have the means etc...

            And now we have Muslims with the means either delaying marriage, refusing to fast (as it diminishes desires), rejecting righteous proposal's etc...

            By following our desires we have created this mess...

            Take this hadith for example...

            If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then marry (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him.”

            (Tirmidhi, 1084)

            https://islamqa.info/en/85056

            Instead we come up with all sorts of excuses to reject... And as a result have created more Fitna and Fassad,

            نعوذ بالله من ذلك

            :jkk:
            http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

            "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

            – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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            • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

              Originally posted by RaNdOm
              Well... actually I am the loser that would try and understand too.... cos people are usually good but some personal issues can change them, so it's interesting if there's some insecurity or what that is pushing them to act that way
              What would you do if he beat you?

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              • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                We've been through that several times ukthi,

                Rasul salallahu عليه السلام‎ told us to get married asap, young, not to delay, as soon as we have the means etc...

                And now we have Muslims with the means either delaying marriage, refusing to fast (as it diminishes desires), rejecting righteous proposal's etc...

                By following our desires we have created this mess...

                Take this hadith for example...

                If there comes to you one with whose character and religious commitment you are pleased, then marry (your daughter or female relative under your care) to him.”

                (Tirmidhi, 1084)

                https://islamqa.info/en/85056

                Instead we come up with all sorts of excuses to reject... And as a result have created more Fitna and Fassad,

                نعوذ بالله من ذلك

                :jkk:
                Hmm :jkk:
                ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                  Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                  What would you do if he beat you?
                  Smack him back
                  Last edited by RaNdOm; 02-03-17, 09:05 PM.
                  ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                  "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                  :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                  • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                    Originally posted by RaNdOm
                    Well... actually I am the loser that would try and understand too.... cos people are usually good but some personal issues can change them, so it's interesting if there's some insecurity or what that is pushing them to act that way
                    Ukthi we don't make excuses for Zalim/Oppressors

                    :jkk:
                    http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

                    "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                    – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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                    • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                      Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                      What would you do if he beat you?
                      Try to understand him, there might be some insecurity, it's not his fault!

                      نعوذ بالله من ذلك
                      http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

                      "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                      – Imam al-Shafi’i (Rahimahullah)

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                      • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                        Originally posted by RaNdOm View Post
                        Don't ask me that
                        You'd make excuses.

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                        • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                          Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                          Ukthi we don't make excuses for Zalim/Oppressors

                          :jkk:
                          :jkk:
                          ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                          "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                          :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                          • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                            Originally posted by RaNdOm
                            Well... actually I am the loser that would try and understand too.... cos people are usually good but some personal issues can change them, so it's interesting if there's some insecurity or what that is pushing them to act that way
                            Sorry, but this mentality is what leads many women to stay in abusive relationships.

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                            • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                              Blah
                              Last edited by RaNdOm; 02-03-17, 09:10 PM.
                              ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                              "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                              :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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                              • Re: Why do you delay marriage ppl...

                                Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                                Sorry, but this mentality is what leads many women to stay in abusive relationships.
                                Or maybe people are just giving up at every corner every day
                                ...And he who fears Allah - He will make for him a way out. [65:3]
                                "Put your trust in Allah, certainly, Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him)."
                                :love: [Al-Imran 3:159] :love:

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