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  • SpreadTheHaqq
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    Never. 5 salah is not difficult to pray and the space between each prayer is a lot. There is no excuse. If i married someone like that not knowing they can't handle 5 prayers, i would not stick around, it would infuriate me.

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  • Magic.
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Well perhaps they should marry someone who is striving in the same way.



    I don't care if she's been doing it since puberty or not, as long she's doing them all now consistently and on time.
    Arrogant much?

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  • Linkdeutscher
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    Originally posted by Magic. View Post
    So you would ask them the potential apart from oversleeping have you prayed all prayers since puberty?
    Even if she has missed Salah in the past but has repented now and is consistent it's fine.

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  • Stoic Believer
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    Originally posted by Magic. View Post
    Isn't the whole point is to strive though?
    Well perhaps they should marry someone who is striving in the same way.

    Originally posted by Magic. View Post
    So you would ask them the potential apart from oversleeping have you prayed all prayers since puberty?
    I don't care if she's been doing it since puberty or not, as long she's doing them all now consistently and on time.

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  • Magic.
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    Sometimes misses a salah here and there? Bro I think you underestimate the gravity of how bad this is.

    Consistency in salah is something I would never compromise. The only thing I would be lenient with is if occasionally the person accidentally sleeps past fajr because they slept through their alarm or something. And that's only because it's happened to me before.

    But if it's more than that, it is definitely indicative of a deficiency in their imaan. There's no way a Muslim who fears Allah would even entertain the thought of missing a salah.
    No bro I am not underestimating at all

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  • hasan2013
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    No, I would only marry a woman who reads her 5 salahs with dedication.

    The first thing Allah will question is our salah, it is the most important pillar after the shahadah, it's importance and value simply cannot be understated.

    It is simply not good enough to just read some salahs, if a person cannot commit to fulfilling such an important pillar then it is well worth questioning what other obligatory acts they are leaving out. What kind of role model can such a person be to your children?

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  • Magic.
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    So you would ask them the potential apart from oversleeping have you prayed all prayers since puberty?

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  • Magic.
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    Isn't the whole point is to strive though?

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  • ms.muslimah
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    No, I wouldn't marry someone who misses salah. That's a very basic standard to have.

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  • Linkdeutscher
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    No.

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  • Stoic Believer
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    Re: Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tr

    Originally posted by Magic. View Post
    As in does sometimes, sometimes misses a Salah here and there.



    As long as they are trying and asking for forgiveness, wouldn't this be okay?
    Sometimes misses a salah here and there? Bro I think you underestimate the gravity of how bad this is.

    Consistency in salah is something I would never compromise. The only thing I would be lenient with is if occasionally the person accidentally sleeps past fajr because they slept through their alarm or something. And that's only because it's happened to me before.

    But if it's more than that, it is definitely indicative of a deficiency in their imaan. There's no way a Muslim who fears Allah would even entertain the thought of missing a salah.

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  • Would you marry someone who prays five times a day all the time or someone who tries

    As in does sometimes, sometimes misses a Salah here and there.



    As long as they are trying and asking for forgiveness, wouldn't this be okay?
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