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  • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

    Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
    If there's one thing this thread has taught me, its to word your OP very carefully.
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    Women lost their modesty when men lost their gheerah..” .

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    • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

      Originally posted by shay5 View Post
      Let me explain it to you...OP was treated badly by a born Muslim man...she thought due to his lack of experience with women he made for a bad husband ,...and assumed a man with experience would have treated her better....I have set her straight...she was treated badly because she was married to an immature brat....not because her husband was inexperienced...
      And that is that

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      • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

        Originally posted by shay5 View Post
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        • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

          Originally posted by shay5 View Post
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          • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

            Originally posted by Muslima London View Post
            gasp

            when she talks about 'experiece' does she mean - like sexually experienced :shock:

            she also meant experienced as in life experience right, not just that bit
            I thought this quote from the opening post bit made that it crystal clear that she was speaking about what I highlighted in your post.

            Originally posted by aynina View Post
            So basically i have this feeling that muslim boys/men misinterpret their sexual desires as love. For example they want to satisfy their desire and because of that, they think they are in love with a certain girl but they are not. They're just sexually frustrated and their nafs trick them into thinking the first girl that crosses their path is the love of their lives,and they marry the girl. But then after their desire is satisfied, they realise the girl isnt even close to compatible, and they are unhappy in marriage and everything goes downhill from there.

            I feel like this is the cause of many failed marriages. And i feel like if a man is experienced through jahiliyya, they have more respect for woman and they actually know how to treat a woman decently
            Somehow, a man who already experienced zina will not be so foolish and as she says it, would have "tested the waters" and wouldn't want to marry someone just because of their sexual desires and that the man who commits zina won't ditch her after satisfying her desires because he has already done so in "jahiliyyah".

            You can see why we were all outraged I suppose.

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            • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

              Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
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              -4...leave it Jun.

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              • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                Originally posted by peras1 View Post
                I thought this quote from the opening post bit made that it crystal clear that she was speaking about what I highlighted in your post.



                Somehow, a man who already experienced zina will not be so foolish and as she says it, would have "tested the waters" and wouldn't want to marry someone just because of their sexual desires and that the man who commits zina won't ditch her after satisfying her desires because he has already done so in "jahiliyyah".

                You can see why we were all outraged I suppose.
                aahhh ok

                well i am sure that OP did'nt mean to word it like that

                'goes back and edits all her posts'
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                • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                  Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
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                  Narrated Anas:
                  The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "None of you will have faith till he wishes for his (Muslim) brother what he likes for himself." [Bukhari]

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                  • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                    Originally posted by zi-zizou View Post
                    -4...leave it Jun.
                    But... But Junaid

                    Why dost thou breaketh the chain

                    I thought use was the one

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                    • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                      Originally posted by Stoic Believer View Post
                      If there's one thing this thread has taught me, its to word your OP very carefully.

                      Otherwise: voila, 12 page long train wreck
                      Started from the bottom now we ere
                      يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                      O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                      Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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                      • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                        Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
                        Why is this dirty thread STILL open?

                        When was ummah forum the saviour for something like this? Something so serious and something that only leads to people becoming more and more lax regarding sins.

                        It makes the already confused mind curious, it opens the doors to zinah, it justifies some of the reasons for zinaa indirectly (It's not you [MENTION=110507]aynina[/MENTION] but this is how the thread has turned into).

                        It is a complete and utter disgrace that we are sitting here 'discussing' how 'experienced' a man should be to appreciate his wife to be, and how to prevent him ditching her after marriage because there is no interest.

                        Lower your gaze, don't watch porn, don't fantasise, get a reality check and learn about islam and its teaching regarding intimacy as well as the responsibilities of marriage. That is your solution.
                        well if u have reported it like i told you then it would have been closed.



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                        • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                          Originally posted by ~Umar~ View Post
                          But... But Junaid

                          Why dost thou breaketh the chain

                          I thought use was the one
                          shut up tubby ... how many junaids do you know in real life?



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                          • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                            Originally posted by aynina View Post
                            Started from the bottom now we ere
                            I'm afraid you lack the experience.

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                            • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                              Originally posted by shay5 View Post
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                              • Re: Is not being experienced a problem

                                Originally posted by peras1 View Post
                                I thought this quote from the opening post bit made that it crystal clear that she was speaking about what I highlighted in your post.



                                Somehow, a man who already experienced zina will not be so foolish and as she says it, would have "tested the waters" and wouldn't want to marry someone just because of their sexual desires and that the man who commits zina won't ditch her after satisfying her desires because he has already done so in "jahiliyyah".

                                You can see why we were all outraged I suppose.
                                Look peras,i dont care about the act of zina and thats not what its about, they would know if theyre own feeling toward a woman is sexual or love, it doesnt affect me if they have experience but it would make it easier on themselves to recognise their own feelings because they would know from the past, can u stop making me sound like a materialistic centered woman
                                يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱعْبُدُوا۟ رَبَّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَكُمْ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ

                                O mankind, worship your Lord, who created you and those before you, that you may become righteous

                                Surah Al Baqarah ayah 21

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