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  • quark
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    Re: Is not being experienced a problem

    Originally posted by bismillaah View Post
    because women are above that. we don't deal with issues men have. alhamdulilaah

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  • bismillaah
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    Originally posted by Simply_Logical View Post
    btw whats with the assumption that only men watch porn?
    because women are above that. we don't deal with issues men have. alhamdulilaah

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  • Silent being
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    Originally posted by Dinobot View Post
    When a muslim guy expects nudity from you, it has less to do with experience and more to do with his filthy disgusting heart.
    what are you talking about? what did the sister say that?

    this thread is turning into something else.

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  • Simply_Logical
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    btw whats with the assumption that only men watch porn?

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  • Silent being
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    Originally posted by aabdall 79 View Post
    It'a like that whole talk about stares, and abuse in Muslim countries, even Isis recruitment.

    It's to do with sexual depravity.
    how is that? do you think those girls were off for the guys? the were plenty of guys in the countries they left.

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  • Dinobot
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    :salams

    Im sorry guys but I'm totally serious about the title. I have a slight suspicion this will be closed or removed, but i have to figure this out its been occupying my mind for the longest time.

    So basically i have this feeling that muslim boys/men misinterpret their sexual desires as love. For example they want to satisfy their desire and because of that, they think they are in love with a certain girl but they are not. They're just sexually frustrated and their nafs trick them into thinking the first girl that crosses their path is the love of their lives,and they marry the girl. But then after their desire is satisfied, they realise the girl isnt even close to compatible, and they are unhappy in marriage and everything goes downhill from there.

    I feel like this is the cause of many failed marriages. And i feel like if a man is experienced through jahiliyya, they have more respect for woman and they actually know how to treat a woman decently. I haven't been disrespected as much by kuffar/reverts as i have been disrespected by muslim men in my life, and it upsets me how many muslim guys expect nudity, inappropriate speech, etc. while kuffar or reverts are way more respecting.

    Whats the solution for inexperienced men? Im totally serious whats the solution? I dont see marriage as a solution because they can't provide for a wife, they dont have responsibility, and even though they think they can pull it off, once they jump into it they realise after 2 months they made a mistake.
    Seriously what is the problem/cause here? And what can we do about it??
    When a muslim guy expects nudity from you, it has less to do with experience and more to do with his filthy disgusting heart.

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  • noobz
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    Originally posted by peras1 View Post
    This thread is weird.

    How can a women prefer a man who committed zina? He would always be comparing you to his previous experiences. Whereas a man who is a virgin is clueless and has no idea and is satisfied.

    If you really care so much, then marry someone who has divorced.

    Society is so corrupt man. I hate this generation. Wish I was born 300 years ago.
    i don't think u'd like being living in a time when u had to go poo poo in the fields.

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  • peras1
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    Believe me men without experience expect way more because they see these lingery advertisement etc and they think all woman are models and theycompare to movies etc, while an experienced man is realistic
    Were you in 15 previous marriages or 1? Have some hayah please.

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  • quark
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    Believe me...
    Why should I do that?

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  • Simply_Logical
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    Re: Is not being experienced a problem

    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    [MENTION=119080]zantz[/MENTION] [MENTION=36228]Simply_Logical[/MENTION] yallah...

    If you mean self pleasuring thats not a solution as well, the guys i refer to in op are defs already into that if not addicted
    didnt mean that, just dont want to share my opinion on the matter without coming across blunt and inappropriate

    Originally posted by Silent being View Post
    lol I don't mind being the cat.I was once told to keep a curious mind. Just wondering what are you guys learning from this the thread.I need to know, I like knowing

    I'm the why, how type of a person:(
    yea its good to have a curious mind but everything has its limits...

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  • mohmin
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    Originally posted by peras1 View Post
    This thread is weird.

    How can a women prefer a man who committed zina? He would always be comparing you to his previous experiences. Whereas a man who is a virgin is clueless and has no idea and is satisfied.

    If you really care so much, then marry someone who has divorced.

    Society is so corrupt man. I hate this generation. Wish I was born 300 years ago.
    I'd prefer someone with experience too, ok its going to sound shameful but if you want me to be honest....


    ...well everyone wants a good time when it comes to... that

    and therefore one of you needs to know what you are doing

    ahem ahem ahem ok thats all i'm saying



    yeah thats why i'm open-minded to being a 2nd wife honestly.

    there is a guy i am actually interested in who is older and married already but i'm waiting for him to ask me.

    if he asks, i'll probably say yes even though i will partly feel bad about it too

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  • aynina
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    Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
    If you go by the ruling that not praying makes you a kaafir, then a non-practising 'born' Muslim who returns to the Deen is a revert.
    Okay, may Allah guide and forgive them ameen

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  • .mirror.
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    Originally posted by aynina View Post
    Believe me men without experience expect way more because they see these lingery advertisement etc and they think all woman are models and theycompare to movies etc, while an experienced man is realistic
    The inexperienced will become experienced then. Every man was inexperienced once.

    And trust me, us men are not that foolish to think that every woman looks like someone from a billboard or a magazine cover.

    Originally posted by Linkdeutscher View Post
    There's actually a valid difference of opinion on this.
    I know.

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  • aynina
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    Originally posted by aabdall 79 View Post
    It'a like that whole talk about stares, and abuse in Muslim countries, even Isis recruitment.

    It's to do with sexual depravity.
    Isis guys are the worst of the whole op subject thing btw

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  • peras1
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    Originally posted by Ya'sin View Post
    Yeh me too, I hate this generation, the porn generation - so corrupted

    it's going to get worse unfortunately
    Literally, 20 years ago everything was fine. Wallah the day of judgement feels so close the way societies have become so corrupt so fast.

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