I heard a married bro say this to me that he'll rather marry a potato/brick wall than a model if she will raise his children with proper tarbiyah and islamic morals.
Because after a while, you'll get used to the 'beauty' of the model and what's inside will shine more than the outside appearance and that's where the 'not so model' wife will seem and even look so much more beautiful.
It got me thinking subhanAllah.
I'm inclined to think the same because I see many girls in my area who may be beautiful but they portray their beauty for the world to see and a lot of them lack hayaa'. Do we want these girls raising up our future children? that's where the pious 'not caked up' muslimahs come in and give us hope Alhamdulillah.
Brothers, yes we want someone who we're attracted to but there are factors which are greater beauty in marriage.
Sisters, never feel insecure because you're not like those ugly models, focus on safeguarding your deen and to be a rolemodel for your children insha'Allah.
Because after a while, you'll get used to the 'beauty' of the model and what's inside will shine more than the outside appearance and that's where the 'not so model' wife will seem and even look so much more beautiful.
It got me thinking subhanAllah.
I'm inclined to think the same because I see many girls in my area who may be beautiful but they portray their beauty for the world to see and a lot of them lack hayaa'. Do we want these girls raising up our future children? that's where the pious 'not caked up' muslimahs come in and give us hope Alhamdulillah.
Brothers, yes we want someone who we're attracted to but there are factors which are greater beauty in marriage.
Sisters, never feel insecure because you're not like those ugly models, focus on safeguarding your deen and to be a rolemodel for your children insha'Allah.
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