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  • So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

    Albeit its from a non-muslim source, but there's a striking similarity to how families choose husbands for their daughters etc.

    According to the source, with the advent of Interent dating, Muslim marriage sites etc..

    Women have extremely inflated perception of their value relative to the man they "Deserve" to marry.

    It's a surprisingly common thought process most men in the west today have..

    And if the fitnah in the Islamic world increased to a point that we are doing what the kuffar are doing..dating etc..( acutally many are already, sadly)..

    I can see how that hadith is applied.
    Stop being apologetic to Kuffars!

    If I don't engage with you or reply to any of your question, it's likely because I find you racist and a total waste of time.

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    Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

    Originally posted by Abdell View Post
    Albeit its from a non-muslim source, but there's a striking similarity to how families choose husbands for their daughters etc.

    According to the source, with the advent of Interent dating, Muslim marriage sites etc..

    Women have extremely inflated perception of their value relative to the man they "Deserve" to marry.

    It's a surprisingly common thought process most men in the west today have..

    And if the fitnah in the Islamic world increased to a point that we are doing what the kuffar are doing..dating etc..( acutally many are already, sadly)..

    I can see how that hadith is applied.
    This^^^

    Makes me want to vomit it's so bad at times where I live....

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    • #3
      Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

      First of all it's from a non muslim source

      secondly, it's nonsense

      In muslim households it is usually the parents making things difficult for brothers, the daughters don't mind certain things that much.
      شَكَوْتُ إلَى وَكِيعٍ سُوءَ حِفْظِي
      فَأرْشَدَنِي إلَى تَرْكِ المعَاصي
      وَأخْبَرَنِي بأَنَّ العِلْمَ نُورٌ
      ونورُ الله لا يهدى لعاصي

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      • #4
        Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

        Originally posted by Abdell View Post
        Albeit its from a non-muslim source, but there's a striking similarity to how families choose husbands for their daughters etc.

        According to the source, with the advent of Interent dating, Muslim marriage sites etc..

        Women have extremely inflated perception of their value relative to the man they "Deserve" to marry.

        It's a surprisingly common thought process most men in the west today have..

        And if the fitnah in the Islamic world increased to a point that we are doing what the kuffar are doing..dating etc..( acutally many are already, sadly)..

        I can see how that hadith is applied.
        It's already hard trying to find a decent man! Knowing there's like 50 chicks for each guy out there doesn't exactly lift one's spirit! Dampen our hope why don't you...

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        • #5
          Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

          Originally posted by Abdell View Post
          Albeit its from a non-muslim source, but there's a striking similarity to how families choose husbands for their daughters etc.

          According to the source, with the advent of Interent dating, Muslim marriage sites etc..

          Women have extremely inflated perception of their value relative to the man they "Deserve" to marry.

          It's a surprisingly common thought process most men in the west today have..

          And if the fitnah in the Islamic world increased to a point that we are doing what the kuffar are doing..dating etc..( acutally many are already, sadly)..

          I can see how that hadith is applied.
          We all need standards to a point (religion being a priority since men will lead the household) however, it's ridiculous what both parties require of their future spouses now days. Whether it is from looks, to finances, to materialistic belongings. I'm not better than anyone, but this needs to be addressed because it's making marriage harder for people hence why people are starting to turn to the haram (astaghfiruAllah). It's hard to not get engulfed into this world especially with certain accounts on social media that praise and show off the priciest homes, the most beautiful people, the unattainable lives of very wealthy people. It's even worse when traditional families get involved because their opinions are seldom surrounded around character and religion.

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          • #6
            Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

            Hadith interpretation needs the view of salaf and their backings. One of the reason of our deviation is we've abandoned the methodology of our predecessors and self-proclaimed "scholars" growing like weed here and there are telling us what does Quran and sunnah mean.

            May Allah save us from these kind of ignorance.

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            • #7
              Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

              Lol bro. I think you just need to get married asap.

              The issue in the hadith isn't addressing a situation when 50 women are running after 1 man to marry him. It is addressing the shortage of men will be that one man will need to look after 50 women. His mother, his sisters, his aunts, his nieces.

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              • #8
                Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

                Originally posted by LondonBro View Post
                Lol bro. I think you just need to get married asap.

                The issue in the hadith isn't addressing a situation when 50 women are running after 1 man to marry him. It is addressing the shortage of men will be that one man will need to look after 50 women. His mother, his sisters, his aunts, his nieces.
                Bro, can we even get some sauce?
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                • #9
                  Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

                  Originally posted by -Jibril- View Post
                  Bro, can we even get some sauce?
                  eh?

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                  • #10
                    Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

                    This is not in our times.

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                    • #11
                      Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

                      Originally posted by dragon! View Post
                      This is not in our times.
                      Some bros wishing it was tho haha

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                      • #12
                        Re: So I heard an interesting approach to the hadith of 50 woman for 1 man...

                        Originally posted by LondonBro View Post
                        Some bros wishing it was tho haha
                        hahaha yeah i think so to.

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