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  • #31
    Re: Hold your wife's hand....

    Originally posted by Ikki View Post
    Why would it not be halaal? You can hold you parents hand, or siblings hand or childs hand in public. Why not spouse??
    http://askimam.org/public/question_detail/13225.html

    Public display of affection between husband and wife isn't Islamic.

    :jkk:
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    • #32
      Re: Hold your wife's hand....

      Originally posted by ninety1daisies View Post
      What's wrong with her username? Lots of people have fave animals that they like call themselves.
      Nevermind

      :jkk: ukthi
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      • #33
        Re: Hold your wife's hand....

        Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
        Nevermind

        :jkk: ukthi
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        and indeed to Him we will return.


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        • #34
          Re: Hold your wife's hand....

          Originally posted by Indefinable View Post
          Call me Conservative, but I find it highly embarrassing if/when I see a Muslim couple holding hands in public. (Or being overly affectionate). Western influence imo.
          True,

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          • #35
            Re: Hold your wife's hand....

            You're letting the secrets of you people out. Women of the world are gonna be after you now

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            • #36
              Re: Hold your wife's hand....

              Itz just holding hands...it shows you care.

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              • #37
                Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                I used to window shop. Was kinda boring but if you have no money it's kinda fun. Or trying on clothes you'll never buy lolz

                I contradicted myself by saying it's boring but fun, oh well idk

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                • #38
                  Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                  Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                  Nevermind

                  :jkk: ukthi
                  Lol.
                  You think you know more than my scholar's qiyās? He was more learned than you and all other scholars combined. Yeah, the devil was the greatest scholar too and look where his qiyās of fire being better than tīn got him. Sorry.

                  You follow your scholar's qiyās, and I will follow the Qur'ān and Sunnah.

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                  • #39
                    Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                    Originally posted by Miss Foxxy View Post
                    .... at the mall because if you let go, she'll start shopping. It looks romantic, :love: but it's actually economic :embar: :topsy_turvy:
                    There are things much more useful in marriage than this 'game' people sometimes play.

                    Brothers, don't be literal when it comes to your wives spending money. Yes, theoretically you are to provide.

                    However : every marriage is different, and nowadays many women work while others don't. Depending on the fact that your wife works (or not), be open with her and be clear: this is the amount of money I can afford for this - and this is the amount of money I can afford for that. If she doesn't work, she will agree with you (most likely - or she will decide to start working herself), if she does work, she can afford it herself. But you have the responsibility to manage the money if you see that your wife cannot/ does not do it in the right way. If I were a married guy, I would say to my wife - I will entrust you to manage finances as long as I see you are doing it in the right way. Otherwise, I will take the responsibility. Also, you have to know that some women really understand it literally - that a guy has to work and provide money for all her whims. This is wrong and has to stop. Men are to provide if they both agree to this, but men are not to be slaves to their wive's whims because this is wrong on so many different levels.

                    This is where you go back before marriage and try to figure out how reasonable is your potential wife, what she expects from you, etc.

                    When you figure this out, you can hold her hand when you feel like it, and not because you have a hidden agenda.

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                    • #40
                      Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                      Originally posted by Saif-Uddin View Post
                      http://askimam.org/public/question_detail/13225.html

                      Public display of affection between husband and wife isn't Islamic.

                      :jkk:
                      I don't feel he like that was a good reason tbh. There is nothing in Islam that says we can't hold our spouses hand in public. But I do get this fatwa http://www.islamweb.net/emainpage/in...twaId&Id=89064 that says it should be avoided if it shows a lack of bashfulness or weakness in your country
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                      • #41
                        Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                        Clearly none of you got the humour on this thread.
                        Why so serious ?
                        Last edited by muzzybee; 20-08-16, 10:49 AM.

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                        • #42
                          Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                          Originally posted by Miss Foxxy View Post
                          .... at the mall because if you let go, she'll start shopping. It looks romantic, :love: but it's actually economic :embar: :topsy_turvy:
                          ohooo lol I get that:rotfl:
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                          • #43
                            Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                            Isn't a husband going out shopping with his wife also a public show of affection? regardless of hands held or not.

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                            • #44
                              Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                              Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                              Isn't a husband going out shopping with his wife also a public show of affection? regardless of hands held or not.
                              musls r nt allowed 2 do tht.

                              i wonder y so few people brought pointed it out!!+!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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                              • #45
                                Re: Hold your wife's hand....

                                a scholar said that it depends on the country
                                The Prophet (saw) advised to: “Take benefit of five before five: Your youth before your old age, your health before your sickness, your wealth before your poverty, your free time before you are preoccupied, and your life before your death
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