Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

[sister_82]

Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

you're comparing apples to oranges......

How is it any different? As men you are supposed to protect your family, your wife would have probably spend years caring for you and your children, why cant men have any empathy or mercy on their spouse.

[HelloEverybody]

Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

I'll will be honest here.

yes I would stay, if it is only looks and physical ability that is effected, with exception of intimacy. It wouldn't matter a one bit, I probably would stop noticing it after awhile. After of possible trouble of finding someone, getting used to and tolerate ones problems and someone to get used to me and tolerate my problems. Throwing it away is not worth it.

If mental capacity is severely effected in a way that leads to bad or severe situations quite often and no bearable recovery can achieved. I would leave.

[mazuiz]

Re: Would you stay with your spouse if they became deformed?

May Allah fill our hearts with love and mercy
InshaAllah I would stay, may Allah accept