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  • #46
    Re: Hold your wife's hand....

    Originally posted by Ibn Taleb View Post
    a scholar said that it depends on the country
    Yeah, that's what I thought as well. You have to take culture into account.

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    • #47
      Re: Hold your wife's hand....

      Originally posted by Allah's_Servant View Post
      I don't feel he like that was a good reason tbh. There is nothing in Islam that says we can't hold our spouses hand in public. But I do get this fatwa http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/in...twaId&Id=89064 that says it should be avoided if it shows a lack of bashfulness or weakness in your country
      Ukthi it doesn't matter what we feel,

      I haven't seen any Alim condone public display if affection between husband and wife,

      We don't need to advertise our live in public.

      :jkk:
      http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

      "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

      Imam al-Shafii (Rahimahullah)

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      • #48
        Re: Hold your wife's hand....

        Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
        Ukthi it doesn't matter what we feel,

        I haven't seen any Alim condone public display if affection between husband and wife,

        We don't need to advertise our live in public.

        :jkk:
        Marriages are supposed to be announced in public, no?

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        • #49
          Re: Hold your wife's hand....

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          Last edited by DaughterOfAdam; 20-08-16, 10:46 PM.

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          • #50
            Re: Hold your wife's hand....

            Originally posted by quark View Post
            Marriages are supposed to be announced in public, no?
            Announced yes,

            Holding hands in public and advertising your love to others, no.

            This ain't the norm here...

            In fact it's those with illicit relationship that do this often, (hold hands etc)
            Last edited by Saif-Uddin; 20-08-16, 10:47 PM.
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            "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

            Imam al-Shafii (Rahimahullah)

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            • #51
              Re: Hold your wife's hand....

              Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
              Announced yes,

              Holding hands in public and advertising your love to others, no.
              Marrying someone is a good way of advertising your love to that person.

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              • #52
                Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                Announced yes,

                Holding hands in public and advertising your love to others, no.

                Asalamu alaykum.

                Genuine question bro but what's wrong with holding your wife's hand in public?

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                • #53
                  Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                  Originally posted by Abdalla94' View Post
                  Asalamu alaykum.

                  Genuine question bro but what's wrong with holding your wife's hand in public?
                  وعليكم السلام والرحمة الله وبركاته akhi,

                  Akhi I posted this before...

                  http://askimam.org/public/question_detail/13225.html

                  Dunno if anyone read it...

                  I Quote...

                  "The husband and wife should also express their love for one another. However, that is a private matter between the two and not for public show. Why do we have to show or prove to people our love for our marriage partners. What will the partner achieve through their show? In fact, it would be hypocrisy to abuse the wife in the confines of the house and still express love for her in public places. Love between the husband and wife must be a real and honest one only for themselves and not for public show."

                  There's no need to have a public display of affection between husband and wife.

                  It's best avoided.

                  :jkk:
                  http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

                  "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                  Imam al-Shafii (Rahimahullah)

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                  • #54
                    Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                    Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                    وعليكم السلام والرحمة الله وبركاته akhi,

                    Akhi I posted this before...

                    http://askimam.org/public/question_detail/13225.html

                    The husband and wife should also express their love for one another. However, that is a private matter between the two and not for public show. Why do we have to show or prove to people our love for our marriage partners. What will the partner achieve through their show? In fact, it would be hypocrisy to abuse the wife in the confines of the house and still express love for her in public places. Love between the husband and wife must be a real and honest one only for themselves and not for public show."
                    Huh?

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                    • #55
                      Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                      Depends on your culture and customs.
                      In some places it might be seen as very intimate and indecent.
                      In others, it means nothing,
                      For example in the west, women often hold men's arms, or men place hands on female friends back and shoulders etc. They do this with friends

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                      • #56
                        Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                        Originally posted by Abdalla94' View Post
                        Asalamu alaykum.

                        Genuine question bro but what's wrong with holding your wife's hand in public?
                        Nothing. As long as the country you live in doesn't find it against custom than it's permissible
                        Don't depend too much on anyone in this world because even your own shadow leaves you when you are in the darkness

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                        • #57
                          Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                          Originally posted by Abdalla94' View Post
                          Asalamu alaykum.

                          Genuine question bro but what's wrong with holding your wife's hand in public?
                          Wa alaykum salam

                          Holding hands in a general sense seems fine. But in an affectionate way it's definitely haraam.
                          You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                          You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                          • #58
                            Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                            Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                            وعليكم السلام والرحمة الله وبركاته akhi,

                            Akhi I posted this before...

                            http://askimam.org/public/question_detail/13225.html

                            Dunno if anyone read it...

                            I Quote...

                            "The husband and wife should also express their love for one another. However, that is a private matter between the two and not for public show. Why do we have to show or prove to people our love for our marriage partners. What will the partner achieve through their show? In fact, it would be hypocrisy to abuse the wife in the confines of the house and still express love for her in public places. Love between the husband and wife must be a real and honest one only for themselves and not for public show."

                            There's no need to have a public display of affection between husband and wife.

                            It's best avoided.

                            :jkk:
                            Posting that means nothing really.
                            You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                            You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                            • #59
                              Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                              Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
                              Posting that means nothing really.
                              Because you say so,

                              Sheikh lindeutcher,

                              Lol
                              http://www.ilovepalestine.com/campai...imesinGaza.gif

                              "It does not befit the lion to answer the dogs."

                              Imam al-Shafii (Rahimahullah)

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                              • #60
                                Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                                Originally posted by Allah's_Servant View Post
                                Nothing. As long as the country you live in doesn't find it against custom than it's permissible
                                Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
                                Wa alaykum salam

                                Holding hands in a general sense seems fine. But in an affectionate way it's definitely haraam.

                                Barak'Allah feekum.

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