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  • aynina
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    Re: Is not being experienced a problem

    Originally posted by .mirror. View Post
    Man with Jahiliiyah who has slept around with multiple girls is not gross?
    Are you judging reverts here, cus then u havent met OP yet

    I feel likenporn addiction is something a man can easily pick back up whereas i would be the replacement for previous relationships, but not for porn if that makes more sense

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  • Simply_Logical
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    Originally posted by Silent being View Post
    I'm curious now...
    curiosity killed the cat

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  • Ya'sin
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    The solution for these men is to go for a retreat, in a cave, for a year and then come out to get married

    I am sure it is possible for 'inexperienced' people to appreciate marriage and realise it's more than intimacy, they can't all be stupid and hungry.

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  • aynina
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    Originally posted by quark View Post
    All of that is nonsense. Warm and fuzzy? Come on. Someone can love someone solely based on looks for years.
    Then i hope i dont end up with that person, im very emotional

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  • Linkdeutscher
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    Originally posted by quark View Post
    "jahailiyya" is basically code for having committed zina, if I understand you correctly. What exactly makes you think there exists fornicators who don't watch porn? Your plans are wholly unrealistic because you have no idea what you're talking about or how men function in general.
    Agreed.

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  • aynina
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    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    I've actually thought about this before, about whether this lack of experience or exposure to women leads to some Muslim men to make a decision based on the desires that they've been holding in for so long. Also when you've hardly got any exposure to women, you tend to put female beauty on a pedestal. Its really easy for a woman's beauty to cloud your judgment, or for you to think she's beautiful so she must be perfect.

    Im not at all suggesting that Muslim men should go out there and start getting to know women. Absolutely not. Dont really know what the solution is tbh.
    Yea exactly, now we just need to find someone with a great solution, and what you said kinda links to what neelu said, because i feel like when they be watching porn they will have expectations of woman that are impossible etc
    I dont see porn as a replacement at all for zina, if anything its worse

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  • Silent being
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    Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
    yea im with you on this, so much to say but dont want to go into too much detail...
    I'm curious now...

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  • quark
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    Id choose man with jahiliyya over man with former porn addiction any day, thats next level gross, and it makes them have impossible expectations that he will want you to live up to
    "jahailiyya" is basically code for having committed zina, if I understand you correctly. What exactly makes you think there exists fornicators who don't watch porn? Your plans are wholly unrealistic because you have no idea what you're talking about or how men function in general.

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  • Simply_Logical
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    Originally posted by zantz View Post
    I got really good advice here but I dont think its suitable when sisters are watching
    yea im with you on this, so much to say but dont want to go into too much detail...

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  • .mirror.
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    Id choose man with jahiliyya over man with former porn addiction any day, thats next level gross, and it makes them have impossible expectations that he will want you to live up to
    Man with Jahiliiyah who has slept around with multiple girls is not gross?

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  • Silent being
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    Originally posted by zantz View Post
    I got really good advice here but I dont think its suitable when sisters are watching
    care to share?

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  • quark
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    When you dont get aroused when talking or thinking about the specific person, but you feel warm and fuzzy,it lasts longer then a couple of months, also your heart and brain cooperate and its not just your heart that wants it, but your brain knows its a smart decision
    All of that is nonsense. Warm and fuzzy? Come on. Someone can love someone solely based on looks for years.

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  • aynina
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    Originally posted by Silent being View Post
    Basically, he has tested the waters so he's not naive and can't be deceived by beauty. Plus he knows how it works so he's not likely to leave after he gets tired with your beauty.
    Lol thats how I understood the post.
    Perf summary giiiirrrlll

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  • aynina
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    Originally posted by neelu View Post
    wswrwb,

    I agree with mirror. I don't think experience is the problem here. If anything, I think if an inexperienced guy is clueless about how to treat a woman, the chances are he'd be just as much of an idiot if he were zaani except this time he'd be sinful on top of being an idiot. I think part of the problem is with some practising guys, they are frustrated about not being in a position to marry so as a temporary stopgap they look at porn or resort to certain bad deeds but without having sex so they're still virgin when they marry but develop these unhealthy habits and unrealistic expectations of marriage. So even in that case, it's their misdeeds that are the problem, not their "lack of experience". Man I'd be so over the moon if someone found me a virgin husband who stayed away from that nonsense.
    Id choose man with jahiliyya over man with former porn addiction any day, thats next level gross, and it makes them have impossible expectations that he will want you to live up to

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  • zantz
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    I got really good advice here but I dont think its suitable when sisters are watching

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